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swimminganddante · 3 months ago
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actually i love growing older and learning how i work as a person like realizing what kinds of fabrics feel best on my skin or what brand of yogurt i like best or how I want to be touched. watching myself change, enjoying brussel sprouts when I used to hate them as a child, understanding why I got angry in that one conversation 10 years ago… there are so many mysteries inside me that i have yet to unravel and there will always be more and sometimes i think maybe its all worth it
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swimminganddante · 8 months ago
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realizing u have to wake up again tomorrow and the next day and the day after that:
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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Characters that have never experienced affection before, or haven’t experienced it in a long time, finally getting to experience it? Top tier.
Said character freezing up for a second, not really knowing how to respond, but not wanting it to stop? T o p t i e r.
Said character trying to clumsily return the affection in their own way, because this is Good and they don’t want it to stop? T O P T I E R.
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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mitsuya as a roommate.
type: headcanons.
word count: 1.6k+
warnings: none. college roommates to lovers type of beat. <3
this is the product of the roommate mitsuya brainrot with @kallikrein @sxlver-sweet @mqnjiro and @dr3ken​ <3
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roommate mitsuya who was very hesitant at first to accept you as his roommate, not because he doesn’t like you, but because he was worried your desperation to find a new apartment only got the better of you. roommate mitsuya who asked you a lot of times if you are really fine with having him as your roommate, and if you won’t find it uncomfortable living with a guy before you moved in.
roommate mitsuya who looked after you when you felt homesick on your first week. he asked what your favorite dishes are and cooked everything for you to help you cope. of course, they didn’t taste the same as your mother’s cooking, but you did appreciate the effort.
Keep reading
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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Commander Nasumi’s so cool
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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I fell in love with this idiot so I needed a cool wallpaper of him, the thing is… I had to do it my self
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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My beloved husband
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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Gen with red eyeliner!
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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Bokuto doing snowboarding!
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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Bokuto in the outfit of that Ezra Miller photoshoot
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swimminganddante · a year ago
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Things that take time & many tries to get right:
learning to be a good friend/partner
healing from depression, failures or heartbreak
becoming amazing at an art or skill
overcoming anxiety, insecurities and low body image
overcoming the need to isolate yourself
changing self-hating thoughts to kinder ones
making a real connection with someone
overcoming self-defeating and self-sabotaging thoughts
learning how to study effectively
finding a sense of stability and calmness at your core
quitting habits or addictions
leaving people and behaviours that turn you into the worst version of yourself
getting used to healthier coping mechanisms & mindsets that feel fake
treating yourself like you truly care about yourself
becoming the person you always wanted to be
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swimminganddante · 2 years ago
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I figure out I had ADHD last year, but I didn’t seek an official diagnosis and medication until this year. I’m 30 years old, my school days are long behind me. I slipped through the cracks because I have predominately inattentive type and I was a quiet little girl. Having ADHD does not mean you have to be hyperactive and loud, it means you have a processing problem in your brain that doesn’t allow you to regulate your focus or emotions. 
Mental health even now is still taboo to talk about. People are more open now than ever about it however and that gives me hope. 
This is a profoundly personal comic and it only reflects my own experience with ADHD. It is on a spectrum with a wide range of personalities. But if my story connects with someone else and helps them, that would mean the world to me.
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swimminganddante · 2 years ago
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Also reblogging this one bc I really missed them
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Guess who are back!!!
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swimminganddante · 2 years ago
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they’re back!
do not repost without credit!
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swimminganddante · 2 years ago
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thinking v hard abt matsuhana the past few days ;____________;;///
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swimminganddante · 2 years ago
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HQ 402 YAKU SENPAI IS BACK!!!!
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YAKU PAISEN!!!! HEADPATS
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ATSUMU X YAKU DYNAMIC..... WE LOVE 2 SEE IT
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swimminganddante · 2 years ago
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Haikyuubu Chapter 49: Seijoh Goes Fishing
Next: Inarizaki.
ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/kuromantic
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