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thekenobee · 1 year

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Cabin Pressure fans- A TRES IMPORTANTE question:

For my project I have to come up with 2d game- and I can't still decide on a concept but I want to make it Cabin Pressure themed- like I don't know, a bear polar collecting Eggwhisks sort of a game

#Cabin pressure #douglas richardson #arthur shappey #All advice will be greatly appreciated ❤️❤️❤️#this is not a drill #Martin crieff #carolyn knapp shappey #bbc #john finnemore #game

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imyourbratzdoll · 11 months

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uhm hi? (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)

(sorry if Its awkward.. it's my first time doing this this and I'm not exactly.. a people person?)

I really hope this is the right portal to send asks.. sorry if this ends up elsewhere (⁠｡⁠ŏ⁠﹏⁠ŏ⁠)

I fell in love with ur writings ❤️ and I just wanted to know maybe if you could do a Bucky barnes one where the reader is like a servant/maid/helper and Bucky doesn't really socialise with her.. and then some piece of information get's leaked and Bucky doubts her (maybe even chokes her out of anger?) And Steve/Sam is there to calm him but yk reader is traumatised and can't stand being near him... But then he finds out that reader is not the one to blame (*act surprised*) and feels bad... But b4 he could apologize there's a threat and reader is in danger and he.. uh.. basically saves the day? (I haven't really thought abt the ending part)

hi honey bunny! it's okay, not awkward at all! I completely understand, I'm the same, haha. I apologise for how long it has taken me to complete this, I don't think this kind of genre is my specialty? but I hope you like it!

summary - bucky snaps, and then you get taken by the enemy.

warning - angst, choking, kidnapping.

the gif I use isn't mine, divider by @newlips

You had been a maid for the Avengers for a long time, always loyal, quiet and quick. When Bucky had joined, you kept your distance, finding the man frightening, but you had felt bad for him. Today had been like every other day, you went around the compound and cleaned, making sure everything was organised, and the kitchen was stocked.

As Bucky entered the room, you barely had time to realise what was happening. His face was even angrier than usual as he approached you. His vibranium hand comes up and strangles you. Bucky pushes you against the wall, “I knew you were a spy! Why the hell did you leak information about me?!” Your eyes are wide as you struggle to breathe, your mouth opening and closing as you try to respond but can’t.

Steve and Sam walk into the room mid-conversation when they stop and notice what Bucky is doing. Both men quickly rush over and pull Bucky off you, and Sam kneels and pulls you into him, checking to see if you are okay. “What the hell, man?!”

“She leaked the information! I just know it!”

Steve shakes his head, looking down at you in pity and mouths an apology before dragging Bucky away.

Weeks pass by with you being cautious in the compound, always running whenever Bucky entered the room, keeping your head down and covering the bruises with a scarf or make-up. You didn’t know they had discovered who leaked the information, and you didn’t know that he felt terrible. You were heading outside to take the trash out when you were suddenly grabbed, too shocked to react before everything went black.

The team was alerted of what had happened, causing Bucky to go into a frenzy. He had been on his way to apologise to you, a bouquet of tulips in his hands, now lying on the floor from when he dropped them, taking off. The Avengers had suited up extremely fast. You weren’t just the maid to them. You were family. Always there to take care of them, stock their favourite things, and be there for advice.

Thankfully the team and you had agreed on a tracker in case something like this happened, so they set off to where you had been taken. A few hours passed, and they finally arrived, taking out anyone and everything that had stopped them from getting to you. Bucky slammed through everyone, an unstoppable killing machine. He stopped at a room you were being held in, his heart beating out of his chest when he noticed your bruised form tied to a chair.

“Shit! Shit! Shit!” He ran over, quickly untying you and holding you close to him. “I’m sorry, I’m so sorry!”

thank you for reading! feedback and reblogs are greatly appreciated.

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anti-terf-posts · 5 months

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Here's some advice as an ex-radfem:

Do not harass radfems no matter what, no death or rape threats, no doxxing, no slurs, no insults, nothing. Because if you do; they will hold on to their beliefs more

Instead point out their wrongs, their mistakes, the harm they are doing. The process is different for everyone. It takes time but it's worth it

Shout out to all ex-radfems 🫂❤️

this is actually really good advice !!

and I love you, ex-radfems ❤️ you remind me that there's good in the world, and that people can get over their prejudice and change for the better :)) you guys are doing awesome, and you're greatly appreciated in this world, especially by the trans community. ❤️

#asks #gokbukesstuff #rape tw #rape mention

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cayemm · 8 months

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Your art is amazing in all aspects! It's very inspiring! My sister and I both adore your Morrowind drawings especially.

However one thing about your art which has left me in awe is how 3 dimensional it is. "It's like you can hold them" as my sister says.

I've been trying to improve this aspect of my drawing but it's very overwhelming. I don't know what to do and what to learn. Any tips or advice in this regard would be greatly appreciated. Like what do I even learn? Anatomy? Perspective? Shape design?

Thank you very much💖

AHHHH this is such a kind thing to say, thank you so much ;; ❤️ i don't know what to say,, but i'll try my best to explain how i go about drawing!!

from my perspective, what really helps develop a sense of structure and three-dimensionality is breaking shapes down to simplified forms, take this maav sketch as an example:

breaking down objects into cylinder-like and rouded shapes provides a good visualization of volume and how an object moves and rotates in a three dimensional space! so yes, you were right!! structurization and perspective are crucial to learn along with anatomy. here's how i like to do it:

making grid-like structure studies like these helps me with shading and rendering later - think of it as some kind of a preview which shows you where exactly will the volumes intersect, curve, bend etc i hope i was able to answer your question and best of luck in your drawing!! much love :) 💖💖

#ask #tutorial #faq #kind of? jhjkdahklkj

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irradiatedpiratebooty · 4 months

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Yall I hate making personal posts like this. Genuinely. I try to keep my personal real life away from social media. But christ I'm struggling here.

I have really severe ADHD. I cannot work or function or do anything without my medication. I physically can't. But right now my medication is completely unaffordable for me.

I've been applying everywhere I can, but I live in a college town so the competition really fucks me over. I mean, which would they rather pick, a competent college student, or an adhd/autistic dropout who never learned how to mask properly?

And recently, I got dropped off my insurance plan. And thanks to me being unable to work decent jobs, I haven't earned enough to file enough taxes to qualify for affordable Healthcare. The only Healthcare I legally qualify for is a Healthcare that's $300 a month when I'm living off pocket change.

I really hate to ask, I do, especially since right now I'm without my medications so I can't get many things done, if at all, but if anyone is willing to help me out, I'm doing $5 doodle commissions. I'll work down the queue as best I can, it'll be slow but I'll do my best.

Link to my Ko-fi for assistance is below. I appreciate the help. Currently I can get a one month prescription of my medications for $45. So I'll be able to get it relatively soon but I need to save up so I can afford it each month.

If you're not able to assist that way, any advice on how to afford medications (I already use GoodRX) or any suggestions on jobs, would be greatly appreciated too.

#personal post #financial help #funding #ko fi #$5 doodle commissions #doodles

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morallyinept · 8 months

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Welcome to my safe space, featuring Dieter. He likes to tag along and cause some mayhem.

Here you'll find nothing but positivity, love and support. We're here when you need us.

Please, have a look around and feel free to re-blog this for when you need a pick-me-up.

Dieter and I hope that you know how fucking awesome you are. 🖤

Check out all my self-care posts below 👇🏻

Self-Care With Dieter & Jett

How Pedro Deals With Anxiety

You're making it through the swamp

You made it to Friday

Pamper Sesh With Dieter & Jett

You are somebody

Don't be a sheep

Feel Good Friday with Dieter Frankie & Jett - Special guest Frankie Morales

Don't force it

Money, money, money

Positive Thinking With Dieter & Jett

They're just numbers

More Positive Thinking With Dieter & Jett

World Mental Health Day 2023 🌍🧠❤️

You are stronger than you think you are

Sexual Expression & Repression with Dieter & Jett

You're more than welcome

Recognising The Signs Of Depression With Dieter & Jett

Overcoming Loneliness With Dieter & Jett

Be proud

Beat The Bullies With Dieter & Jett

Say no this NOvember

Self-Compassion With Dieter & Jett

You're an inspiration

Coping With Loss With Dieter & Jett + special guests Agent Whiskey & Marcus Moreno

Self-Care With Dieter Pedro & Jett - Special Guest Pedro Pascal

It's okay

Ditch The Guilt With Dieter & Jett

New Year Promise

Your primary audience is you

There's always tomorrow

The hump

Put yourself first

You're Wanted

More love to come soon...

YOU. ARE. STRONGER. THAN. YOU. THINK. 🖤

Do you. Then do Dieter.

🖤

ℹ️ Dieter and I always strive to bring you unbiased, fact-checked advice. We're not licensed therapists, so we do a lot of research to ensure we can provide helpful and informative posts. Well, I do. Dieter mostly sits around eating KitKats.

MAIN MASTERLIST

Buy me a Ko-fi ☕️ If you like my work and enjoy what I put out there, you have the option of buying me a Ko-fi, if you'd like to. It's never expected, but always greatly appreciated. 🖤

#self care with dieter & jett #dieter bravo #pedro pascal #pedro pascal characters #dieter bravo the bubble #self care #you're awesome #jett has spoken #jett's pedro boys

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nancydrewwouldnever · 7 months

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Okay aside from Chris Evans, like let’s put him and this mess to the side for a sec…..

can we discuss HOW to do this regarding other things and life in general:

“step back, and remember to put things in perspective. Let's deal with things as they happen, and stop letting the mere idea of things run our "lives"”

I have an anxiety disorder, dealing with family health issues, etc and I have a new therapist and am I’m trying new meds so that part is going okay, but my mindset has been shit due to this mess for years. I started to catch myself when those thoughts of future pending doom happen, but it still affects my nerves and my nervous system ain’t shit. 😅 but if anyone could offer advice on how to calm anxious thoughts or just negative thoughts in general, like logically your brain is trying to anticipate the worst so you can be prepared yet it’s stressing you out in the present, how do I turn this off? I’d greatly appreciate any and all advice! ❤️

My only advice is it takes time and practice, time and practice. I started doing a lot of mindfulness practices which teach you to look at problems your anxiety is trying to assault you with as cars passing by on a road that is below you while you stand on a mountain. You can see the cars/thoughts zipping by, but at the removed view they don't have the same power to make you want to hyperventilate. You can also do this with intrusive thoughts in general, put them at a remove from your immediate frame of mind. I found these meditation techniques on a mindfulness podcast, so I think if you google you will find some suggestions. That's the biggest trick you have to learn for yourself though, what works for you to help push those feelings/thoughts back from the forefront of your mind. I wish you the best!

#ask

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dumplingsjinson · 1 month

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Hey guys! For those of you who happen to have children, my friend would love if you could fill in her survey for her. It’s for her honours course and it would be greatly appreciated if you could help her out with it. It only takes a few minutes to fill out.

I’ll link the survey here, as well as her introduction, which I’ve copied and pasted, just so you can have a brief summary of what this is about.

Thanks so much for your time! ❤️

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Hi Mums and also Dads!

My name is Sabrina, and I am currently tackling an exciting challenge in my biomedical engineering honours project at UTS. I would like to develop an innovative device or product tailored to simplify daily tasks for new parents, particularly mothers.

To understand the needs, and challenges of new motherhood, I am reaching out to all new mothers for your advice. I've crafted a survey that dives into what could truly make a difference in your day-to-day life. I'd be thrilled if you could take a moment to share your insights and experiences by checking out the survey linked here: https://forms.gle/A2K8mzLF3zFRS3RF7

Your feedback is invaluable, not just for guiding the design and innovation of a supportive device, but also for ensuring it resonates with the real-world needs of new mothers. Every question is optional, and all responses are anonymous. Any personal information shared inadvertently will be kept confidential and excluded from my research. Should you wish to modify or retract your statements at any point throughout the year, please feel free to reach out to me via Facebook Messenger.

Thank you sincerely for considering this request. Your input could significantly shape the success of a project aimed at making motherhood a bit easier.

Warm regards,

Sabrina

(Survey link below as well for easier access:

https://forms.gle/A2K8mzLF3zFRS3RF7)

#personal #survey

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tadpolesonalgae · 2 months

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Hello! I have wanted to start writing for a long time and I was wondering if you have any tips for new writers? (Any advice is greatly appreciated 😊)

Have a lovely day ❤️

Hi hello!! I’m so sorry this has taken me so long to actually answer—every time I begin trying to attempt a comprehensive list of tips I always second guess myself or think it isn’t coherent enough and end up deleting it 🫠🤦

First and foremost, knowing the platform you’re working on!

Back in the old days when I first started writing on here, I had no idea how tags worked (still struggle), no idea how to link things, how to structure a fanfic or any idea about layout (what font to use for a title, where to put the pairing so people know who you’re writing for, word count if you want to include that, etc.), and didn’t know how to put that ‘read more’ thing on, so I strongly advise being familiar with the platform you’re going to write on 😭

Secondly, spelling and grammar!

Some people don’t mind it as much, but being familiar when to use capitals, when to use commas, speech marks and quotation marks, how to end dialogue too in terms of where the punctuation goes! (Which still sometimes messes me up 🫢)

Proofreading too I think is very important! Again, it might bother some people more than others, but as a general rule, making the story simple to read so no one struggles with figuring out how to say the sentences in their head will benefit the coherency :)

Knowing what you’re writing!!

I went on a tangent about this a couple of days ago (I think?), but knowing who you want to write for, what type of story (smut, angst, or fluff as the general three), how you want to format your fics: do you want to write drabbles/headcanons/one-shots/multipart fics? A mixture of all of them? What suits you best?

As a side note: scheduling?

I think it’s important to know how much you’re capable of writing without risking burnout! Especially with fanfiction where I’m assuming you want to start because you enjoy it, to not lose the fun of it through feeling pressured to write as much as possible :)

Sometimes you might be able to write more often than others, and it’s good to be able to know what you need, whether that’s time away from writing or forcing your way through it—though it can take a while to figure out. :)

#anons <3 #writing?#I hope this might help and again I’m so sorry it’s taken so long to formulate a response 😭🧡💛

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fattypat-rick-ty · 2 months

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Y’all it was too much. I couldn’t watch the movie with my parents cause it was too stressful [emotionally] and they only like me cause I’m kissing up to them so they can stop bullying me like- it was all just too fake and I can’t stand being near them Idk how to act and I’m scared they’ll see through my like.. fake love? Even though I do love them but being what they want is so tiresome. I’m pretty sure they’re going to forget what holiday is coming up like every other year anyway, not that I want them to cause I don’t want to be reminded of how old and deteriorated I am I just want them to give me money tbh so I can leave the house and pretend my life doesn’t exist 😭 and the pressure to eat pizza like I’m scared it’ll trigger me and I’ll eat the whole damn kitchen like the fat blob that I am and I’ve been losing so much like I just want to be skinny for my •••••day more than anything. If I can’t celebrate the way I want then at the very least I want to ⭐️v and be the thinnest I can possibly be! God please give me that one thing this •••••day you know? I never ask for anything like gifts and such other than to go out and do something that makes me happy

Like my siblings too, I feel every time I talk they can’t wait for me to shut up and Idk if they’re just depressed or if they really think I’m that annoying and my parents I can never tell how they’ll react around me. I just want to have at least one friend to not feel like a burden around. This community is the only thing keeping me sane and from feeling crazy over how lonely I am and it feels like it’s all because I’m fat I hate my body

I love my body

I hate my life

I love myself

I could be better

PS I’m planning to at least watch Lisa Frankenstein and hopefully I figure out something to do with the other 14-22 hours of that awful day 😤😭🥹

any advice would be greatly appreciated and if you’d just like to vent you’re welcome to ❤️

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pillarsalt · 1 month

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I just want to thank you for taking your time to respond to all these questions that get sent to you. Your advice is so helpful and greatly appreciated <3. And I am sure I am not the only one that feels this way. Take care of yourself!

Thanks anon ❤️ I always tell people not to be afraid to reach out to other women to talk, and I truly believe it's one of the best ways we can help each other out. I'm very honoured that people want to hear my advice and what I have to say.

#ask

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selreneelf · 2 months

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Hi beautiful 🥰

I hope you're doing great. Sorry for the late feedback

First of all, thank you so much for the reading. It was a very thoughtful and interesting reading

The warning about someone's manipulative behavior is very eye opening and it's comforting to know there's a protective presence foreseen to help me navigate this, and I think I have a good guess who that person is 😊

Your advice about self love and deserving the best is a powerful reminder that I needed to hear

I'll be more cautious moving forward keeping your words in mind

Your guidance is greatly appreciated, and it's given me a lot to think about

Thank you again for this wonderful reading

Have a wonderful day/night

❤️

Omg hi! I’m glad that you enjoyed your reading! It was my pleasure! Thank you so much for your feedback and compliments! It made my morning! Have a wonderful day/night as well love 🥹💕

#free tarot readings #free tarot #free tarot love #tarot #free tarot reading love #free tarot reading #paid tarot readings #feedback

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justagalwhowrites · 3 months

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Hi there! I love your content!!! I just started writing my first fan fic cause you inspired me so much and need a bit of help if you wouldn’t mind? I’ve posted chapter one but am not sure how to make a “master list” where it holds all the chapters? Can I just keep posting and it will automatically put the next chapter in order after the last one I posted? I always thought my panic attacks of just having people see my fan fics would be the worst part, but navigating this app seems to actually take up most of my hyperventilating. Any help you could spare would be greatly appreciated!

Hello Bestie!

OMG I'm so excited that you're writing!!!!! That's AMAZING! I hope you have the best time telling your story and sharing it with everyone and I'm definitely going to go check it out if that's OK ❤️

As far as a master list goes, this is how I made mine. I should preface this by saying, I am really really REALLY bad at Tumblr and did this by fumbling around like a half blind fawn so there could very well be a better way to do it. If there is and people are reading this post, please comment or reblog or reach out directly to this lovely human and help them out so they're not stuck with my probably awful advice.

SO! Start with a basic text post and just put Master List in the title field (or whatever you want to call yours!) Then go in and put down whatever info you want to include for your fic (like a summary and whatnot) and put in a chapter title (or, for your main master list, the title of the fic) as part of the list in the body of the post. Once the title is in, you're going to want to link to the chapter or fic. To do that, highlight the text you want to link from and go to the lil link option that will populate when you highlight the text. It's the second icon from the right on the screenshot below.

Click that icon and then paste the URL of the chapter you want to link to.

Once you have your chapters listed, just press post! You can pin it to the top of your profile with the three dot menu on the upper right of the post (see screenshot below) once it's posted or build it into the links in your description of your blog if you change the layout of your blog and are comfortable playing with a smidge of HTML.

To add more chapters or fics later, go to the three dot menu on the upper right of your post and press edit (see screenshot below). Then you just repeat the process above and scroll to the bottom of the post and press save when you're done. The post will then update.

Unfortunately, I don't think there's any way for it to be automatic! I wish there were, it would be so convenient.

But that's it! If you have any other questions, feel free to send me a DM or another ask, I'm happy to help out! I may not be the best person to ask but I will definitely try my best. And if anyone has a better way to do this, please share! I love this hell site but it is, indeed, a hell site.

Thank you so much for reading! Good luck on your writing journey! Love you!!!

#fanfic #send asks #kit answers

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skippyv20 · 4 months

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CHRISTEL for you!❤️

Skip, Julie here. Christel in Belgium. Christel, how lucky you were and what an absolutely wonderful comfort you must have been to your parents. I knew an amazing woman who never married and lived with and looked after her parents their whole lives. What an inspiration she was to so many of us. She passed at 94 and is remembered daily as a better person than most.

I note that Social Services in Belgium is supposed to assist its citizens and wonder if perhaps you need to try and make contact with them again as you may get a more compassionate hearing from different workers. You also mention a number of serious health issues. These issues are no doubt weighing heavily on you mind and your life seems difficult enough without added anxiety.

Have you actually opened up to anyone at the hospital or who treat your health and actually told them what you said to Skippy or do you do what many of us do when asked how we are coping and put on a fake positive note. Christel, you need to open up to someone, anyone and ask for assistance.

You have been coping for 3 people for a long time. You are used to coping by yourself. It is time to ask for help. People can’t help if you don’t ask for help. Will everyone help? No. Some people won’t get involved however you have reconnected with your faith. Phone your local religious organisation and ask for help or go and visit.

I worry you are alone with your fur babies which is wonderful if you feel great and prefer it that way but it seems to me you need a friend too. A neighbour, anyone you can interact with.

Do not lose hope in The Heavenly Father. Ask for help but be genuine in your request and when you receive help from any quarter don’t turn it away, it may be what you have been asking for. Please stay connected to Skippy, every connection helps, even if we are all in different parts of the globe and can’t help physically. Our connections are Skip and above all God. Stay positive, good things do happen when we least expect it.

Julie! Thank you for such a heartwarming response for dear Christel! I know she will greatly appreciate it. Great advice as well. You are so kind to take the time as always…caring for us all! God Bless you dear Julie!🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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crazycatsiren · 1 year

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I'm not sure if you can really give advice on this matter, but I really trust your opinion.

I'm friends with someone who I believe is experiencing a delusional (I am not a therapist or anything, so I can't say for sure, obviously). They claim to be a demigod and have a very intricate story to follow along with this. I don't personally believe them, but I've been told the right thing to do is go along with the delusional, just not add to it.

This is greatly tearing me in two. On one hand, I don't believe this is ok. I believe thinking this about yourself is kind of hubristic and very harmful. On the other hand, this person is a new friend, and I really enjoy talking with them.

What would you recommend I do? Should I cut them off, or is it ok to stay friends with them? I feel really lost.

Thank you so much. I greatly appreciate you. ❤️

Delusions are not easy to deal with. And I don't think there's one agreed upon way of dealing with them. Some say go along with them if they're not hurting anybody. Others say don't do that.

It sounds like this person needs professional psychiatric help and may not be aware of it. If you're comfortable letting them know, then that's really all I can think of. I don't know them. I have no idea what they're like, or whether their delusions could progress to harmful levels. I know my mother's certainly did, and I know first hand how dangerous untreated and unaddressed delusions can be. But everybody is different, and I'm not a professional. It's also not your job to help someone if they don't want to be helped. You'll have to make the call based on what you think will be right for you.

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squiretinnion · 6 months

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hi okay i have begun my journey into Painting The Little Guys and it is. Less straightforward than i was expecting for some reason. what is a wash. how do i drybrush. how do i know if i need to use primer or not. you do not have to answer these questions but i would greatly appreciate resources/advice for someone who has not picked up a paintbrush since middle school 🥺😭

Hi!!!

I am sorry if this is insanely long but here we go... The foundations of the little guys is your main thing I think, if you have resin guys you should give them a lil dish soap bath first but if they are plastic ur good. Priming is in my book essential for them, easiest once they are built but if ur a rebel like me I prime when they are still on sprues 😅 any ol primer is fine, you don't need expensive stuff for this, I use an off white or black cheap spray paint, just gets em a nice even base to work with!

Drybrushing! Is super cool to do, you should use a chunky round brush working from your darkest shade to lightest, get a little paint on a palet of anykind (mcdonalds napkin coz they got that shine so the paint just doesnt soak into it, or an actual palet😅) and like circularly work it through the brush so only a little paint is all over the bristles then just gently working it with a tiny bit of paint at a time over the model in circular motion,,, i will say its better for detailed larger models or scenery bits, love it for big walls, and its a little harder on a smaller more figure scale to get into little nooks and things but its a cool effect!

Washes are the best especially for folks newer to model painting, same with contrast paints! once you have ur lil guy painted with all the colours you want, and its all dry, thats when you do the wash, i use a darker wash to add shadow super quickly, just cover the areas wanted, itll be super runny and thin so you just spread it where you want and dont need much, but you can get cool washes i have ones for mud blood and oil haha, easy shadows and effects, but you can get all kinds and glowy ones and things😉!

You can also get effcts paints like that if you wanna go all out, mostly muds and snows and stuff for terrain 🙂

A good miniature brush is worth it i would say too, look after your brush babiez!

Citadel paints are well known for a reason lol but any miniature paints are good!

I absolutely will answer any and all questions if you need anything! I love my lil plastic guys ❤️

#sorry if this is incoherent #🫣

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