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notfrequenthere · 1 year
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yo it’s literally november 3rd. what’s next the 4th? and then. no it can’t be.
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notfrequenthere · 1 year
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A Checklist Of Possible Reasons I Am Upset, To Review When I Can't Seem To Figure It Out:
did not eat
new hyperfixation and no time for it
have not done a creative in 24 hrs
Bad Sounds
clothes are touching my body
cold
people
one (1) comment is stuck in my brain like a popcorn kernel
last time I drank water was ??????
nervous nervous nervous nervous
got a Slightly Worse grade than expected
last hug was ??????
slept a full 45 minutes
lonely ............
guts are shredding (again)
have not seen sunlight in 24 hrs
stuck inside
too much screen time
Yay Overwhelm
room is disaster area
have not talked to Person in a while
bored
imposter phenomenon (again)
no current routine
how long have I been working???
Too Much Socialization
and then. and THEN. I may consider:
something is actually wrong
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notfrequenthere · 1 year
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wizard: i have trapped you in a time loop >:)
me, loves routines: oh darn whatever shall i do
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notfrequenthere · 1 year
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you're allowed to like being trans. your transness is allowed to bring you joy. you are allowed to feel elated, excited, happy when you talk about being trans. you are allowed to hyperfixate and have transgender topics be your special interest. you are allowed to love who you see in the mirror. you are allowed to have your transness be the thing that gets you out of bed in the morning.
transness is NOT all doom and gloom. transness is NOT just dysphoria. transness is NOT solely about the negative feelings and the uncomfortable parts of the experience, about self hatred, or treating transness like a disorder or a disease. transness is NOT all about being embarrassed or "hiding" yourself.
transness is liberation. transness is about freedom. transness is expression. transness is the act of creation. transness actually is in fact about achieving one's personal comfort, safety, and yes, happiness. you can and are encouraged to love being trans.
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notfrequenthere · 1 year
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notfrequenthere · 1 year
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They are talking about dinosaurs
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notfrequenthere · 1 year
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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Idk who needs to b reminded of this but femme lesbians have complex relationships with gender also. There r femmes who use he/him, who use neopronouns, who r trans, who are intersex, etc. And it is especially complex for femmes who r not white. Femme lesbians r not “Woman but make it lesbian”.
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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the people fearmongering about bdsm are the same people fearmongering about fetishes are the same people fearmongering about pornography are the same people fearmongering about trans women are the same people fearmongering about groomers are the same people making sure gay and trans people stay unsafe, btw
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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i’m not sure if there’s already a post going around because i haven’t seen one, so i’ll make my own. puerto rico was just hit with hurricane fiona and the harm that this is bringing the island is huge — it may not seem like a big disaster to many, but puerto rico cannot handle another hurricane as they have not recovered fully from hurricane maria just yet.
people are losing their homes, they don’t have electricity, no water, etc. i’m linking some sources you can donate to to help out, if you’re able to. if you can’t, a reblog counts for so much too, as it may show up in the dashboard of someone who can donate. DO NOT donate to red cross or government organizations. these are the ppals of each organization I recommend donating to!!
Taller Salud
Puerto Rico’s Legal Aid Equivalent
Fundación Pisadas de Amor
here is a twitter thread with more options and resources. here is another thread in spanish with a bunch more.
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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as funny as top/bottom/switch jokes can be, i wanna drill into queer kids heads that those terms are 1) not myers-briggs personality types 2) likely not something you know about yourself if you're a virgin 3) inherently sexual and therefore 4) not something adults should assign you, even as a joke
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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my friend was testing perfumes out at the store and she sniffed a bottle and anounced "ngl this bitch kind of sucks" The girl at the counter suddenly looked really sad, and my friend was like "I'm sorry, I wasn't talking about you." And the girl looked up and said "No don't worry, I didn't think that, but I just crushed a ladybug with my shoe" We both took a peak over the counter. she'd stepped on a red m&m
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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my friend was testing perfumes out at the store and she sniffed a bottle and anounced "ngl this bitch kind of sucks" The girl at the counter suddenly looked really sad, and my friend was like "I'm sorry, I wasn't talking about you." And the girl looked up and said "No don't worry, I didn't think that, but I just crushed a ladybug with my shoe" We both took a peak over the counter. she'd stepped on a red m&m
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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i love cheating on exams i love abortion i love autism i love “unhealthy” food i love vaccines and ugly clothes and sex changes amen
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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people forget that there are literally no rules to being queer. if you feel queer, congrats, you can be queer. its not my or anyone else’s job to investigate or interrogate you. you are the sole authority on your identity 
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notfrequenthere · 2 years
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avril was right life IS like this you fall and you crawl and you break and you take what you get and you turn it into honesty you promised me i’d never find you faking no no no
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