#Therapy is helpful but holy fuck these people were dangerous to my mh & I shouldn't have put up with it for so long | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

nervoustragedyluminary · 5 months

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Being misgendered repeatedly by an ex friend because I'm on T and apparently I'm therefore not allowed to be "they /Them" anymore & must be he/him while my flatmate repeatedly corrected him while he tried to tell them I was crazy /concern troll them about my mental health because I'd had enough of his abuse & gone no contact has got to be one of the most ridiculous things that's happened to me this year ....

#Almost as ridiculous as the girl who religiously defends every abuser responding to this by going terf on me #Or their other friend who's a predator coming to our house at midnight screaming slurs banging on the door threatening to break our windows #like holy shit I'm lucky I didn't end up hate crimes by them and I'm still anxious it might happen after their creepy friend's “visit”#or the other girl who was trying to pressure me into sex terfing out at my flatmate #or the ex who sabotaged my having a support person for top surgery/almost sabotaged my top surgery who lived with some of them #abusive friendships #Therapy is helpful but holy fuck these people were dangerous to my mh & I shouldn't have put up with it for so long #also being told I was going to die during top surgery by my own mother lol the fuck is my life #trauma #seriously I get panic when I hear someone who sounds like him now and it sucks #im scared because he's bragged about trying to make someone destitute/homeless due to being professionally wronged in the past #&idk what he'd feel motivated to do to hurt or silence me for speaking out about his abuse and connections to a predator #but fuck it what he and the others turned a blind eye to was wrong and no ammount of them threatening witnesses or victims can make it okay

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