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Enneagram Types (Part 2)
Here’s a description of each Enneagram type, including their core motivations, fears, desires, and typical behaviors, along with information about their wings:
Type 6 - The Loyalist:
Core Motivation: Sixes seek security, guidance, and support. They strive to find safety and stability in their environment and relationships.
Core Fear: Sixes fear being abandoned, unsupported, or without guidance. They may worry about potential dangers and uncertainties.
Core Desire: Sixes desire to have security, certainty, and trust. They long for reassurance and reliable relationships.
Typical Behaviors: Sixes are loyal, responsible, and often seek guidance from authority figures or trusted individuals. They may be cautious, vigilant, and prepared for potential risks.
Wing 5 (6w5): The Defender
Fives bring an intellectual and independent dimension to Sixes. They may have a more withdrawn and observant approach to their loyalty and may seek knowledge to feel more secure.
Wing 7 (6w7): The Buddy
Sevens add an adventurous and optimistic element to Sixes. They may seek distraction from anxieties and look for exciting experiences to balance their need for security.
Type 7 - The Enthusiast:
Core Motivation: Sevens seek pleasure, excitement, and new experiences. They strive to avoid pain and discomfort and seek fulfillment in the present moment.
Core Fear: Sevens fear being trapped, limited, or missing out on opportunities. They may avoid facing difficult emotions or situations.
Core Desire: Sevens desire to be happy, satisfied, and fulfilled. They long for freedom and a sense of abundance.
Typical Behaviors: Sevens are enthusiastic, spontaneous, and often have a wide range of interests. They enjoy seeking new experiences, possibilities, and tend to be optimistic.
Wing 6 (7w6): The Entertainer
Sixes bring a practical and security-oriented dimension to Sevens. They may have a more cautious approach to their enthusiasm and may seek support and guidance in their pursuits.
Wing 8 (7w8): The Realist
Eights add a bold and assertive element to Sevens. They may be more focused on power and assertiveness in their pursuit of pleasure and may have a stronger desire for control.
Type 8 - The Challenger:
Core Motivation: Eights seek control, independence, and protection. They strive to avoid vulnerability and stand up for themselves and others.
Core Fear: Eights fear being controlled, manipulated, or vulnerable. They may worry about being taken advantage of or appearing weak.
Core Desire: Eights desire to be strong, self-reliant, and in control. They long for justice, fairness, and protection for themselves and those they care about.
Typical Behaviors: Eights are assertive, confident, and often take on leadership roles. They have a strong presence and tend to be direct and confrontational.
Wing 7 (8w7): The Maverick
Sevens bring an adventurous and pleasure-seeking dimension to Eights. They may have a more lighthearted and optimistic approach to their assertiveness and desire for control.
Wing 9 (8w9): The Bear
Nines add a calming and harmonizing element to Eights. They may have a more grounded and receptive approach to their assertiveness and desire for control.
Type 9 - The Peacemaker:
Core Motivation: Nines seek inner and outer peace, harmony, and avoidance of conflict. They strive for comfort and a sense of unity with others.
Core Fear: Nines fear conflict, disconnection, or loss of peace. They may avoid asserting themselves or facing difficult emotions.
Core Desire: Nines desire to have inner stability, peace, and to maintain their relationships. They long for a sense of wholeness and unity.
Typical Behaviors: Nines are easygoing, agreeable, and often go along with others' preferences. They seek to maintain harmony and may merge with others' opinions.
Wing 8 (9w8): The Referee
Eights bring a stronger assertiveness and a desire for power to Nines. They may be more willing to stand up for themselves and others and may have a stronger sense of individuality.
Wing 1 (9w1): The Dreamer
Ones bring a sense of responsibility and a desire for order to Nines. They may strive for personal improvement and may have higher standards for themselves and their relationships.
Remember that individuals may vary within each type, and the wings offer additional dimensions to their core motivations. The Enneagram system is a tool for self-awareness and personal growth, helping individuals understand their patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving.
Stay tune for Enneagram posts.
xoxo
J.
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Collage of enneagram characters I made for an amino post.
Edit: Replaced Chiaki with Napstablook. She’s an obvious 5 that I typed wrong.
Edit 2: Rarity is likely a 2w1, my apologies. Sera might be E6, I saw a good argument for her. I’ll make a part 3 going into subtypes.
Edit: Massive Update
Edit 2: Not sure if I’ll make the subtypes one. It’s taking so long to find all these different examples. I’ve only gotten to so5. Also Natsuki being E4 was a CRAZY take.
Edit 3: Nicole is a sp7 I just don’t feel like changing it. I was doing an analysis for this acc (coming… whenever) and reading subtype descriptions and nope, not a sp8.
Edit 4: No longer stand by Shion sx4. She’s a sx7. Probably, anyway.
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Barbie: Ken [ESFJ 9w8]
MBTI Type: ESFJ
Ken is desperate for the love and attention of Barbie, and lives for her to validate him by paying him a compliment or making room for him in her life (she never does). He has no life outside of craving her approval, and is very sensitive, easily rejected, and competitive. But he also is quite competent when it comes to influencing people and their feelings, and bringing the…
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Enneatype 9 summarised!!
Core type-
Passion: sloth.
E9s are extremely lazy when it comes to figuring themselves out, in fact, they’re more active when it comes to avoiding this.
Fixation: indolence.
They're also rather lethargic when it comes to their feelings and needs, and so, not allowing themselves to do what they’d most desire.
Trap: seeker.
They seek outside of themselves to what can help them from their problems, running from themselves.
Defence mechanism: narcotization.
To avoid being uncomfortable and keep their self image of being harmonious, they narcotize themselves to stop any negative, intense or painful emotion.
Virtue: action.
To overcome this laziness, the e9 has to learn to take action in what they love and who they are. They must learn to experience their essence.
Key traits:
Over-adjustment and merging, resignation, easygoing nature/affability, indecision.
Subtypes-
Self preservation [sp]:
The sp9 merges with things like routine and physical comfort. These routines can be anything, as long as they feel their painful thoughts and feelings are being suppressed by them. They can hold more grudges to others and obligations when they don’t fit their routines, ‘you asked me so now i don’t feel like doing it anymore.’
Sexual [sx]:
Sx9s have the tendency to merge too much with someone else, often to the point they lose their entire sense of self. This makes it hard for them to notice what they don’t and do want and need, when they do they’re often scared to express these needs and so continue to suppress.
Social [so]:
So9s are extremely active compared to the other subtypes. They merge with groups and think that they need to work hard to obtain and keep this status in their social circle. They can even look similar to e3s at times, the difference is that they truly strive for acceptance of the group and a sense of belonging instead of material success.
Contradictions-
INFP, INFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENFP, ENTP, ENTJ, ENFJ, ISFP, ESTJ
The most important misconception in these contradictions are intuitive types. This is due to psychological interia (concretism, lack of openness, etc), robot habit-boundness (bound to custom, regularity and tradition), distractibility (oversimplification of inner and outer world and laziness). All this directly contradicts intuition's main focus on abstraction, creation and overcomplication. E9 is also widely regarded as incompatible with Fi dominance, this is particularly prevalent in narcotization, being the deadening of feelings, while Fi values their emotion most. E9s also tend to lack communication about themselves, which is strange considering Fi being occupied with their self identity and expression.
Types you might want to look into if you are on this list are e2, e4, e5, e6 and e7.
Compatible types-
Self preservation: ISTP, ISTJ, ISFJ, ESTP, ESFP
Sexual: ESFJ, ISFJ, ISTJ, ISTP
Social: ESFJ, ISFJ, ISTJ, ISTP, ESTP, ESFP
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Enneagram Type 9
An overview of an enneagram type. Not an expert. May change later.
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Center: Gut/Instinct/Anger
Other triads: Positivity, Withdrawn, Attachment
Basic motivation: Peace and harmony
Basic fear: Conflict, negative changes
Wings: 9w8, 9w1
Disintegration/stress: 6
Integration/growth: 3
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Traits
- Strengths -
Values peace and harmony
Accepting and understanding of others
Warm, welcoming
Adaptable
Peaceful
- Weaknesses -
Too passive at times
Will not open up about their own needs
Fear of conflict
Stubborn
Dissociative
Lots of self suppression
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Wings
- 9w8 -
The 8 wing helps the passive 9 core be more assertive and confident. They are not shy to share their own opinions and thoughts with others. They can be more outgoing and social. 9w8s can express their anger a bit more comfortably than the typical 9 - but it's only if they find it absolutely necessary. After all, they still do not want to cause conflict. This fear can clash with 8's intensity.
- 9w1 -
The 1 wing adds a perfectionistic and moralistic character to the 9 core. They prioritize fairness and harmony, much more people focused. They are more reserved and calmer compared to 9w8. 9w1s try to see all sides of a situation but will still try to choose the right answer in the end.
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Disintegration: 6
When 9s disintegrate to 6, they become fearful, anxious, and insecure. They can feel overwhelmed and as a result, can be defensive and passive aggressive. They can very indecisive during disintegration and rely on others to make decisions for them. A disintegrated 9 can complain a lot and blame others for their issues.
Integration: 3
When 9s integrate to 3, they become more motivated and energetic. They learn to be more bold and assertive. They actually try to live life themselves instead of living it through others and letting opportunities slip by. Integrated 9s are more confident and action oriented.
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Subtypes of 9
- Sp 9 -
Sp 9s are most concerned about physical matters such as eating, sleeping, reading, and any other activity to satisfy their physical and psychological comforts. They want to keep a simple routine in life since it already gives them peace and fulfillment. Any type of disturbance to their routine can be upsetting. These comforts help make their life feel complete, which is what they seek most in life. Since they're often so reserved, they can be very passive to other things in their surroundings. They can ignore and dismiss things that demand their time and energy. This results in passive aggressive behavior. Lots of repressed feelings as well.
- Sx 9 -
Sx 9 wants to fuse with others. They build strong bonds with others to achieve a sense of comfort in them. Can be overly dependent on the other person for a sense of identity. This subtype blends in with the person they're with, rarely stating their own opinions - they will naturally go along with the other person's passions and desires. Sx 9s may struggle with asserting personal boundaries. This type is the most gentle and can appeal to others through their softer charms.
- So 9 -
So 9s prioritize the feelings and needs of the group over their own. They will put up a happy front in order to avoid burdening others with their own issues and needs. They just want to bring peace and joy to others' lives. It makes them happy to care for others. They may make themselves smaller though in order to not appear bigger to others. So 9s just want a harmonious and peaceful environment and will work hard to achieve that.
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Understanding Type 9
An intro to enneagram 9
Claire Redfield (Resident Evil) ESFP 9w1 so/sx
Core Desire (Stability)-They crave a stablity in both their internal world and external world.
Vice (Sloth)- They aren't inactive individuals bur rather they will lose themselves to the haze of life in order to maintain peace.
Fixation (Indolence)- They resist anything that causes pain to them directly.
Wings
9w8 (The Advisor)- With the w8 this type is more interesting with merging with the enviorment and tends to be more in tune with the world around them. They want to fid comfort in themselves and world around them. However unlike the 9w1 they can be more apathetic to things around them. They dont have as much of problem saying no and demanding what they want from others.
9w1 (The Dreamer) - Unlike the 9w8 this subtype is more reserved socially and focuses on their own mind and place in the world rather than the enviorement around them.Unlike the 9w8 this type is more anxious and interested in creating unity with others rather than in themselves like a 9w8. They are less active than the 9w8 and will reside in others unlike the 9w8 who resides on themselves when it comes to their look for peace.
Triads- Gut (8-9-1)
They manage their anger and life through blurring lines between themselves and others often living in this haze where their internal world and external world collide.
Harmonic Triad- Positive (2-7-9)
.They handle conflict through the avoidance of them in the look for comfort and harmony.
Hornevian Triad- Withdrawn (4-5-9)
They get their needs mets through removing themselves from the equation in order to find peace and comfort.
Object Relations- Attachment (3-6-9)
They crave emotional attachment with others so they blur the lines between themselves and others.
Subtypes
Social (so)- As the counter type of 9 the subtypes counters the haze in which sp and sx 9s find themselves in. They are more grounded and interested in making connections and participating in life. They are more interest in keeping busy and focusing on groups and helping others. Due to them being a social type they want to find their place of belonging and they due this through being warm and friendy. They always find ways to figure problems out in ways that everyone gets to be happy. They can look like E3s or E2s.
Ex-Peter Parker (MARVEL COMICS) INFP 9w1 so/sx, Yoda (SW) INTP 9w8 so/sp and Padme Amidala (SW) ENFJ 9w1 so/sx
Sexual (sx)-They sx 9 ignores reality in order to merge with others emotionally. They usually due this through adapting themselves to others needs. They find their purpose in the fusion between two people adopting traits and beliefs from them. Usually they find their sense of peace and stably through complying with their desire ones needs. Will be easy going and doesnt like to cause friction between people. Due to this they can look like E4s (but less emtionallly aggressive with a need for authentic just connection) and E2s (Look for love and stability through interpersonal relationships).
Ex-Sophie Hatter (HMC) ISFJ 9w1 sx/sp, Shinji Ikari (NGE) INFP 9w1 sx/sp and Waymond Wang (EEAO) INFP 9w1 sx/so.
Self-Preservation (sp)- The sp 9 find comfort in the meet of physical needs they look for a place in which they can find comfort and stabitlity. They desire the calmness of everyday life and submit themselves through a routine in which they can find comfort. Unlike the sx 9 who numb their existence through the need for interpersonal relationship. The sp 9 does this through loosing through day to day life and fall into the numbness of casual life.They want to spend their time alone more compared to other 9s. They can look like E8s.
Ex-Cheryl “Heather” Mason (SH) ISFP 9w8 sp/sx, Harry Potter ISFP 9w8 sp/sx and Rue Bennett (Euphoria) ISTP 9w8 sp/sx
Movements
Moves to 3
Positive: gain energy and productivity, become more focused, gain confidence, live more for themselves rather than through others
Negative: take on too much, seek validation from others for accomplishments rather than doing things for themselves
9 MOVES TO 6
Positive: become more outspoken and direct about their thoughts, become more realistic
Negative: increased anxiety, self-doubting, anxiety, and rigidity; become even more passive and inactive in this paralysis
NOTE
-Sorry for the low content posting im starting finals this weeks and ive studying like crazy. In late May and summer I'll try to post more frequently. Let me know what you guys would like to see next.
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It doesn’t matter if it’s actually you’re enneagram type, if it’s what you feel like right now, then it’s what your pain point is, and you should work through it. If you’re still that type after, great, if you’re not, now you’re healthier and can keep looking.
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Part Two
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elizabeth olsen: mbti type & enneagram | isfj 9w8
i put together a cohesive analysis of lizzie's typology that i've analyzed so far, collected from a few month's worth of study :D
because these are my own observations, these are not one hundred percent conclusive, so i am very willing to hear any contrasting opinions, especially as i am still always learning.
i believe elizabeth olsen is an isfj, and for reference as i will be referring to isfj's cognitive functions throughout the analysis, isfj's cognitive functions are (see links for definitions):
Si-dominant (introverted sensing), Fe-auxillary (extroverted feeling), Ti-tertiary (introverted thinking), and Ne-inferior (extroverted intuition)
an mbti type's cognitive functions serve as the processes a type goes through cognitively in order to process the world around them — receive information, understand things, etc. they are in chronological order from most used (strongest) to least used (weakest). in going through these functions and giving examples of lizzie's cognitive processes, i will prove why i believe she is an isfj.
additionally, the order in which the cognitive functions are placed also mean something. for example, though there is only one definition for what Si-dominant means, the function can be used differently when it is an auxiliary function or an inferior function, because then that would mean they are not an Si-dom mbti type (isfj and istj). so i will also being going over why i believe lizzie's usages of isfj's functions are in the order listed above. here are the definitions for each cognitive function placement:
dominant function (1st): you rely on this first and foremost when you process things and receive information, it is the way all your cognitive functions work together, it is your cognitive foundation in a sense.
an isfj's dominant function, Si (introverted sensing), uses their observations and experiences to create conclusions and understandings about their environment that they can rely on.
auxiliary function (2nd): the interest you lean towards when your mind processes things.
isfj's Fe (extroverted feeling), their auxiliary function, uses their dominant function in order to better understand the way people connect, to have reliable observations about human behaviour and people.
tertiary function (3rd): this can be seen as the function that brings some sort of comfort to you. it is the reason why your dominant and auxiliary functions work together, it's your reasoning behind why you process things naturally in the way that you do.
isfj's Si-Fe pairing work together because it creates comfort for them, they need a structure to rely on. they feel safer, more stable, and comfortable knowing they live in a world they understand. they want their observations and experiences to create a cohesive string of rationality that they can follow.
inferior function (4th): your weakest function, and the function you revert to under severe, prolonged stress (also called grip stress). developing one's weakest function can lead to great personal development, but having an underdeveloped inferior function (which is natural at first) can lead to more reliance on your first three functions.
for isfjs and Si-dominants in general, an underdeveloped inferior function can manifest as being someone who has a difficult time parting from their conclusions of their environment. an isfj a developed Ne-inferior function (lizzie has this) can create a very open-minded person who goes through lengths to reach out and understand more about people, who still take pleasure in creating structure with their experiences, but who are also not constricted by a close-mind or a strong fear of experimenting.
now that we have covered all of that basic information, i can now move onto my analyses! i will reference the definitions on isfj's functions and function placements often, so it may help you to scroll up and refer back to what i've written above whenever you need.
there is a common belief that lizzie is an entp, where her functions are Ne (extroverted intuition), Ti (introverted thinking), Fe (extroverted thinking), and Si (introverted sensing).
any person who says this does not have Fe as their tertiary function: “There’s a team effort that I’m obsessed with. I love working together with a group of people problem solving. I love being on a team so much, and it’s something you get to do a lot as a kid. I would never be like a tennis player, because I really love the team environment and that’s what being on a set feels like. I know there are other ways to do that in your life, and if there was another job I were to do, it would be something that was collaborative with people. I also love getting to explore why people are the way they are, and why they make decisions that they make. It’s just something that will never be boring to me. We spend the time getting to understand people’s life experiences, and I feel like a story is like a really artful way of exploring why we are the way we are. And I don’t get that from life except for meeting new people. To me, it’s like you go over to someone’s house and have dinner and then you’re like, ‘Oh my God, that was amazing!’ Like, that doesn’t happen all the time. But I get that from work — that constant peeling away at human behaviour.”
not only is this very auxiliary Fe to me, but it’s also coming across as Si-Fe. i’ve always seen her need to connect and harmonise with people around her as very Fe-aux, which is nothing like entps tertiary use of Fe. it is true that both types use the function, yet it is only an Si-Fe who would want to create harmony and find patterns in collaborative work, namely in observing human behaviour as they go through life putting pieces together to create a world of constructed harmony and collaboration derived from personal experience and observation. entp’s use of Fe is at the very least not this expressive. what i find most important to note with her behaviour is that she does not take in what Fe brings to be divulged (as an entp would, especially one with a developed use of Fe), but rather she internalises her analyzations and simple joys of being around groups of people, the world of collaboration and human behaviour, which also goes back to her being an Si-dominant.
instead, she is an isfj with a well-developed Ne-inferior as shown in this clip. she uses her past experiences and observations when playing a role in which she cannot personally relate to, with the ultimate goal of finding similarities within all individuals under the shared human behaviour. in this case, in playing wanda who is a mother and as someone who does not have children, she used her own experiences with friends and family and the love and dedication from those relationships to envision a mother’s love for her children, specifically through the structure of human nature that she continuously develops through her roles through, again, observation and experience. i believe that is very strongly Si-Fe with well developed Ne, referencing past experiences, namely her relationships and connections with those she loves and the dynamics between loved ones, in order to understand the greater concept of what all human beings share in spite of their differences.
she mentions that she does not have the exact same circumstances as a mother does, and still uses her past experiences to envision a mother’s love. i’d say that a large part of why that processing works so well even if she doesn’t come from the exact same situation is because of her Ne usage, how she finds connections between this structure of love within human nature. keyword is ‘structure,’ and i think it’s really important to note how often she brings up this understanding of human behaviour that she references to often (not only in this video but many other interviews), especially using her roles playing complex women to explore this. this is what Si-Fe with an amazingly developed Ne looks like. i personally do not see anything but isfj for her.
now moving onto her tertiary function, Ti (introverted thinking), i think her habit of categorising and observing human behaviour through her roles is a reliance on Ti, because along with using Si and Fe, i’d say they work together in a way that allows her to make sense of things. having to live within structure and having that reliance on her ability to make connections with the world (Si-Fe) seems to me like a tertiary use of Ti when she explains it from the standpoint she does it from. sort of like the whole “needing to make sense” of things, like things having to connect and form some sort of rational relationship.
in a podcast, i believe her exact analogy was comparing herself to gaseous atoms through the particle theory, how she has to experience the world through a sort of box, a controlled chaos if anything, for if you opened the box then the particles would scatter. and that kind of comfort that derives from stability and structure seems to me like Ti-tertiary, as the tertiary function is used a lot for sense of ‘comfort’ in a way. the analogy is pretty Si-dom to me as well, and her need to always follow some kind of string of logic to stay in her comfort zone is also Ti tert.
and finally, her enneagram! i believe she is an 9w8. out of the nine enneagram types, you can have one that applies to you the most and a wing, which is either one of the adjacent types that complements your primary enneagram the most.
enneagram 9s seek harmony, an understanding and balance in their environment, a connection to the things and people around them. they fear being separated from things and people they care about, fearing losing their connections. i think this fits perfectly with her desire to understand human behaviour amongst other things, especially as an isfj where her tertiary function (Ti) has her relying on rationale and stability, and with enneagram 9 that lets her seek peace-keeping and balance.
there are two things an enneagram 9 can be: 9w8 and 9w1.
moving onto why 8 wing > 1 wing, though she is outwardly very laid back, she can actually be quite assertive, and has mentioned once in an interview that she is a very opinionated person who is trying to come off as more sensitive, and in another podcast that she is a perfectionist who finds it natural to take control and did confess she could overdo it to a bit of a fault at times.
9w8s (known as the referee) are known for being assertive and stronger with their opinions, whereas 9w1s (known as the negotiator) are likely to be less prone to seek rebuttal in a way. 9w8s are a lot more likely to be more dominant and direct with their beliefs and opinions than 9w1s are.
i don’t see her as a 1 wing. i think her strong opinions and perfectionism being a part of her personality that's reserved for more personal relationships and professional roles (like producing her show) instead of very objective and explicit in her everyday life points to her being more a 9w8 than a 9w1, who'd instead be more overt with their opinions as a 1 enneagram tends to have their beliefs aligned with more objective values. additionally there is a bit of an idea that 9w8s are more likely to be extroverts, but that doesn't necessarily mean that they have to be extroverts, i think it has more to do with being people-oriented and valuing social harmony, which both apply to her while also being someone who's an Si-dom.
if i ever do some up with substantial enough additions to my observations of lizzie's typology, i think i will make a separate post like this one! but for now, these are all of my analysations that i've really enjoyed putting together and trying to understand. i think analysing her typology has helped me admire her more, and has also shed a lot of light on her mbti type and enneagram as i haven't previously known this much about someone with hers. i hope you all liked reading my observations and all, and i am also super open to answer any questions about anything i've written, or anything typology-related!
thank you for reading <3333
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My melody moodboard
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Enneagram and Autism
A lot of autistic behaviours are describing the Withdrawn triad, verbatim. What enneagrammers call the "Withdrawn triad", psychologists call "autism". This is especially true for high-functioning autism.
The type which overlaps THE MOST with autism, I believe, is sp9.
This isn't to say all autistics are sp9s, or that all sp9s are autistic, but that you cannot find an sp9 in the world who isn't at least somewhat suspect for autism.
The ritualistic behaviour and preference for objects / things over people, believed to originate from early childhood neglect. I read a Wikipedia article once which described how *insert list of sp9 behaviours* is caused by unloving mothers. Very interesting and relevant to me, to say the least...
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It hurts
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The Lion King: Pumbaa [INFP 9w8]
MBTI Type: INFP
Pumbaa admits “I’m a sensitive soul, and it hurt that my friends never stood downwind!” He shows much more concern for Simba’s feelings than Timon, but does not always know what is “wrong” with Simba. He does not influence his friends to change, nor allow them to change him much (except in moderating his language, for the kids!), but enjoys focusing on their greater potential,…
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Subtype Trait Structures: sx9
Very Patient
The sexual E9 is very patient when it comes to tasks, things or relationships in which he believes. Of a patience that may seem infinite to others, but that for him is normal. With children and animals, his patience is extreme. This patience testifies to the need to maintain energy homeostasis in oneself and with the environment so that there are no frictions that could put you in contact with needs or choices.
Without Nuances
Either black or white. He believes that several "versions of everything" cannot coexist. For example, in interpersonal relationships it is difficult for him to understand that there are parts of a person that he does not like, or that he likes less. Both in relationships and in the manifestation of their tastes, there is a middle way, things are white or black, or all or nothing, or they like everything or they do not like anything.
This vision hides the defense mechanism of denying what can produce negative emotions and, above all, it nourishes the false image of a world that is going well at all costs, for which there is nothing missing.
Tolerant With The Other, Severe With Himself
In others, he tolerates everything and finds justification for any act or behavior. (Although inside he has judged first but, from his desire for kindness, "magnanimously understands and forgives".)
With himself, on the contrary, he is severe, critical and does not go too far. In private life as well as at work, he does not forgive himself for any mistakes. The annihilation experienced in childhood and the devaluation received in primary relationships are completely introjected.
Chameleon
Like the chameleon, it is capable of being in any environment and context without being out of place. You can keep any conversation going by carefully following the other person's train of thought. From early childhood he acquires the ability of entering and leaving situations and environments without being seen. The imperative is to be there but without disturbing.
Above Authority
Either he considers it worthy of respect or he does not recognize it. This aspect is very evident from an early age, when faced with a teacher or parent who has not earned his respect, he does what he considers most fair, does not listen to authority and acts on his own behalf. He makes a judgment and appraisal according to wholly personal criteria of that person's merit and ability to perform that role, and then acts accordingly.
But this force to go against authority does not come from the feeling of entitlement. Rather, it is an action driven by defending another or by one's own survival, an acting out by which the experience of low self-esteem can be skipped.
Blind Faith
It is difficult for the sexual E9 to believe in someone because he does not believe in himself. But when she finds someone to believe in , she gives in , she does it blindly and rarely questions. Rather than faith, it would be better to say that it converges with the other.
Mediator and Peacemaker
Not only does he not like to be involved in arguments and conflicts, he does not even tolerate witnessing them. He is stronger than it: when there is an argument, he compulsively triggers the need to placate and fix the situation. He gets in the way without even assessing whether he is in a position to sustain the mediation. The imperative is to quickly regain calm and peace. He doesn't take anyone's side but he manages to assert everyone's reasons and, sometimes without even knowing how he does it, he always manages to achieve his goal.
The sexual E9 empathetically and exaggeratedly feels the pain present in the conflict. The suffering is unbearable for him, he feels the unresolved internal conflicts resonate and so that these do not take priority (understood as the resolution of his internal conflict), he immediately acts on the external world. This terror of conflict often has autobiographical resonances. He is willing to avoid it at all costs because in his childhood the overt conflicts had devastating consequences for him.
Aversion To Change
If there is one thing that triggers a crisis in the sexual E9 and triggers all the alarms, with the corresponding paranoia, it is change. He does not understand why there is a need to change when things are working so well. Fierce supporter of the saying "the best is the enemy of the good", he applies it as much as he can, and to everything. He needs the usual customs, the usual people, the usual places; in short, let no one disturb his quiet, flat little world for which he has worked so hard.
Accurate In The Development Of Tasks
The word "accurate" may fall short, almost maniacal and especially at work. Whether he performs tasks at the bottom of the organizational pyramid or at the top, the sexual E9 is extremely reliable due to his need to always have everything in its place. If a work program is prepared , it must be fulfilled , and if there are changes it goes into crisis and is not very elastic. It does not support the delays of the others, because they are an “unexpected variable” of the program.
Lover Of Good Food As A Shared Pleasure
The sexual E9 loves good food and good wine, but only if he can enjoy it and share it with the person he loves or with his closest friends. He doesn't usually care much about what he eats, and he doesn't like to cook for himself either. Food and drink are a pleasure if they are shared and prepared for someone. When he is alone, on the contrary, they can become a way to fill the void caused by loneliness or the discomfort of doing things for himself.
Dormouse
He has a very deep sleep because he uses sleep as a defense to not feel.
Difficulty For Physical Contact
The sexual E9 does not like physical contact, he does not like to be touched. When talking about this, his idea is that everyone should be in their space. In reality, he does not have the experience of safe skin contact with her mother who, on the contrary, has often been invasive and not respectful of even physical limits. He has not learned to measure personal space.
Ashamed To Communicate His Feelings
He is ashamed to express his affection because he has not been taught to do so. The few times in his life that he has tried to be explicitly emotional, has been deeply hurt or has received a humiliating indifference, and it is a risk that he prefers not to take again.
Incapable Of Making Decisions
The sexual E9 is not able to decide for himself, because he does not know what he likes and that is why it is impossible for him to know what is better. He lets others decide everything, even the important things. Although he will be angry if the decision does not seem fair to him, he will abide by it without raising the slightest objection.
Bad Relationship With The Body And Sexuality
He has a terrible relationship with his body, he does not accept its forms or its aesthetics. He feels awkward, ugly, and thinks that no one will ever be attracted to him. That is why he forgets that he has a body, and the disconnection of desire from him contributes to his total focus on the pleasure and sexuality of the other.
Overadapted
No matter what happens or what others choose, you will always see the positive side and adjust your needs accordingly. The sexual E9 has learned to adapt to circumstances for fear of being abandoned, excluded, rejected and ignored. And this ability becomes a currency to be loved. In reality, it is a false adaptation, which generates a silent rage that accumulates. This anger , of which he is not aware , ends up expressing himself in a stubborn opposition to the other's proposals, posing impediments that are generally of a practical nature , in a kind of displaced revenge.
Indispensable And Docile
The sexual E9 works tirelessly to make himself indispensable to the people around him (relatives, friends, acquaintances). Compulsively, he immediately answers "yes" to any request, even if it has just been outlined, without taking the slightest account of his capacity, his psychophysical availability, the eventual effort to be made or, lastly, his needs. Also in this case it is the price to pay for not being abandoned.
Empathetic
Believes that he always knows with absolute certainty what others need (he does not know what he needs). He is amazed that the others do not have that characteristic to the same extent. When someone does not understand him, he immediately blames himself for that inability that, in reality, is not his. He does not feel loved then, he suffers and is filled with rage. It never crosses his mind that the other might not instinctively possess that empathetic capacity that he considers universal.
Welcoming
Creating a comfortable environment , being open to welcoming the other, being hospitable and affable, using a voice that can be pleasant and friendly, and showing unlimited availability, make the sexual E9 well accepted in his environment. He acts like this because he feels the need to be welcomed by his fellow men and, above all, because he believes that, otherwise , no one would love him. Ultimately, he believes that he is not lovable for himself but for the attention he provides.
Sense Of Duty
The sexual E9 has such a strong sense of responsibility that he often takes on what does not belong to him. The motivation is twofold. On the one hand, he feels that all the obligations of the world fall on his shoulders (it is up to him to ensure that everyone fulfills his duty). On the other hand, he thus prevents himself from experiencing excessive pleasure in situations that might even procure it.
Susceptible To Criticism
He always expects praise, recognition in almost all the activities he does. If he gets criticized for something he has done, he falls from the clouds with a start and suffers horrors. Indeed, the work that he does with dedication and commitment has value because it is through him that he can be recognized by the external world. His work therefore has a double function of expression and recognition. The sexual Nine believes that he exists only through what he does, and not simply because he is.
Disorganized Or Extremely Organized
He lives a disordered life inside (ordering himself would mean looking and suffering for what he sees) and for this reason his house is also completely untidy. Surprisingly, he also lives the ideal of being highly organized. He knows that he has a great chaos inside him, he would never want to deal with it, but he dreams that, with a blow of the sponge, everything will magically fall into place and nothing will be left out of place.
Loquacious Or Mute
In environments with many people (parties , groups , congresses , assemblies), the sexual E9 can be very talkative, because he can not stand the discomfort of silence. He therefore feels obliged to relieve others of what he feels as density "breaking the ice" as soon as possible. He does this by walking up to someone and starting to talk. He experiences the sensation of saying things that are irrelevant and uninteresting, of being verbose, but he can't stop. He would love to observe the others and remain silent himself. In fact, if there is a lot of noise, he can be quite quiet, and even not answer if he is addressed.
Breaking the silence obeys a second motivation. If you start talking you will stop feeling outside the group - and therefore an object of attention - and you will be able to dissolve into it. The sexual E9 has difficulty feeling really part of the group, he always thinks that he is not up to the task, or that his characteristics will not be valued, or that there are already subgroups in which it will not be possible to enter and that, in any case, he will not will be accepted.
Inconstant
Makes precise projects and acquires commitments that he later postpones and sometimes forgets. Programs that seem to have the highest priority for a time suddenly and for no apparent reason lose interest and fade, replaced by the birth of other urgencies. The sexual E9 acts this way because it indefinitely postpones the satisfaction of its own pleasure. Although at first he moves, and in good faith he believes that he truly feels desires, then the inner dictation of not giving himself pleasure arises. He believes that there is no room in his life for pleasure, and that he only has a reason to be duty.
Pedantic
Has an opinion that he firmly believes, and sometimes expresses it forcefully even if he hasn't been asked, extemporaneously. He is so convinced that he has carefully and correctly analyzed the problem that he makes absolute certainty about it, even though he is spectacularly wrong. The desire to assert himself is not connected with an integrated construction of his opinion.
Disheveled
The sexual E9 takes little care of his external appearance. She dresses without paying too much attention to the harmony of some garments with others and, if she is a woman, she rarely puts on make - up and seldom goes to the hairdresser's. He doesn't care about her aesthetics.
This carelessness is also manifested in the lack of care for their health, when they delay control visits to their doctor and when they ignore, neglect or forget symptoms that may indicate the appearance of some disease. Plain and simple, he forgets himself so much that he does not take care of himself at all.
Autonomous
Not depending on anyone is an absolute need of the sexual E9, which is in conflict with the need to bond symbiotically. As a child, he could not trust the adults around him and learned very early to fend for himself and to reduce his demands more and more, to appear before the world serene, peaceful and unassuming. The motivation is, once again, to ensure the love of others, because if you are not a burden to anyone, you do not run the risk of being rejected. The price you pay is not realizing the lack of independence deep in your feelings and motivations.
Hyperactive Or Distracted
As we have already seen, the sexual Nine sets in motion an «all or nothing» mechanism, in this case oscillating between periods (weeks or hours) of great industriousness and periods in which he wanders and dazzles himself with hobbies of diverse nature that manage to distract him (television, card games, music, books). In both modes, remaining in a superficial state prevents her from contacting his inner world: she is aware that it would be too dangerous and painful.
Source: PDB Wiki
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