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Mid-30s M AB/DL Switch, he/him, happily married. Check out my Patreon HERE or my Ream HERE if you like kinky stories! If you are under 18 years old, do not follow or interact with this blog or its author in any way. This is a NSFW, 18+ ONLY blog, primarily of fiction relating to AB/DL fetishism, related kinks, and kinky D/S dynamics like CG/L, DD/LG, and MD/LB. Disclaimer: THE ACTS AND SITUATIONS PORTRAYED HERE ARE PURE FANTASY BETWEEN FICTIONAL ADULTS.
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Featuring me and my close friend @bonsaibaby0
The vulnerability of little space is so beautiful. Think about it: our world tells us to grow up. To work demanding jobs and make money. To be independent and responsible. Over time, most of us stop seeing the world through starry eyes. No more excitement at small wonders. No more giggling with stuffies or gazing at pretty lights. But not everyone. Littles hold onto that side of themselves. And as a Daddy, I want to celebrate that. I want to provide a safe space for a little to be their truest, most vulnerable self. I want to create an escape from the chaotic world. It’s a euphoric feeling for me.
Whether it’s an activity, accessory, or phrase, what makes you feel most like your little self? ✨
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Personal Rule #327 of using AB/DL Tumblr:
Block any user with the word “mommy” in their name on sight. Probability that they’re a fake or a scammer is approximately 99.999999%.
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This little potty pants won’t be getting any pinches today (thanks to my dip 🙈💚)!
Happy St. Paddy’s Day, everybody! 🍀☺️
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One year ago today, I took a major step and went to my first BDSM dungeon party. That night I met @bonsaibaby0, who was at her first party too. Finding another ABDL at the dungeon was so validating, and it removed any nerves I had about being accepted in that world. We’ve become super close friends this last year, engaging in local shenanigans and even traveling to Colorado for a fun weekend together. They say to never let a chaos gremlin into your life. Well, I’m glad I did. Happy friendiversary, Kashi! ✨
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Why your partner likes diapers and wants them 24/7
As a non-ABDL person, trying to understand why my successful, grown-up male partner would want to wear and use diapers 24/7 wasn’t immediately obvious. He even struggled to describe his feelings & desires to me. To make it even harder his desires seemed to change from wanting and even trying 24/7 to not wearing diapers at all for a few days.
Overall this really made me confused and worried and is what drove me to go deeper into my research into ABDL and start talking to some other couples.
He’s helped me with some of this article but the goal of it is to help non-ABDL partners understand their ABDL partners desire better. I should also say that this is our viewpoint and although I know from conversations with other couples it’s a very common one, there are obviously lots of different reasons why someone might want to wear diapers which we won’t cover here.
So firstly, you’re not in any way stupid for wondering why your partner might want this, as subjectively wearing diapers has a lot of negatives from potential embarrassment, cost, smells, extra chores in daily life… the list goes on. BUT for your partner some of these negatives might actually be positives and overall the positives far outweigh any negatives for them.
So lets get down to some of the reasons they like diapers:
It gives them comfort
This is a hard one to describe but in the same way that cuddling up to your partner or being given a hug can make you feel at ease, safe and relaxed, diapers can do this for ABDL people.
I’ve heard the saying that wearing a diaper is like being given a hug constantly. From the moment they’re taped into a diaper many ABDL’s will feel more at ease.
It takes them back to a simpler time
Childhood is something a lot of adults look back on with fond memories where they lived without the stresses and pressures of daily adult life. Wearing and using diapers can really help in reminding them of these good times and adding some of it back into their adult life.
This is especially powerful if you take control of their checks and changes, and incorporate other elements of babying.
If you partner likes to regress and act like a younger age (age play) then diapers are a core ingredient to get them into this headspace.
They like giving up some control
I have no hard evidence to back this up but I feel that ABDL’s over-index on stressful careers and generally being “successful” people. The problem is this often comes with tons of responsibility and control over lots of decisions, so giving up some of this control can be incredibly therapeutic and stress-releasing for them.
I’m confident that all adults can relate to the enjoyment of having some decisions taken away from them, but for most using the toilet wouldn’t be their go-to thought.
We’re big advocates for 24/7 and one of the main reasons for this is I’ve seen first hand how beneficial it was saying to my boyfriend, yes you’ve got a big and important job with lots of stress but from now onwards going to the toilet isn’t going to be something you have to think about.
This year we’ve been experimenting with him giving up more control, by increasing the babying, and honestly the more I take away the better I think it makes him, both professionally and personally.
They like the smells
Being in diapers 24/7 exposes them to a lot of different smells which they can find enjoyable or relaxing.
From being taped up in a fresh diaper with baby powder scent, to the subtle pee smell as they use their diaper, to more pungent odours coming from their filled diaper, to the clean fragrance while being wiped clean. They experience this wide range of smells daily and each brings different feelings from feeling cared for, loved, embarrassed and more.
I myself (like many women) like the smell of babies and over time I’ve found that the smell of baby powder on him and his wet diaper is something that makes me feel content and relaxed too.
The feeling of diapers is great
The soft padding encasing their bum and groin is comforting, and then as they use it it gets warmer and squishy. There is a constant reminder of its presence when sitting or walking, with the subtle sound which accompanies it. Even the feeling of messing their diaper is enjoyable for many ABDL’s due to the unique feeling of it pushing out and then spreading in different directions.
The naughtiness of being punished
Diaper discipline should be more than your partner wants as otherwise it won’t fulfil the feeling of being punished and controlled which they crave.
Like other more mainstream kinks their diapers sometime being uncomfortable, embarrassing and inconvenient is a positive for them and isn’t something you should try avoid.
Many times it’s convenient
Being able to pee and not have to stop playing a game, watching a film or working can be convenient. My boyfriend used to get up in the night to pee which disturbed his sleep and mine, now it goes straight into the diaper.
On long drives and flights it can be a lifesaver wearing a diaper, the seatbelt light going on doesn’t worry you even if you need to pee.
Being changed is amazing
Diaper changes make them feel incredibly loved and cared for. It’s very intimate with some embarrassment but having your loved one wipe you clean and tape you into a fresh diaper is one of the top experiences for your ABDL partner.
Even a diaper check shows them you’re caring for them while also playing into the feeling of giving up control.
Diapers combine great with other kinks
Diapers go hand in hand with a range of other kinks including bondage, chastity, spanking & submission. If they or you are kinky you should try these with diapers involved and all make for good punishments too.
They’re cute
With ABDL and diaper discipline more popular than ever, we’re blessed to have a huge range of amazing adult diapers available. These diapers look cute on your partner and when combined with ABDL clothing it really plays into the lovely feeling of regressing to a younger age.
Why 24/7
So hopefully you can now better understand why your partner loves wearing diapers. But there are a few reasons why the idea of wearing 24/7 and then the reality of it is so appealing:
Accepting this is part of them
Many if not all ABDL’s have experienced or are still experiencing shame about their diaper wearing desires. Switching to or being forced to wear 24/7 helps them accept that this actually is a big part of who they are and they don’t need to pretend otherwise or feel guilty about it.
The loss of control
Accepting they now have to use their diapers instead of the toilet on a long term basis excites and scares them in a good way. They’re losing one of the most grown up privileges.
You accepting them
Encouraging or forcing them to wear 24/7 shows your partner that you fully accept this part of them. One of their biggest fears will be their ABDL desires cause them to lose you, so by being truly supportive it will be a massive weight lifted off their shoulders.
We’re going to do another article on this shortly but because of this I feel there is a big benefit of you forcing them into 24/7 rather than waiting for it to happen naturally.
It stops them having to decide when to wear
Many ABDL’s yoyo on their diaper wearing frequency and struggle to decide when to wear or not. Having this choice taken away from them removes this stress and helps combat the lows when before they’d have felt guilty and stopped wearing for a period.
It becomes part of their daily life
Diaper wearing is often a hidden part of their lives but moving to 24/7 means it needs to become much more normalized. From making sure their wardrobe is now designed around their padded bum to having a large stock of diapers on hand and not hidden is extremely beneficial for your partner.
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I’m sure there are many reasons here we’ve missed so please add them into the comments. Also please watch out for our next long post about when is the right time to switch your partner to 24/7 and how to do it.
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I am feeling onthe edge of tipping into babyspace. Lullabies, rattles, mobiles, pacis, soft blankie..
I cant get there, though.
Lock my hands away in mits so I dont have to worry about grabbing things.
Put my pacifier in my mouth for me. Fussy, sleepy babies need their pacis.
Pick out a lullaby. Doesn't have to be traditional, it could be a lofi animal crossing mix even. Bonus points if you hum to me.
Swaddle me so I dont have to worry about how I'm laying.
Gently spin my mobile so I have something to zone out to. It quiets my racing thoughts.
Or. Replace my lullabies with hypnosis files and the mobile with a spiral. It's all the same.
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One of my favorite concepts is being put in an all white diaper with a bunch of lines drawn on the front or the back, each of them being little milestones I could hit by wetting more and more.
Maybe they'd be good, like earning more buzzy time if I can reach the highest lines! But maybe they'd be mean, and I'd end up in longer and longer diaper sentences as I reach more and more lines. Or I'd lose a different big girl privilege for each line!
Of course, if they were mean like that, the game would never be entirely fair. I'd have to drink extra water just in case, or have enforced tummy time because it's "good for me", but really it's just so I soak even more lines!
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Wearing my favorite onesie from @onesiesdownunder ♥️ I love the Winnie Pooh theme 🧸🍯
I‘m on holiday this week, so I have a lot of free time to be regressed,in diapers, onesies and cute clothes 💕
Being able to express my baby Site this week is such a blessing. No thoughts 💭 just diapers.
If you’re interested in getting to know me, just ask any question you have! I will answer all of them 💕
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Big fan of your work, especially the diaper boy captions! I was curious, would ever use AI generated images for your caption work? Thanks
Hi and thanks for the ask! It's a good question, and as of now my answer is a resounding no.
I do readily concede that at first, something like AI images seem great for this kind of steamy content. No one gets exploited, it's 100% fictional, there are no issues with age verification, etc. But that's not the entire story.
As I understand it, the current AI models that generate images only function because they've taken in vast amounts of training data: data to which it is by no means clear they have a clear and legal right. When combined with the ways that these image generators threaten to rob actual artists (and yes, I know I'll tee off AI fans by saying that) of their livelihoods, I cannot bring myself to even consider seriously using them in any capacity.
I would far rather use images of real (adult) people who have agreed to model and who have not only consented to the use of their likeness, but who often earn a livelihood from it. That, in my humble opinion, is a far more attractive option.
Oh, and the fact that I loathe most of what I've seen coming from AI image generators only helps to reinforce that stance. After all, it's tough to write a steamy caption when the image isn't appealing to the writer. :-)
Cheers! -PLP
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"mutuals can ask for my discord" well my mutuals can lovingly diaper me up and set me in front of the tv for cartoon time
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I just wanna be babied and talked down to from someone who knows how much of a dumb little I am.
“Awww hon that was a lot of big words! Don’t worry baby I know it’s hard to use those, just use your baby voice!”
Giving in and sounding all dumb for them, dumb and excited. They care for me as I fall deeper and deeper into littlespace.
“Good job baby girl! You’ve been pretending to be big for so long, just relax!”
“Awww you look so silly playing dress-up in those big girl clothes, why don’t you let me change you into something more appropriate~”
Getting put in a onesie and mitts, fully at their whim, trying to insist I’m big! I am! Until I almost have an accident while distracted, and thats the final nail in the coffin.
“Bad girl! You should have just let me put you in your diaper from the start. Now you’ve gone potty all over yourself babygirl.”
Treating me like the helpless needy baby I am<3
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you can lead a little to the potty, but you can’t make them go.
“sweetheart, you are way too big to still be wearing diapers.”
“if you want to be treated like a big boy, you need to start acting like a big boy.”
“why don’t we try pull-ups today, so you can pull them down and pee-pee in the potty like a big girl?”
“I’m going to put a diaper on you just in case, but I want you to tell me if you need to go potty.”
“why didn’t you tell me you needed to go potty?”
“you know I wouldn’t punish you for having an accident, but I don’t think that was an accident, mister.”
“big girls don’t go potty in their pants.”
“if I’m going to let you have big boy privileges, you need to show me you can keep your big boy pants dry.”
“I thought you were going to try to be a big girl today?”
“baby, you promised daddy you weren’t going to have any accidents today.“
"I’ll believe you’re big enough to do that when you can prove to me you’re big enough to stop wearing diapers.”
“it’s about time for you to start doing that in the potty, kiddo.”
“you’d better not be peeing in your pull-ups right now, little girl.”
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So my package of actual adult diapers arrived and I’m going to where one to bed —-😳 embarrassing
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