Interact with this post if you selfship with one or more characters from Steven Universe and want mutuals who share sources!

Noooo don't imagine kissing your f/o all over their face until they're a blushing mess. That would be so bad if you did, who knows what the consequences would be!!

Don't imagine them doing it to you either, under any circumstances!!!

me when my f/o doesn’t show up in their source for like five seconds:

My f/o could be sitting doing nothing and I’d still swoon over them.

Imagine taking a bath or shower with your f/o.

Imagine running your soapy hands through their hair, gently massaging the shampoo into their scalp. Hearing your f/o hum or sigh contently, eyes closed and a smile on their face.

And them do the same for you, gently scrubbing the day’s worries from your skin, rubbing away every tension. Just feeling your f/o’s presence right next to you, as well as the droplets rolling down your spines.

Maybe this is a moment where you can finally unwind. Where you can chat and fill each other in on how your days went. Or, maybe you both stay in silence. Both finding it comfortable without the urge to speak.

Just relax, and take care of one another.

i love dating FOs from different sources! i love discovering new characters to crush on! i love that i can find love in any universe! i love being a selfshipper and being loved by so many wonderful FOs!

i have to give it up for hanamusa for knocking out all of the ships that involve my f/os in the pokemon f/f ship poll tournament

noooo i got back the sketch of a skyla comm im getting and i cannot stop looking at it

wishing all lesbian selfshippers a very happy Lesbian Visibility Week this week!!! ^-^

BREAKING NEWS your f/o was just seen daydreaming about you with a goofy smile on their face and little cartoon hearts floating above their head. more at 11

canon character my beloved vs the same character but fanon version my fucking detested

imagine the f/os that are starved for touch, who are overwhelmed by the amount of sheer relief and uncertainty they feel whem they lean into your touch for the first time, craving and adoring it.

anyway back to your regularly scheduled selfshipping

daily reminder that your faves do love you i know cause they told me themselves hehe <33

but being genuine & not jokey for a second you Need to make yourself a safe person for transfems. every time you support the witch-hunt of a trans girl you are signaling to every other trans girl you know that you will ruin their life if they say something you don't like. you have to put aside kneejerk disgust reactions and simply block people if they post something that upsets you. this is not worth risking their safety

i honestly regret making this post. i wrote it around the time the shit with predstrogen was happening and ppl were finally witnessing firsthand for the first time the way tumblr as a website treats its trans women users. it was made in the heat of the moment which is why it's so surface level.

but if i could go back i would have written something much longer and more well thought out that actually brings to light the issues i as a trans woman have noticed due to the way ive been treated by other selfshippers. bc as it stands this post is still getting reblogged and it's reached the point of being one of those posts calling for things to get better that people just reblog and go back to going about their day without giving it much thought or any effort to changing the way they actually think and behave wrt trans women. being surface level is a problem when it comes to issues like this bc it lets people just click reblog without thinking about which aspects of their behavior need changing.

it really shouldnt be my fucking responsibility to make a call to action for other selfshippers to be less transmisogynistic (even if they think they already arent) but im literally the only trans woman selfshipper i know and ive had this blog for 5 years. and i dont think thats a coincidence

in light of certain things going on on this website right now i'd just like to remind everyone to

support transfem selfshippers

uplift the voices of transfem selfshippers

do not blindly believe whatever people spread about transfem selfshippers

kill transmisogynists with hammer car explosion

people whose f/os are in the public domain are so fucking powerful and they may not even realize it. like, we always talk about selfships being canon but yours legitimately could actually be.