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lulafia · 13 days
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Night and Day by Dominik Mayer
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lulafia · 13 days
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you will live and you will say the wrong things and make mistakes and people will love you anyways.
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lulafia · 13 days
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Little hints here and there :3
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lulafia · 2 months
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Fyodor Dostoyevsky // Alanis Morissette
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lulafia · 2 months
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i gotta be honest boobs are so cool
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lulafia · 3 months
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The women who desperately need Taylor swift to be gay are kind of indicative of a larger trend in gay stuff where people don’t want to seek out actual gay art or culture but want to consecrate all the normiest str8 culture as somehow queer in order to feel like they are participating, without having to actually do anything deviating from the lowest common denominator broadest appeal culture industry products
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lulafia · 3 months
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yall gotta be nicer about m/f  bc sometimes u guys like the blandest gay sutff ive ever seen in my life
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lulafia · 3 months
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its the last month of 2023 so i’m just gonna say it: what the absolute fuck was that
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lulafia · 3 months
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everyone is always acting like there is some crisis of human interaction with one another because everyone is overly sensitive to how strangers approach them and like. no actually its because nobody has any fucking manners. social etiquette has legitimately vanished. it makes interacting with strangers miserable because people don’t know how to fucking behave in public.
like it is rude to stare. it is rude to point. it is rude to have a loud phone conversation in a quiet place. it’s rude to listen to music or videos or whatever on your device with no headphones on a loud volume, or at any volume in an enclosed or quiet space. these are rude things to do. like i’m sorry while some etiquette is silly, an acceptable level of decorum is necessary to make existing in public bearable for everybody…….it is LITERALLY common courtesy
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lulafia · 4 months
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my c3 faves
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lulafia · 5 months
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self-flagellation and self-bullying are all bad motivators for change BTW. it can be hard to escape from a spiral but genuinely u have to be nice to urself or nothing will change
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lulafia · 5 months
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yknow what pisses me da fuck off. how gay men get to be like teehee im too gay to care about women but lesbians are still expected to center men to the extent that jokes about Characters Who Are Lesbian Icons are always men. "lesbian and her boy blorbo" are the most popular jokes about lesbians on this website. "x man is a he/him lesbian" headcanons outnumber actual content about lesbian characters 10:1 even in series with well-written female characters. but sure youre Too Gay to think about a Yucky Female for ten seconds and you HAVE to broadcast this fact in the notes of posts abt fandom misogyny
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lulafia · 6 months
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I mean I know a certain level of projection on fictional characters and situations is inevitable and even healthy, but sometimes you got to step back into the real world to remind yourself that Character X is not your shitty parent/abusive ex/asshole boss/bully from high school, and that people who like Character X are not personally victimizing you.
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lulafia · 6 months
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lulafia · 6 months
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you ever think so hard you forget where you are
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