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swabian-princess · 1 year

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Why patience is key

Hey girlies,

I think we all know this situation: we write down our goals and how we’re gonna achieve them.

We start working out, do our skincare religiously for a week, eat clean…but after two weeks that feel like years we don’t see much progress.

We don’t have ABs, our skin is not crystal clear and cooking three meals a day annoys us.

We get mad because we did everything we could but can’t really see a difference.

Well, I have bad news for us all. It’s not possible to change your life in a few weeks.

We have to be patient, no matter how hard it is.

We can’t expect our body to completly transform in a few weeks after we neglected it for the last years.

We can’t expect our skin to clear up in a week after we did nothing for the last few months.

It is painful, I know. It’s a bitter pill to swallow, I know. But we have to stay strong and patient.

Results will come with time, remember that.

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red-pill-to-swallow · 7 months

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Doing your part in a relationship

Hey babes,

it’s Monday – a new, fresh week and the ultimate opportunity to make some changes.

I don’t know why it feels so much better to start a new routine on a Monday than it does on a random Wednesday.

I took some time after I posted my last two posts and really thought about the relationship dynamic between my man and me.

I thought about changes that I would like to make and what could help us to become a better couple.

Honestly, I was pretty shocked after all my thinking because it turns out that my man is the rock in this relationship and I am not sure why he is still sticking around when he could probably do so much better.

But let me explain:

I gave up working in my full-time job around January 2023 and have been home ever since then.

My man was aware that I was totally burned out from my job and offered me that I could stay at home and take care of the household chores.

Previously we used to split the chores around the house roughly 50/50. It was very fair and in some weeks he did more than me and some weeks I did more than him, like it’s in every relationship.

I would say that I am fairly good at housekeeping. I know how to cook, how to clean and how to do laundry.

However – I never before was responsible for everything. From going grocery shopping and planning meals to cleaning the bathrooms every week – suddenly all of this was on me.

I struggle really bad with organizing myself, this was one of the reasons why I was so burned out from my previous job, and I started slacking.

I would do the laundry one day and take three days before I started folding it. My man literally had no underwear one time and flipped out because that’s obviously disgusting and instead of improving – I started to get mad at him.

It wasn’t only the laundry, it also began affecting my cooking – which I loved doing before – and I would start making only frozen meals or just serving cold meat cuts with bread.

We started fighting a lot more because my man was sad, that instead of relaxing at home he would need to help me with my chores – after a full workday.

I had my epiphany a few weeks ago (when I made this blog) and realized that my man has every right to be mad at me. He does his job. I am not.

So, let’s see – my man works really though hours. He leaves the house early in the morning and comes home in the early evening. He’s usually stressed because his job is very demanding and he is responsible for a lot of people.

Imagine coming home to your girlfriend, who’s staying at home, and almost nothing is done. The fridge isn’t restocked, the floor is dirty and there is no food. After your shower you realize that you have no fresh underwear because your girlfriend didn’t wash any.

I would flip out too.

My behavior was/is borderline disrespectful and I am honestly ashamed because of it. I would have broken up with me if I was him.

But here we are – still together and I don’t plan on dodging this second chance.

I think many girls that want the lifestyle of a spoiled girlfriend or a stay at home girlfriend don’t realize how hard it is to organize a whole household on your own.

Yes, there might be some men out there that are so rich that they don’t mind employing staff to help around the house, but I don’t think that this is achievable for a woman in her twenties without having various high value connections in the right circles. At least I don’t have those connections.

I am responsible for keeping the house clean, making food and going grocery shopping. That takes maybe 5 hours of my day and the rest of the time I can do whatever I want.

My man only wants to come home to a clean, organized house with a stocked fridge and possibly a hot meal on the stove.

Honestly – he is the one that is working his ass off every day, not me.

The worst is, that I even started to neglect my appearance. I used to shave every second day and that slowly progressed to only once a week. I used to color my hair religiously and worked out at least three times a week.

Now I haven’t touched up my hair in over three months, my roots are disgusting and I am very ashamed because of it. I mean, even though my man pays for my beauty appointments – I couldn’t get my ass up.

However, I cleaned our whole house today. From the bottom to the top. It’s spotless. I did laundry and went grocery shopping and I made a plan on how to maintain all of those things.

I won’t share the plan just yet because I want to make sure that I can actually follow it before I share it with you.

What should you take with you after reading this rant?

Be careful that you’re always a responsible partner. Don’t be like me. If you’re telling your partner that you plan on doing something – actually follow through and do it. Don’t disappoint them all the time.

Make sure that you acknowledge what they do for you and thank them for it every once in a while.

It is unattractive to be lazy and not being able to keep up with your standards. It’s unfair to your partner to let yourself go and they have every right to be upset about it.

Think before you speak and start an argument. Are you really right? Is it worth to start an argument about something that is your responsibility?

I mean, my man made it clear in the beginning: If I want to stay at home and live a cozy life – I have to take care of the house while he works and provides for us both.

He does his part of the agreement. Every single day.

I’ve only done my part of the agreement when I felt like it and that is not okay. But I am changing and I know that he has already forgiven me for all the hassle.

See you soon

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boujeeceo · 1 year

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1-800-cy6er-5lut · 3 months

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mood all 2024🖕🏾

#spicy accountant #sex worker #adult model #black tumblr #perfect butt #ebony #18+ content #pay me for my time #pay to meet #fssw #fsswonly #pay to fuck #pay to play #beauttiful girls #18+ only #seeking arrangement #heaux #sexy ebony

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annikavelde · 3 months

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.:ANATOMY:. Head: LeLutka - Kaya Body: Ebody - Reborn Hair: Usagi Society - Viperinne *NEW* @ The Warehouse Sale Skin: Heaux - Dana *NEW* @ The Warehouse Sale Eyeshadow: Ladybird - Tanya Liner *NEW* @ The Warehouse Sale

.:CLOTHING:. Collar: Kibitz - Malika's Choker *NEW* @ The Warehouse Sale Dress: AURICA - Asua Dress *NEW* @ The Warehouse Sale

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#lelutka #ebody #reborn #usagisociety #heaux #ladybird #kibitz #aurica #paparazzi #babyboo #thewarehousesale #cosmopolitan #sl #slblog #slblogger #secondlife #secondlifeblog #secondlifeblogger

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highclassheaux · 1 year

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Black Friday Lingerie Sales:

If you are making the transition into high end s*xwork now is one of the best times of the year to buy lingerie and begin building your wardrobe. Summer sales, anniversary sales, sample sales and Black Friday/after Christmas sales was when I would buy almost all of my lingerie when I was first starting out.

Most of these sites/designers are a bit on the pricey side (which is another reason to buy when it's on sale) but I put a few mid and lower cost options/brands in here as well because not everyone has Agent Provocateur money.

Agent Provocateur - 30% off site wide (use code AP30) this may not seem like much but if you purchase from their outlet (pieces that are already discounted) it will add up nicely (doing it this way and you can literally buy a set for less than $100).

Bluebella - up to 50% off site wide definitely check out their "outlet" section as well

Bloomingdales - 25% off selected items

Curvy Kate - up to 50% off site wide - great store if you are plus size

Dita Von Teese - 20% off and though that may not be much, her sales page is definitely worth checking out

Fleur du Mal - an EXTRA 30% off of sale items with code 30FLEURYOU

For Love and Lemons (on their site, not VS) - 30% off everything, use code CYBERWEEK (if you're into very feminine, pink, "girly" lingerie, definitely check out their sales page)

Harlow and Fox - 30% off all in stock items (they don't have a large collection of in stock items because their lingerie is usually made to order but I wanted to mention them because their bras go all the way to G cup)

Journelle - 20% off everything which includes their sales page

Moxy Intimates - $10 off $50, $25 off $100, $45 off 150 + free US shipping

Net-A-Porter - up to 50% off select styles

Playful Promises - up to 85% off of everything

Revolve - up to 70% off

Saks Fifth Avenue - up to 80% off of select styles

Studio Pia is having a sale as well (the discount depends on the collection).

The Outnet - an additional 25% off of everything with code BLACKFRIDAY

And my absolute favorite: HONEY BIRDETTE IS 50% OFF select styles (just stop reading and go right now)

Honorable Mentions:

Ann Summers - up to 50% off everything

Yandy - up to 80% off sitewide

I know Ann Summers and Yandy are not considered high end, however, I'm mentioning them because if you need photos, doing online s*xwork or need additional pieces to create content to post on your social media, these 2 sites can really come in handy. However, if you are really slim and/or have a small chest be very careful if you order from Yandy, a lot of their sets have a tendency to run slightly on the bigger side (even their size small) and a lot of their pieces are actually sized S/M and M/L not S, M, L, etc. They do have some XS pieces that will fit A cups fine. But if you are plus size, they have a substantial collection of plus size lingerie.

I'm not mentioning SHEIN because although they are also doing a Black Friday sale, their shit is always cheap lol.

#swonly #fssw #heaux #heaux advice #fssw only #heaux tips #high value heaux #high class heaux

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applexscruff · 6 months

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Neon Nights

Sponsored by: The WareHouse Sale I Neo Japan

C R E D I T S:

Find all things i’m wearing by clicking [x]

◉ W e a r i n g

- Head & Makeup

Lelutka - Ceylon Head [x]

Heaux - Tulip @ The WareHouse Sale [x]

Monso - Jaqcuis Hair @ Kustom 9 [x]

Reverie - Juno Eyebrows [x]

Eerie - Gothy EyeShadows [x]

Tear - Pie Gloss [x]

Nylon Outfitters - Halloween Makeup [x]

Swallow - Gauged XL Ears [x]

DAE - D. Snake Earrings @ The WareHouse Sale [x]

- Body & Clothes

Legacy - Perky Body [x]

Minuit - Kaijin Set @ Neo Japan [x]

Cubic Cherry - Aster Jacket @ Neo Japan [x]

Lilithe - Morta Tattoos @ The WareHouse Sale [x]

Imbue - Evelyn Shorts [x]

Aii - Demonic Touch [x]

- Accessories

Verboten - Kaijin Garter @ Neo Japan [x]

Nar Mattaru - Ultimate Piercing [x]

- Backdrop

ATTIC - Abandoned Arcade @ Neo Japan [x]

Versuta - Hanni Poses [x]

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#SecondLife #TheWareHouseSale #NeoJapan #Neo #Japan #CubicCherry #Monso #Verboten #ATTIC #Llilithe #Heaux #Versuta #Imbue #DAE

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cheekychar96 · 9 months

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Let’s enjoy wine & sweet kisses 🍷 💕

#fssw #sexworkiswork #spicyaccountant #spicycontent #i sell content #heaux #pro heaux #sexworker #304 #lingirie #boudouir

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swabian-princess · 1 year

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I refuse to complain.

I have no right to complain, not about my appearance nor about my health.

I have all the tools and knowledge to transform myself into the best possible version and until I tried everything, I simply refuse to complain about anything.

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sl-shopomania · 10 months

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Look #511

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Mesh head | LeLUTKA - Ceylon Head Skin | [Heaux] - Lauren - 05 Garnet (The fifty event may 25 - jun 20) Lips | TOP1SALON - HD ELEVEN LIPSTICK (Equal10 event jun 10 - jul 5) Bruises | Ladybird - Selene / Worship (Equal10 event jun 10 - jul 5) Hair | Foxy - Mirai Hair (Equal10 event jun 10 - jul 5)

Earrings | MICHAN - Coco Earrings Top | Ascendant - Sand Top / Blouse (Collabor88 jun 8 - jul 6) Skirt & Shorts | Gaia - katsu biker shorts / denim skirt (Equal10 event jun 10 - jul 5) Backpack | TETRA – Ellie Backpack Dog | [Rezz Room] - Boxer Animesh (Equal10 event jun 10 - jul 5)

Backdrop | TROPIX - Coffee Shop TX 01 (FoodCourt jun 5 - jun 28)

I hope you like it!

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red-pill-to-swallow · 7 months

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How to skin

Hey babes,

today I want to talk about skin. Our skin – especially the skin in our face – is one of the first things that we recognize in another person.

This is the reason why it is so important to have clean and vibrant looking skin. Your skin color doesn’t matter as long as it is healthy looking and free of pimples.

Clear skin is a universal sign for good health and it can elevate the look of a person completely.

Us humans tend to find other people more attractive if they have good skin – it’s something in our genes.

Personally, I’m blessed with good skin – I never had acne as a teenager, only some lonely pimples right before my period would start.

However, when my gynecologist put me on the pill when I was around 19 years old I suddenly developed acne and it was horrible. That’s when I started to take my skincare very serious and made a ton of research that I want to share with you.

Disclaimer: I am not a dermatologist. Those are simply my experiences and what I’ve learned over the years.

Why do we even get pimples?

A very short summary: we get pimples, because sebum is clogging our pores and bacteria starts to grow in the pore which makes it inflamed.

Is it my fault that I get pimples? Am I not clean enough?

Yes and no.

Yes – there might be people who are experiencing acne just because they don’t cleanse their face good enough. However that’s something that happens very rarely.

Most people with acne wash and clean their face more often and more thoroughly than the average person.

If you experience heavy acne, don’t try to treat it at home. Instead, seek out a dermatologist to see if the acne is fungal.

I would also recommend getting blood-work done to see if the acne is hormonal.

If you never had acne and suddenly get pimples all over your face it could also be because of your birth control, especially if your birth control is hormonal.

Like I said before, I suddenly developed acne after my gynecologist put me on the pill. The reason for that was that the pill had gestagen in it which is similar to progesterone.

Progesterone is basically stimulating the skin to produce more oils and sebum – pores get clogged more easily and pimples form.

Diet also plays a big part in acne. Personally, I don’t see a difference if I leave out dairy or gluten but some people almost see an immediate effect.

I wouldn’t recommend just stopping consuming gluten and dairy one day, please speak to your doctor beforehand.

Instead, try to limit your sugar and fat intake first before you start to take drastic actions.

My acne is neither hormonal nor fungal, what can I do?

Having a healthy skin-barrier is the key to having clean and vibrant looking skin!

Most of us fell victim to Clearasil and other harsh drugstore products in our youth. I remember slathering my face with a 3 in 1 face wash, face mask and peeling once and my skin was red for days. At that time I didn’t know that the products were simply way to harsh for the skin on my face and wondered why it didn’t work as good as in the commercials.

If you’re just starting out with your skincare journey, here are a few tips that you should consider when you pick out products and a routine:

- a healthy skin-barrier should be your first priority. Everything else can be addressed later on.

- all the products for your face should be fragrance free or contain very little fragrance.

- stick to your routine for at least one month before changing it

- introduce new products one after one and take your time to do so

How does a good basic skincare routine look like?

You don’t need thousands of products in the beginning, keep it simple and gentle.

A good routine could look like this:

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Step 1: use a gentle cleanser to wash your face in the morning. Nothing too heavy. I like to use a foam cleanser for this.

Step 2: use a hydrating toner and apply it with your hands, so you get the most out of your product.

Step 3: while your face is still damp with the toner, apply a hyaluronic acid serum. Never put hyaluronic acid on dry skin, it won’t do anything.

Step 4: wait for the hyaluronic acid to sink into your skin and apply a hydrating face cream all over your face. Do this even if your skin is oily – it still needs moisture.

Step 5: apply sunscreen all over your face and neck. Sunscreen is essential, especially if you use exfoliants.

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Step 1: use a cleansing oil or cleansing balm in the evening. This is to remove your makeup and sunscreen from your face.

Step 2: use a gel cleanser and massage your skin for at least one minute. It’s important that you cleanse every small part of your face. Especially tricky is the skin around your nostrils and on your chin.

Step 3: again, use a hydrating toner and apply it with your hands.

Step 4: apply a thick face cream all over your face, best is something with panthenol.

What are the things that I should avoid?

- touching your face with dirty hands. Always wash your hands before you cleanse in the morning and in the evening. Avoid touching your face with your hands during the day.

- stop picking at pimples. I know – it’s frustrating, but the more you pick on your spots, the more inflamed they get. There also is a danger of you spreading around all that bacteria with your hands and possibly getting scars.

- Never ever use physical exfoliators in the face. They damage your skin with micro cuts that you can’t see with your eyes and damage more than they help. Always look for chemical exfoliators!

See you soon!

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ms-chameleon · 9 months

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Selfcare is a privilege. Never forget that.

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boujeeceo · 11 months

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Black Ladies who got full body hair removal what was it like? I'm booking my electrolysis sessions now, and I'm a little intimidated/scared. Any tips for the after care?

#level up #plastic surgery #heaux #help #want advice

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baldbean · 2 years

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#me #gay guy #demiguy #demiman #selfie #gpoy #single gay #heaux

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annikavelde · 7 months

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.:ANATOMY:. Head: LeLutka - Zo Body: Ebody - Reborn Hair: Monso - Kankst *NEW* @ Collabor88 Skin: Heaux - Peony *NEW*@ Kustom9 Eyes: #N/A - Dazzling Eyes *NEW*@ The Kawaii Project Face Moles: Serenity - Basic Moles *NEW* @ The Kawaii Project Body Moles: Izzie's - Body Moles Chest: Reborn - Waifu Addon Ears: ATTIC - Double Foxy Ears *NEW* @ Kustom9 Tail: STOIC - Kitsune Tails

.:CLOTHING:. Earrings: Insomnia Angel - Gashadokuro Earrings Necklace: Kunst - Neriah Necklace *NEW* @ Kustom9 Kimono: Domus - Evelyn Kimono

.:SCENE:. Lanterns: Half-Deer - Chinese Lantern - Pink Trees: HPMD - Garden Tree 10 - Fantasy Gate: Taikou - Floating Torii Gate Building: 8f8 - Serene Sanctuary - Koi House past RARE Pose: Mirinae - Saora

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