god said i will create all these problems but i will also create mangoes

people say folks with adhd struggle with "delayed rewards" aka long term goals and as such we tend to focus more on short term rewards. what they don't talk about is that at when we Do accomplish long term goals we don't actually feel anything proportionate to the amount of work we did to achieve it. In my head I suffered for a while and then money spontaneously appeared in my bank account.

nobuddy feels like they have a sharp attention span these days, right? and we all just click “agree on terms of service” because its hard to love yourself sometimes, well

enter Terms of Service, Didn’t Read: a website and a browser addon that streamlines the terms of service of many popular web services to be read by the tech sunday drivers.

It’s graded from A (great) to E (awful) and if you have the addon you have access to the info about the website on your bar

There's something quite charming about relatively small objects that are way heavier than they look. ooohh you're one dense little freak aren't you

things haven't been great but i think they will be. eventually 🌻🌼🩷

This is random but I absolutely hate how people assume that having something as a special interest (or hyperfixation) means that you have extensive in-depth knowledge about it. Especially since it’s mostly neurotypical people guilty of this (though I’ve seen plenty of nd do it as well.) We’ve been told an annoying amount of times that “you don’t actually have a special interest in x, you hardly know anything about it” by people who have a lot of background in the subject. Like no where in any description of a special interest does it say it makes you an expert in the subject. Some people only fixate on the idea or aesthetic of their special interest. Some only on a surface level knowledge of it. Some people just simply aren’t compelled to dig deeper. I’ve never had the urge to look much into learning more about most of my spins, and when I’ve forced myself to I end up bored and don’t pay attention to whatever I’m researching.

I just need people to understand that having a spin doesn’t require substantial knowledge in the area to be valid. We just want to casually talk about what we already know and maybe learn little tidbits from others without being told “educate yourself” or that we’re invalid.

LGBT more like. Let’s Go To Bed. Let’s go bed to. Let’s. It’s bedtime.

So did the "fuck content warnings! You HAVE to see this if you CARE!" crowd just forget that content warnings exist, y'know, for people personally tied to it. If they put a "discretion advised" disclaimer before a news story about a shooting, that's to avoid triggering people who have trauma from similar shootings. That's. That's why it's called a trigger warning

They imagine that they're righteously screaming at some fiend refusing to engage out of self-interest, but really they're just retraumatizing people who were directly impacted by the violence, or who have family or a community who were, over an entirely imaginary crusade

genuinely save me

me talking to a neurotypical: sorry to switch topics again... this is sort of related, but only kind of.... i know its kind of random, but.....

me talking to someone else with adhd:

Art from when I was in my She Ra phase in 2020, its kinda old but I still vibe with it

Gotta rewatch the series again now…

Milk talking more about her sexuality today:

I thought this was old news considering she posted this a long time ago (looking gay AF), but people are acting surprised in the replies so I thought I would share it here as well.

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