Problem Solvers - conserver (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1345302525-problem-solvers-conserver?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=Andy_De_Leon&wp_originator=cwH4N4G5%2F944BDMx25FYfbFBRHKNmkPiujKD78IQOmjW3YXwzJKkwCZIsKpikDBfC8Hema4EtFsg3RKN9h92fjG3EDyDl6M%2FTEYZ4nzI8OmI41nx3Mjcfv9ftvyRFZfg Five and his siblings are living peaceably in an unchanged 2019 after preventing the apocalypse. Well, somewhat peaceably... Okay, there are problems. A lot of problems. But Five believes he can fix everything. He has a plan.

As a fellow adult child of a narcissist, I know first hand what a complete shitstorm this time of year can be. It can be really challenging to keep your boundaries when the manipulation tactics are in full force. It’s important to know what to look out for, and stay grounded in reality when this happens to prevent any disappointment when the cycle of abuse inevitably repeats if you give in to your narc parent’s demands for supply and attention. This is why each year I host a holiday workshop for the family scapegoat. If you want to… ✅ Start setting or stick to your low or no contact boundaries with narcissistic or toxic family members this year ✅ Gain tools to be able to deal with the narcissist at the family dinner if low/no contact isn't possible for you at this time ✅ Learn how to release the emotions of guilt and shame that narcissists use to try and control their targets ✅ Understand how to deal with people who say "FaMiLy iS eVeRyThInG" and have no real understanding that for some people, family is a great source of damage to their sense of self and ability to feel safe in the world But you don’t ❌ Know if you have the courage to set or keep boundaries, and are afraid of a potential smear campaign ❌ Want to waste more time on strategies that don't work ❌ Think it will be as bad this year, maybe the narcissist in your family changed and will keep being nice to you moving forward? ❌ Know where to start or if it's possible to get through the next couple of weeks as un-triggered as possible Then Surviving the Holidays When You're the Family Scapegoat is perfect for you! The workshop is happening LIVE this Friday at 12:00 pm EST (replay access will be available for 90 days if you can’t make it live), so make sure you register before then so you can secure your spot! Register today for only $57 (or included in tier 2 of my community membership!) at the link in my bio!🔥🔥🔥 #Narcissisticmother #daughtersofnarcissisticmothers #adultchildrenofnarcissists #scapegoat #blacksheepofthefamily #blacksheep #manipulators #estranged #motherwound #cyclebreakers #dysfunctionalfamily #narcissisticabuserecovery #redflags #toxicmother #toxicfamily https://www.instagram.com/p/CmbXMX5sRoX/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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In a world of big family gatherings and endless posts showcasing close-knit relationships, it's natural to feel a pang of jealousy when your own family circle is small. Growing up with a limited family presence can leave an ache in your heart, a longing for the kind of bonds that others seem to effortlessly share.

In my own journey, the landscape of family is marked by its smallness. My mom's family, scattered across Canada and Germany, remains distant due to the miles and unmet faces that separate us. On my dad's side, silence prevails, leaving me with no contact and an unfillable void where connections should have been. Jealousy is a persistent companion, whispering doubts and insecurities as I witness others bask in the warmth of large, united gatherings.

Meeting my husband and becoming part of his family brought a glimmer of hope. Hopes that, perhaps, my longing for close family bonds would finally find a place to root itself. But, entering my husband's family wasn't without its challenges.

Fresh out of a second failed marriage for him, and in the midst of a divorce myself, we faced skepticism and guarded hearts. It wasn't a smooth path, but as time gently carved its way forward, some walls came down, replaced by genuine connections.

Ten years ago, I took on the role of stepmother to his two young sons, a role that has become integral to my identity. And while the family connections weren't instant, bonds slowly but surely found their place. The warmth of his family began to seep into my heart, reminding me that family doesn't always come with a predetermined script. In the beginning, I tried so hard to earn their acceptance, unknowingly chasing a sense of belonging that would come naturally in time. Slowly, I realized that the key wasn't in trying to fit a mold, but in embracing my own authentic self. As the years passed and I healed from my personal struggles, the connections deepened, allowing me to forge relationships with his three brothers and one sister (& their spouses).

Though our relationships may not mirror those in storybooks, they're real and significant in their own way. They've filled spaces within my heart that yearned for connections, offering me the feeling of belonging that I had longed for. My in-laws might be a little crazy and sometimes dysfunctional, but their love is undeniable and unconditional. What strikes me most about this family is their unity. They are always willing to drop everything at a moment's notice to support each other, a loyalty that embodies the essence of what family truly means.

So, to my brothers and sisters-in-law, thank you. Thank you for accepting me, for embracing me, and for filling a void I thought could never be filled. You've shown me that family is about support, and genuine connections that grow over time. In you, I've found the aunts and uncles my daughter adores, and the family I've always longed for. The journey continues, and with each passing day, I am grateful for the story of love and belonging that we're creating together.

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I said what I said. I'm not saying encouragement isn't important. It is. But when it comes to indie, people put words in your mouth. They try to pretend they know how you feel. They dismiss the experience and wonder how you could be a downer or get into trouble often. And you're all probably thinking I'm not doing anything for my sales or I'm not doing enough to ask my friends and family. I added that info for a reason. Did you know that 98% of them don't care? That I take that other 2% with great pride? It's not a lot, but it's mine. I'm still an author. Mental illness is real. Abusive families exist. Trauma isn't a joke. Words do hurt. They run deep into our subconscious. And by not looking to change the system from the bottom up, our integrity means nothing. Actions change the world, because we've already broken trust. #TraumaSurvivor #DysfunctionalFamily #NarcissisticParent #NarcissisticAbuse #Empaths #PeoplePleaser #GrowingUpAbused #Unkindness #NeverEnough #TurnTheWorldAround #DidYouKnow #WishesDontComeTrue #ThereIsNoHappyEnding #LifeIsADisease #ChooseCarefully #PickYourPoison #HelpOrHinder #TheOppositeOfLoveIsIndifference #SupportLocal #SupportIndie #NoIntimidation #IndieAuthors #WrappedInTheRaysOfTheSun https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp28w0DJDfo/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

ミ💖 The importance of setting Boundaries in a Dysfunctional Family !

Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships, especially in dysfunctional families. Dysfunctional families are characterized by patterns of behavior that are unhealthy, destructive, and often emotionally abusive. In such families, boundaries are often ignored or crossed, leading to chaos, confusion, and emotional distress.

Setting boundaries means clearly defining what is acceptable and what is not. It involves communicating your needs, expectations, and limits to other family members. This can include setting limits on how much time you spend with certain family members, what topics are off-limits for discussion, and what behaviors are unacceptable.

In dysfunctional families, setting boundaries can be challenging because these families often lack healthy communication and respect for individual needs. However, setting boundaries is crucial for protecting your emotional well-being and preventing further harm.

By setting boundaries, you are sending a message that you will no longer tolerate abusive or disrespectful behavior. You are also creating a safe space for yourself where you can feel comfortable and secure. Setting boundaries may not be easy, but it is necessary for your own mental health and happiness.

In addition, setting boundaries can also be a way to encourage positive change within the family. When family members see that you are no longer accepting negative behavior, they may be motivated to change their own behavior. This can lead to improved communication, healthier relationships, and a more functional family dynamic.

Overall, setting boundaries is essential for anyone in a dysfunctional family. It is a way to protect yourself, promote positive change, and create a healthier, happier family dynamic.

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Step into a world of passion and intrigue with 'The Convenient Wife #NewRelease By Author, Sylvia Hubbard #steamyromance #intrigue

Charone and Axel’s forbidden union ignites a sensual fire that blazes through the pages. Their love story becomes a smoldering masterpiece as they unmask their desires and confront their demons. More About this book | Buy Direct from Author | Other books by author Tropes/Genre Forced Proximity Marriage of Convenience Family Secrets Identity and Self-Discovery Opposites…

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Problem Solvers - The Séance (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1349243733-problem-solvers-the-s%C3%A9ance?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=andtheny&wp_originator=UycJ6OgI4wX5x3E4fcDyL75c1zWH1i0wLzIN3GK32YB73PmWiYU%2FM%2Fy9EX%2B1s9b5u1rdQr7F%2FA0wqUgFfb5ShV08CJDA9Owo%2B2V9mwjJqwzHE7tiKdxYmqcigGf5kPLv Five and his siblings are living peaceably in an unchanged 2019 after preventing the apocalypse. Well, somewhat peaceably... Okay, there are problems. A lot of problems. But Five believes he can fix everything. He has a plan.