Hii I'm ADHD queer woman and I want to thank you for your art and queer representation you do!! Your art feels warm and cozy.
Sometimes I feel like I'm not worthy to call myself "queer" because of all that pressure, other queers think I'm straight woman because my girlfriend is trans girl, it makes me sad. I just wanted to ask if I'm still queer, my girlfriend is trans woman and trans women are women, right? So basically I'm still a queer woman, right?
Any response is okay I would be grateful if you share your lesbian experience <3
thank you so much for your kind words!! they really mean a lot to me. <3
as for your question... whoever thinks they can choose your labels for you is not a good person to hang around. (not to mention, transphobic) I've also struggled with my self acceptance in that regard, so i understand where you're coming from. it can be hard to unlearn that sort of thinking.
I get a lot of flack from other queer people for calling myself a lesbian even though im genderqueer. ive been calling myself a lesbian for years and its the label that feels right for me. i know myself better than anyone else, so whoever wants to argue about my identity can go kick rocks. i like women in a gay way, thats it.
the great thing about our existence on earth is that you can call yourself literally whatever you want. if you want a label and it feels right, then use that label!! if you don't want to label yourself, don't!! if you want to change it, do that!!
they're all just words we made up to explain our weird and complicated human feelings. if a word feels good for you, thats all that matters. nobody gets to label you except yourself.
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ANOTHER QUICK FAT TIP I 4GOT TO MENTION!! chins!!!! less defined jawlines!! cuz there's more fat around the neck, you often see a more soft transition from jaw to neck rather than a sharper one. I usually draw it like so:
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seeing people on my fat tutorial say "oh i didnt realize this was normal i thought my body was just weird/gross" ALL BODIES ARE NORMAL!!!!! EVERY BUMP AND LUMP AND FOLD YOU HAVE IS STILL YOUR BODY!!!!!!! FAT CAN EXIST IN MANY DIFFERENT WAYS!!!!!!! ITS OKAY!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!
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do you have any alternatives to your website that can be viewed on mobile? i dont have a computer :(
im sorry its not mobile optimized right now :( im hopefully going to fix that soon!!
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your 'terfs eat shit and die' does nothing. terfs arent real. radfems are tho and this one thinks your fish lady art is cool
terfs, radfems, gender crit, whatever you call yourselves, if you don’t support trans people i don’t want you on my blog. BEGONE, EAT SHIT.
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new fursona. he’s a brown tabby that is full of love
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uh. i guess you can find my other socials on my website if tumblr ends up going down. i’ll still be on here but just in case
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