Hi, i’m new here, and have a problem to talk about.

I’m newly Otherkin,but in my heart, i have always felt like a wolf, so as one would guess, I have very animalistic behaviors,but I ideentify as non-binary, and i am asexual.My non kin friends say that it doesn’t make sense that i am a wolf, who is genderless, and also say wolves have a natural tendency to mate,and that there is no possible way a wolf could have no tendency to mate.They are not wolves, nor do they research them or understand them, they just assume that all wolves (and by extension mammals) are like that.I try to explain that to them, but they just won’t listen. Help?