#I feel like being scary when angry is a lot SCARIER when you're perceived as male | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

teaandinanity · 1 year

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It is never going to stop being funny to me that people I love and who know I would never hurt them and who have seen me mad like one (1) time five or more years ago...

Are still like ‘oh yeah shit she’s TERRIFYING when she’s angry.’

#one of my coworkers - we're friends! she hangs out with me on purpose outside of work! - was talking a newish coworker #and this somehow came up #anyway based on this and The College Incident it is a good thing I do not get mad often #because apparently I give the distinct impression that I am not only able but eager to kill someone #babble tea (blacklist this for less chatter)#this is the second time she's brought it up to someone who wasn't there that I can remember #so it's just kind of making me think #I guess it's a good thing I'm not a dude?#I feel like being scary when angry is a lot SCARIER when you're perceived as male #and I'm already 6' so I'm theoretically capable of being physically imposing #that might actually be a contributing factor; initial impression is 'marshmallow; pear-shaped; silly'#and then I get mad and it's like 'oh okay yeah this person is totally capable of breaking a chair over my head'

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