oh wait yeah, I get it.

in a way I do think they're a bit extreme for me. I don't know if this is just how the gay ppl I've met are or if this really is how gay ppl act but I've noticed that they are a bit energetic and loud— obv that's not really a bad thing. I'm just not that type of person.

some people are also a bit immature ig. they can't take an opinion and would immediately call you homophobic and go

"guys🥰😍🤗 don't worry!😧😚 my blog is a safe space for everyone 🤩🤗... unlike that hompphobic person who said she doesn't support lgbtq+ 😔"

or

" some🙄😬 people really shouldn't be given a platform😫😡 " as if yall listen to me

it's an exaggeration but yeah, I assume they didn't read anything from my post. when they see this post, watch them go say, "she's homophobic omg!🤢😱 shes saying bad shit abt me bcs im lgbtq+😱😱"

Act as in how you’re saying they assume idols sexuality and how you say they are quite extremist sometimes, etc

what is this in reply to?

Act as in how you’re saying they assume idols sexuality and how you say they are quite extremist sometimes, etc

what is this in reply to?

I can understand most of your views but what your moot was saying about not supporting lgbtq+ = homophobic is generally true. What you’re saying about the people in the community is quite different and I think you’d have to explain yourself about what you mean about not supporting for me to not think you’re homophobic because for pretty much everyone else when they say they don’t support lgbtq+ it means they don’t agree with people loving the same gender or don’t agree with people being any sexuality or gender but cis and straight. You’re the first person I’ve seen on this instance where you have used that phrase but is not actually homophobic/trans phobic. When I meet homophobic people irl and ask them why they usually say ‘I don’t support lgbt people and I don’t agree with same sex marriage because it’s weird and wrong’ That IS homophobic.

I really don't give a fuck about who you love (have to clear out that I'm not angry in that statement lol just trynna give it more... oomf(?)) if you love the same gender or the opposite I have no say— as long as you (as a human) don't love an inanimate object, an animal or whatever.

what i mean about not supporting it is that don't expect me to participate in pride parades, don't expect me to have a gay flag in my house, don't expect me to wear rainbow clothing, and i dont understand the need to keep adding onto the different sexualities but then again, you do you as long as it doesn't harm me, I'm fine.

I'm not gonna decline a friends wedding invitation because theyre gay. I won't steer away from gay people if I see them on the street. I won't slur at them or anything.

what im saying is, i support you as a human being and I understand your right as a person to be respected. its as simple as that. I only support your cause because what you want is to be accepted and understood, no? that is so easy to me and I alrdy respect you. I dont need to participate in pride parades, wear rainbow clothing, and proclaim to everyone that I'm part of the lgbtq+ community to acknowledge you as a person.

So what you’re trying to say is you support gay people and the cause but you don’t support the people IN the cause? Like how they act?

not necessarily how they act????? cos like, by "how they act" what do u mean? do gay people act a certain way from any of us?

not supporting something ≠ hating that thing

it's as simple as that. i hope these people here let that sink in (and im saying this as someone who's bi)

thank you for pointing it out and I hope everyone understand that.

I really just couldn't keep silent about it lol

I wasn't aware that my tumblr blog was exclusive to only talking about enhypen

no cause why would you have your pronouns and "dni interact if homophobic/transphobic" if you literally just say shit like that about the community?

shit as in? was it insulting?

is it wrong for me to not want anyone who dehumanises people on my page? I'm not shying away from the topic but am I homophobic/transphobic now?

is it wrong for me to establish my pronouns because people continuesly ask?

no cause tell me why you pick on the smallest most irrelevant stuff about me now that youve found out that I don't support your community but only support your cause; the want to be accepted and respected.

this is on my carrd too, "DNI if CLOSE MINDED"

that whole rant is relatable js excluding the Not supporting the lgbtq+ community but I do respect what you choose to do. But it’s so infuriating seeing people say oh “you can’t call blah blah straight because they haven’t said so” but then their the same people who on calling them “fruity” “gay” and some other words that connect to the lgbtq+, like they also haven’t came out themselves. It’s so hypocritical that people get to do that on others. Some people just like to show out their fem/masc side of them and assuming that they’re a certain sexuality is js really disappointing because we DO NOT KNOW THEM AS A PERSON. WE ONLY KNOW THEIR IDOL SIDE NOT ANY OTHER SIDE!!

thank you for understanding!

yeah I can agree to those that it's misleading and isn't it some form of queer baiting? correct me if I'm wrong. but I don't really I don't understand why it has to be so wrong in their eyes that someone acts a certain way outside of the stereotype.

( as much as possible, I won't give any examples bcs ppl might get offended but if you know, you know )

there are idols who have more delicate and feminine features but act manly, there are also idols who have masculine features but act feminine, there are idols who have feminine features and act feminine... the list goes on.

Here to send a long ask bc I’m honestly astonished and I don’t think I can just breeze over it. Ican understand how you’re thinking but I don’t really agree with it and don’t really get why it’s an issue you need to speak about. You’re not from the community so obviously you won’t know how it feels to feel disconnected from the majority. I agree there are so many genders and labels now people don’t know themselves but that’s the point. Gender and sexuality and how it feels to be a man or woman are stereotypes and socially constructed, sexuality and gender is completely different for each person but people create lots of labels to feel comfortable that is why there are so many. It’s a spectrum different for everyone but sometimes people feel safer having it being named something but since it’s so different for everyone there is so many which imo for me is quite messy and I think there shouldn’t be that many labels it’s a spectrum and you feel how you feel. As for the community, I’d say lately there a lot of more cringey kinds of people and yeah people can get offended easily but with the way you worded stuff it was quite offendable. Even with you saying that they are stereotypes and so trans people just shouldn’t listen and ignore and just stay what they are bc how can they know they want to be another gender without experiencing it is wrong. Gender runs so much that even if you personally ignore it, people will still see you as a man or a woman or whatever and it’s hard to ignore it. Wanting feminine features, having more soft voices and the body and how women are perceived makes complete sense for why someone would want to and the same for why someone would want to be a man. There are still masculine and feminine features and bodies are still different, some people may want the other. And about the predators I just feel like it’s a poor excuse, you get rape and murder from men all the time, pretty much all trans people aren’t trans just because they want to be a creep. The amount of struggle people get for being trans, having to transition, other peoples opinions is no joke at all. Real trans people don’t do that and despite instances you see on the news, it is not common. I know many trans people and it has never happened. It’s like murder on the news, you see it a lot, do you actually experience irl a lot personally? Rarely. It’s just whenevr it does happen it’s documented and that’s why it feels like it happens a lot. I feel like that opinion is severely harmful compared to everything else you’ve said. I just fee Like gender and sexuality and severely complex and if you are not part of it, you won’t know it feels. I don’t get why people are so extremely opinionated on things like this when it doesn’t affect you. It happens, it happens. Some people are gay. Some people are trans, some people are cis, etc we can be a lot of things and it’s not something to think about so much. It is something that exists in this day and age bc we actually think and do not adhere to traditional things anymore end of. Loving someone of the same gender is not wrong. Changing to another gender is not wrong. You get bad people in every kind of community. I can understand how you think but I don’t really get why you care about something you are not apart of. Nor do I really get why you had to speak up about it. Especially on a platform known for majority to be lgbtq+ and is supportive of the community.

just to clear things up before I start with the reply to this comment— well, I guess it also answers your question on "why I had to post it on a platform that's so heavily supportive of the community," I made that post in reply to someone who is part of your community.

if it wasn't clear in the post and to give it some back story, a person in your community (person A) was accusing their friend (person b) of being homophobic just because they don't support lgbtq+ which is 1.) such a wrong use of the word and 2.) harmful to person b because we know what happens to them when you get accused of being homophobic.

the next times ppl come at me with the "i dont support lgbtq" i stg im gonna be like "i dont support straight ppl" since "respect goes both ways" no ?? "yeah i dont really support people being straight but you do you" ☺️ "i dont support u, a woman, loving you bf, bc straight relationships are wrong, but i do respect you as a person, we can still be friends !! idrc if ur straight, it's whatever."

granted, person b did say that lgbtq+ people's sexuality isn't valid which...💀 was pretty dumb on their part and i do not agree with it. but to have this sort of mindset???

is it wrong for me to want to indirectly straighten their mindset or atleast make them understand that just because you dont support a certain community, doesn't mean you hate them??? you say that it's wrong for me to post things like this on this platform but are alright with describing how idols' dicks look like, how much you want your idols to fuck you, and express your sexual desires outside of the realm of fan fiction— which I don't really give a fuck abt btw but just saying, people can twist that and call it sexualization and/or harassment.

but yes, I can't vaguely understand how gender and sexuality are different but I don't see how creating new names for them can be of any benefit to your community. you started the movement so u can be acknowledged and accepted as normal human being right? but for people to understand you, you have to have a limit and a basis. how can people grasp the changes that you imply in society when people can freely create and add to the spectrum however they want?

or maybe you dont care to be accepted?

as I said, I don't support lgbtq+ but I value your existence as a human being regardless. I don't invalidate your feelings nor do I see u as any less of a human being because youre gay. it's the 21st century, everyone is opening up to new things and being more accepting, but that doesn't mean i have to parade with you, doesn't it?

if the post came out as rude to u, its bcs it wasn't directly for you. its in reply to someone which I was a bit more brute to because they needed to get a grasp back into reality. I don't want to directly converse with that person because God knows how they'll react. I posted it onto my blog so that I can establish my own ground.

How’s the inbox looking?

it's actually pretty nice and peaceful

tbh, I'm glad I only gave my personal account om insta to the one (maybe two) person I trust on tumblr. she's actually mature enough to listen to opinions 💀

i think you’re so bold for saying what you said because i would never be caught dead saying this shit even though i heavily agree with you. you can’t feel like another gender you’ve never been. there is no way to feel and think like a woman or man. women and men aren’t monoliths. trans people just follow harmful gender stereotypes and perpetuate them. you don’t have to respond to this and you probably shouldn’t because i’ve seen the lengths some of these lgbtq+ extremists have gone to to insult and harm people with our views, (funny how many of these “trans-woman” jump to rape and violence threats when someone mildly critiques their ideologies) but i just want you to know you are seen and valid. stay safe

to be honest, i feel like there are people out there who feel the same or atleast have the same opinion but are just scared to express their opinion publicly because they'll get humiliated and/or harassed by those who support the community.

as a person tho, it's so sad that that is what usually happens. those people won't even try to consider or take into account whatever it is you're saying and will just straight up harm you— which in the end, harms the image of their community and creates a bad stigma.

oh and your last point, obviously that is on the worst side of the community, but that doesn't mean that we should ignore it. like ive said in a convo w someone, there have been so many cases where "trans-women" would go into bathroom and peep on actual women. not only that but there has also been multiple cases where gay men who are invited into sleepovers (by girls obviously) rape them.

but yes like I said, I'm not generalising all of them to be like this. these are just points that are hard to ignore. we certainly shouldn't think of them as vermin or smth. we should still respect them as a person living and breathing. they also have rights so... yeah

Are you religious

nope, I'm more agnostic— I believe that God exists but not in how certain religions portray them as(?) or their beliefs. if something is morally wrong I won't do it, not bcs my religion tells me that it is.

if I was religious, then I don't think I'll be doing any smut since... well, I dont assume a religious person would write about a succubus fucking you inside a church stock room >__<

If you have so many problems with your moots why make them in the first place ??🙄🙄

to answer your question, i was moots with that person because she was talented at writing and I wanted to be friends with a person who had such a talent. I didn't know that her personality was shit and I only got to know that when she insulted my friend (and hers at the time)

over the course of me knowing her and her overall existence, she has displayed countless episodes of immaturity— either responding to a simple ask with hostility or insulting someone for something so trivial like a title on her fanfiction.

that is why despite knowing and being alerted that she was back in tumblr after many many scenes of deactivating, coming back, deleting, making a new acc, abandoning it, and then coming back, I chose not to reconnect with her.

You're a bitch who hates her moots , ghosts them and spreads hate about them . Fuck off

who did I ghost?

also, who are you to call me a bitch when I have not said a word of malice towards you. if you want to confront someone, do it correctly and maturely. you can converse someone without cussing them off? can't you?

please read.

note. this has nothing to do with enhypen.

i was so ready to reconnect w this past moot but then she goes around accusing people who don't support lgbtq+ homophobic.

lemme be real with you guys. I do not support the lgbtq+ community. I do not consume bl/gl content. I don't like male idols being shipped with each other and vice versa— however this is for a completely different reason from the topic at hand.

just to clear it up, I do not support ships— esp if it's idols in the same group, bcs that's like assuming their gender and that is completely wrong. not to mention that it's even more wrong that you ship them with their friends for simply interacting with them as it can destroy friendships.

if they do something that you label "fruity" or they act "girly" you call them gay. obviously this is not seen as something bad but what is wrong is that you're assuming their gender and I do not support it. if they come out as gay or lesbian, then go ahead and call em whatever name that is appropriate. but if they're not or have not come out officially, do not assume anything.

now to actually get back on track, i do not support said community however, I do not hate them. I don't shun them from society nor go up to them and ask them, "why are you gay and etc? gay and etc people are disguting."

it is completely possible to not support a certain community and all the while be at peace with their existence. I do not go on pride parades but I don't join groups that terrorise them. if you, as an lgbtq+ person is being bullied and such, I will defend you like I will to any other human being because it is your right as a human being to be respected. I have done this so please do not go on assuming that "you won't actually do that when the time comes."

plus, I'm not even going to serve the fact that there are religions with devoted believers that do not support lgbtq+ community because then, people will say shit about that said religion when all they're doing is following what they believe in without forcing it on others.

this is the one thing I always teach my boyfriend as a medical student focusing in psychology. me and my boyfriend have different beliefs and honestly speaking, he was very narrow minded. but one thing that I never fail to make him understand is to never force his religion on me and he understands this because he has the willingness to listen and mature. with that being said, it also takes a certain level of maturity to listen to other people's opinions and process their points and rebute with elegance.

that is all that I have to say in this matter. i hope people change their perspectives and try not to be so irrational.

major rant incoming lol