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pinetreevillain · 8 months
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I finally get to share this stupid ass meme
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disappointingcabbage · 3 months
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Fellas, is it gay to live inside another man forever with Satan himself by my side?
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one-time-i-dreamt · 5 months
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I confronted my middle school friend who I hadn’t seen in years at the emergency intercom Heaven exhibition after not seeing her in years. I her why she was such a bitch to me and she said, ‘I just didn’t care about you as a person,’ and that gave me such extreme peace, I was like, well ok. 
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classycookiexo · 24 days
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tsubaki94 · 7 months
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Ectober 12
Repression
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madcat-world · 4 months
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Confrontation - RHADS
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rebockey · 4 months
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I'm no hero. I sing both parts of the Confrontation at the same time like everyone else
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hamsternamedmarinette · 11 months
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copperbadge · 11 months
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You know, I was already aware that I am someone who does not enjoy confrontation, but I did not realize just how avoidant I am until I started tensing up during every cross-examination in this trial because I was worried people were going to be mean to each other. Not only did I have to stay in the room and watch it, they were being mean to each other for my benefit! What if someone has a visible feeling? What if that feeling is rage?
Now, I'm an adult so I manage that anxiety appropriately; after all, if someone starts yelling I know I'm not in trouble. I won't be punished and it's not my job to prevent it. If someone starts to cry, I'm legally prevented from offering comfort, which I am notoriously bad at. Telling myself this works, sort of.
It's not like I'm never confrontational; even online, where I know better, I sometimes lose my temper. And I'm beginning to suspect that while I don't display traditional impulsive traits associated with the H in ADHD, that's because rather than stealing, driving fast, or doing hard drugs, I save it up for picking fights with strangers in public over truly stupid inconsequential shit. But at least when I do that, I control when it happens. There's just an enforced passivity to being a juror that I can appreciate but do not, on the whole, enjoy.
I did have the thought, while puzzling all of this out during a sidebar break, that the therapist I'm seeing in a few weeks is going to get a real earful about this that she probably didn't expect. But then I realized: no. I have zero desire to become more confrontational or work on my conflict-avoidance, and thus I will definitely not tell her about any of this.
The irony burns, but I'm too old for painful personal growth. I'm just going to shout it into the void of tumblr and hope this doesn't count as "discussing the case".
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pinetreevillain · 8 months
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Confrontation Part 3/3
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Previous, Stray ->
Masterpost
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shadowbrightshine · 3 months
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I found us in the wild. Also a fantastic drag performance of Confrontation!
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Finally,
After waiting for awhile, it's finally time- finally time to meet the man in person.
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He walked up to the castle's front gates, two of his soldiers following him, one of them on each of his sides, in full suits of armor with shields. They were carrying things for him.
He stood there for a moment, before slowly knocking on the castle's gates slowly, but with great force.
Everything was coming together, now all he had to do was wait.
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ooc- pspspspsp @teamplasmaofficial
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classycookiexo · 3 months
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aalissy · 11 months
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Kinda in love with Lila’s new hairstyle tho 😳
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geekgirles · 11 months
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Liar Revealed
So Marinette and Sabrina worked together to lure Lila into a false sense of security that eventually led up to her spilling everything in front of an audience she was unaware of. Now everyone knows she’s been lying about everything, she’s a horrible person, and she and Chloé are about to be expelled for good... After 7 years, the fandom finally got what it wanted.
...then why do I feel like I’ve actually wasted those 7 years of my life? 
Buckle up, ‘cause this is going to be a long ride.
As someone who’s been eagerly awaiting for Lila to be exposed since Volpina, a feeling that only grew with each passing episode she’s been featured in, I honestly find this development wholly underwhelming, highly disappointing, even. 
Maybe I’m too vindictive, who knows, but this in no way feels like proper comeuppance for a character who’s been maliciously manipulating everyone around her and relishing in other people’s misery since she was first introduced.
First and foremost, because having Lila accidentally reveal herself while gloating is too much of a cliché. I’ve seen people before mentioning how Lila exposing herself seemed to be the only way this could go, seeing as Marinette’s best attempts always seemed to fail. But if we ignore for a second this was actually set up by Marinette and Sabrina, with the way it’s handled it just feels like a kick in the gut, not the overwhelming catharsis I’m sure most of us were expecting. 
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Because, and this is actually my main problem with the execution, by having Lila expose herself by spouting a self-satisfied tirade of every single lie she’s ever told and people have believed without question as she disparages Sabrina’s attempts to take her down, saying how she could easily turn everyone against her, the narrative is actually framing Lila in the right.
When we as the audience know it shouldn’t be like that. 
Lila only really upped her game in season 5 (and even then the writers still rely too much on the characters being dumbed down around her for it to work), up until then all her lies would have been easily discreditable if the writers didn’t need the class and everyone in Paris to believe her for her schemes to work!
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From our perspective, Lila is nowhere near as formidable as she presents herself to be. Which, admittedly, goes in line with her consistent characterisation (about her only consistent trait aside from being hateful and a liar) that she believes and presents herself to be more special than she actually is. But the problem is no character other than Marinette, Adrien, and now Sabrina ever learnt of this fact! Maybe now that she’s exposed herself, but with the way she gloated about all her plans going off without a hitch...
Which leads us to another reason this was the worst possible execution of Lila being exposed they could have come up with:
It was a stroke of luck.
That’s it. That’s unquestionably what it was. Because hadn’t Sabrina finally grown a spine and drawn the line with the actions she was willing to commit for Chloé’s sake, Marinette would have had no way of knowing of Lila’s plan and preparing accordingly. 
Really, the only positive thing I can say about it is that it could maybe count as character development for Marinette since she finally learned she needed to be as sneaky as Lila if she wanted to take her down. And there’s of course the fact that Sabrina finally broke away from Chloé. Other than that? It’s a fairly sombre scenario, really. 
Because, again, Marinette didn’t manage to finally beat Lila because she had a strong support network (which would have painted a very symbolic and meaningful picture showcasing how, for all the superficial attention her lies can get her, in reality, Lila will always be alone as long as she doesn’t put in the genuine effort to reach out to others like Marinette does), but because she had outside help. Again, help she couldn’t have accounted for until Sabrina herself reached out to her. 
Relating to my previous point, Marinette never got Alya to even believe her about Lila or at the very least question how genuine she was until Lila spelled it out for her. Even though she’s known her best friend is Ladybug for months, which brings forth the question if letting Alya in on Marinette’s secret ended up being even worth it if the writers refuse to have her help her out where it matters (I’ll be sure to go back to this point in a minute, just you wait). 
What else? Oh, I know! How about the fact that, for a season that was supposed to be all about Adrienette winning, the writers purposely robbed us of that Adrienette vs Lila alliance we were promised back in Chameleon, huh? Because Adrien was completely left out of the plan. In fact, ever since Ladybug back in season 3, he hasn’t been allowed to do anything to help Marinette against Lila. As with the Ladynoir conflict in season 4, his relevance all but vanished even though he was a central part of the conflict from seasons 1-3. 
Even better! When he finally spoke up about Lila to Nino and Alya, arguably his best friends besides Ladybug, they completely brushed his concerns off as him just agreeing with Marinette out of boyfriend obligation! I didn’t know intangible things could slap me in the face, but boy was I wrong!
And the best part? This complete disregard of his feelings, lack of communication, and their assuming they know better than him (which disturbingly parallels to his own relationship with Gabriel...) is certainly never going to be explored, let alone resolved. 
What do I mean with all this?
Well, basically that for a show that’s supposed to promote the power of love, friendship, and teamwork, when it comes to Lila Marinette is all alone. Has been since Volpina. 
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But at least that’s done with, Lila got her just desserts, and we’re never going to have to deal with her ever again...
SIGH
Except, not really. Not at all, in fact. 
Because just as she and Chloé were finally being reprimanded for their actions, Mr. Damocles had to choose that of all moments to realise he failed as a principal, attract an akuma, cause a racket, and provide Lila with the perfect distraction to just...walk away unscathed. 
And with the reveal that she actually has more identities, social circles, and opportunities to lie and manipulate to fall back to after being expelled from the Françoise-Dupont...Let’s just say it implies that while Marinette (and the audience) had to endure nothing short of psychological torture, Lila never really had anything to lose.
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Now I ask you...how the Hell am I supposed to consider that a satisfying, cathartic resolution to that particular arc?!?!?!?
And if you permit me, there is one more thing I’d like to get off my chest. 
Alya’s reaction to this.
After learning the truth she rushes to hug Marinette and apologise, being a clear wreck about it. And while Marinette getting an apology once in a blue moon is always a welcomed thing, once again the writers aim and completely miss their shot. Because Alya apologises for being gullible. 
Look, back in seasons 1 and 2, Hell, even back in season 3, I could have overlooked this. Yes, she never listened to Marinette, could be a tad hypocritical, and the whole jealous thing got old and annoying fast, but at least she couldn’t know for certain Lila was bad news. But from season 4 onwards Alya no longer has such an excuse. No, from season 4 onwards Alya’s problem isn’t that she’s gullible, it’s that she willingly and repeatedly chose to blatantly ignore all of Marinette’s suspicions and warnings regarding Lila. Even after Adrienette finally became canon and Marinette had realistically no reason to feel jealous of Lila in any way, shape or form, Alya still couldn’t fathom that, perhaps, her best friend had her reasons for disliking Lila besides a love triangle. 
The moment Alya learned Marinette is Ladybug, the two should have been allowed to talk about Lila, about the real reason Marinette hates her, and to work together to overcome this issue and bring her down. How do you expect me to be okay with season 5 opening to these two having daily sleepovers to talk about Marinette’s love life, but not a single second could be spared after Illusion to have Alya question why Marinette hates her so much, if not connect the dots herself since she is Ladybug’s best friend, not Lila, and Ladybug hates her?
I’ve seen people justify this saying it’s been a long time since Lila lied about being Ladybug’s best friend, and while I’ll argue the last time it was mentioned was actually Chameleon, not Volpina, I could see your point. Except that is not just another lie, like her claiming she knows Jagged Stone or Prince Ali. No, that is the lie that started everything.
It was because Lila lied about knowing Ladybug to impress everyone, especially Adrien, that Marinette completely lost it and chewed her out for it in front of him. It’s because of that lie and the consequent reaction it got from Ladybug that Lila even developed a grudge in the first place. It’s because of that lie that Marinette ever found out about Lila being a liar, because before she first lied to Adrien about being close to Ladybug, Marinette was panicking because she had no chance against someone as incredible as her. If she hadn’t lied about knowing Ladybug, Marinette would have been as fooled by her as everyone else and the two might have never really come to blows.
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So don’t tell me it was never brought up because it was so long ago and it doesn’t matter anymore, when that particular lie carries so much weight and we all know the real reason they couldn’t have Alya in Marinette’s corner is because the writers know Lila needs everyone around her to follow her blindly for her lies to work and everything to always work out in her favour because otherwise she just doesn’t work as a villain.
TL;DR: If you want a good resolution to the Lila Gets Exposed plot, pick literally any fanfic dealing with this exact premise. It’ll be better, I promise.
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csuitebitches · 5 months
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Are you patient or just not confrontational?
every time I struggled to stand up for myself, afraid of confrontation, I was praised for being patient. “Thank you for being so understanding,” they would say. “Thank you for being so patient.”
I’d allow myself to get away with not standing up for myself by justifying it with “at least they thought I was patient. That’s better than being called anything negative.” I’d pretend as if yes, I had been truly patient the whole time, as if my blood wasn’t boiling in disguise. 
the label of being patient is perhaps not the best one to have. Looking back, I wish I’d have stood up for myself, instead of being afraid being looked as mean or too demanding. 
what was the point of being called patient, when I couldn’t stand up for myself?
another issue was that my total insincerity both towards myself and the other party. Neither was I sincerely patient, nor was I sincere towards myself to look after myself. 
so. Let me ask you. 
are you truly patient or just not able to stand up for yourself? 
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