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our-queer-experience · 18 minutes
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back in elementary school, I created a game with another friend called "wacky wednesday" where every wednesday we would call each other the opposite pronouns and a different name (it just had to start with the same letter as your birth name). we ended up convincing most of our friends into doing it, and tried to get our teachers in on it as well.
needless to say, we are both trans now and I'm making an effort to reach out to them again lol
lmao
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is everyone on this site gay or trans???
Yes and isn't it absolutely fucking awesome 😁
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For all the eggs out here that need to hear this, it's not a fetish because you get turned on by being in the opposite sex's clothes. You're allowed to express sexuality, you don't need to repress it. It's normal to fantasize about having things like the opposite sex's genitalia. I struggled a lot thinking I was just a fetishist because thinking about being a girl would get me so horny. Truth is that sometimes it's a lot easier to express yourself when you're comfortable in your own body. When you don't feel bad about it, when you don't feel yucky for what you have. It's also really common to go back and forth, I had my genderfluid phase in which I was so indecisive I'd constantly go back and forth on it. It helps to take it slowly and explore yourself, things like being genderfluid exist for a reason. Not everyone who is genderfluid is trans, but you'd be shocked at how many people (such as myself) identified as trans after finally calming down with switching back and forth. It's a hard prospect, it's scary sometimes. I doubt myself all the time, but I'm genuinely happier when people refer to me with feminine pronouns, when I'm dressed pretty and I feel like a pretty girl. It's okay not to know either, you won't get an answer immediately. There exists a wide spectrum for you to fall under, so never stop exploring yourself.
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hi! i’m nonbinary and use he/they pronouns. i recently came out to my parents, but they haven’t been great about using my pronouns and they’ve been really uncomfortable using anything other than my deadname. i’ve tried correcting them multiple times but it hasn’t worked.
do you have any advice for me (and others) to use to help my parents use my name and pronouns?
thank you so much! i love seeing these posts on my dash it makes me so happy and hopeful!
sorry it took me over a month to get back to you! first of all, i’d ask if you have a therapist because my old one used to offer to sit down and facilitate a convo between me and my parents. if not, a school councilor can do the same thing that way it feels serious. communicate how it makes you feel and empathize, say you know its hard and a big change but it would mean so much if they could put more effort into it, ext.
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we are RADICAL REBELLIOUS QUEERS WHO LOVE GAY SEX but don't break the rules of our social panopticon and don't point out misogyny or racism and don't do any of that freaky kink shit around me or I'm reporting you #ACAB #DOCRIME
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"Friends don't __!" Actually they do you're just a coward
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they match....
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My queer experience is having my queer awakening due to falling for a close friend and knowing that the friend who caused it will never realize the extent that they’ve changed my life both for the better and for the worse. Feeling like I probably spent far more time thinking about them than they’ve ever thought about me. Feeling like all I ever was to them was a little stain in their life for a few years, and they’ve probably moved on to better and brighter things while I’m falling apart. And wondering if I should feel grateful, bitter, or sad because they helped me find out my identity, they made me happy for too little time, they left me wishing things were different, that maybe if we had met a little later in life, things might’ve worked out better.
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Genderfluid people;
Do you like when people use they/then for you?
No, not at all/barely any
Yes, they are my main pronouns/I like them
Neutral
Kind of
Kind of not
I'm not genderfluid
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Hello!! I got waffles the other night after getting flustered/heart eyes over a girl the other night, and I saved half of em for a snack. Now I'm sharing some with you!
*gives you some choccy chip waffles and a gay little high five*
awww
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Massive archive of a newspaper written specifically for Yiddish learners! Glosses at the bottom of the page for more difficult words and grammar
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I live in a state where the anti trans climate is crushing but I have a cis friend at work who always thinks of ways to be kind, and I can only speak for myself, but if you're cis reading this, even if it's just using the right name on a birthday card or something else in daily life, it's not useless and it doesn't go unnoticed. It helps me get through the day after another bad headline takes a little more of the world away. Even if you feel clumsy or awkward you're probably helping someone. Please keep trying.
^^^
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how are you?
not bad! just got a text from someone i dont want to be thinking about. otherwise its been a great week
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i need a distraction so asks are back up!
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our-queer-experience · 10 hours
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A vision I had: Mexican sapphic pride patch that's in the shape of a butterfly ("mariposa") that says "maricona" (basically a spanish version of dyke)
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our-queer-experience · 12 hours
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“not everything has to be about lesbians” i mean true but
why limit ourselves
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our-queer-experience · 13 hours
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I already submitted about this but I'm still not over it and I saw your post about positive stuff in the asks
my girlfriend gave me the best haircut ever
it's the shortest I've ever had it cut and it's amazing
usually I regret my big hair changes for a few weeks while it grows out a bit or I figure out how to style it so I like it and I avoid mirrors for a while, but with this haircut, I definitely haven't been avoiding mirrors
My hair is making me feel so confident right now. In some of my outfits I actually kind of look like a 12 year old boy in a dress, which is exactly what I wanted.
I've always loved my hair, but that's always been more connected to how fun it is to style it and how I can manipulate it to look how I want
now it's too short to style but I still love it so much. like, idk if I've ever really loved my hair because I've never felt like this about it. I've never felt like this about how I look in general.
like, when I take a photo I actually like how it looks I'm not just deciding to keep it because I might like it later and future me will appreciate having pictures
This haircut is so amazing, it's making me realize that I've never actually had a good haircut before
!!!
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