“The people who are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back towards you, no matter how far they wander.”

— Robert Tew

If I’m on ur mind just text me

“I can tell you’re not yourself lately and I hope wherever you’ve gone, you feel free.”

— R.M. Drake

On being in a healthy relationship after a toxic one

Something I’ve learned recently is that working past a toxic relationship comes in stages. For a long while, I took time to be single. To learn how to love and live with myself and to be happy in myself. I worked on myself constantly and eventually I felt ready to try again. I was very happily single and capable of thriving alone. Then one day a healthy relationship came along. This is a new stage of healing. Small things still trigger disproportionate reactions or feelings. I have to question “Is this reaction actually granted, given the situation or am I bringing old thoughts to a new situation”. I find new insecurities and needs that I didn’t know I still had because being single never tested me in that way. It’s a challenge to unlearn toxic patterns, but it’s worth every effort.

https://gofund.me/848b354c

Feeling so alone

Trying to fill this black hole

That’s in my chest

Baby, I need some rest

Spilling out these words

But no one is listening

inspire me. motivate me. love me. support me. listen to me. be honest with me. grow with me. learn with me. be consistent with me. make love to me.

“Destroy the idea that you have to be constantly working or grinding in order to be successful. Embrace the concept that rest, recovery, and reflection are essential parts of the progress towards a successful and ultimately happy life.”

— Unknown