No Mom, you don’t understand; there’s a big difference between watching Naruto with a guy you like and watching Naruto with a guy you have no interest in.

uhm wrestling with someone who's much stronger than me but let's me believe I've got them under control only for them to switch into dom-mode and then pin me down and tell me playtime is over and they'll fuck me back into submission

Am I the only one who feels guilty calling in to work sick, even though I really am..?

so a while ago I did a drawing of Anisa w/ the intention of doing something similar for the rest of the Starsworn, but I got uh. sidetracked. for two years. anyway by the time I got back to it I didn't love the original anymore, and it didn't fit w/ what I had in mind for the others, so I redid it! finally.

(I lost the original post when I switched to a sideblog and I'm too lazy to go looking for it but the og drawing is under the cut!)

I still like some parts of the old version but the new one is closer to what I was going for! this was also before I read the wiki and saw the Q+A post w/ everyone's elements

so I also made some changes based on that ✨

You don’t understand though, I NEED him to look at me like this

To cut back on the water bill, Lucifer has decided to start bathing fully clothed so his clothes will get washed along with his body.

They are already selling data to midjourney, and it's very likely your work is already being used to train their models because you have to OPT OUT of this, not opt in. Very scummy of them to roll this out unannounced.

"describe your symptoms" brother i have felt like this since i was 12 unrelentingly

So I had a chat with an AI Beelzebub

i hate to say it but. the healthy eating people are kinda onto something. if you can figure out a way to get all your greens and proteins and fiber in ways that taste good to you you start to prefer the healthy option over junk food 7/10 times

some loser: humans are innately selfish creatures

my psych book:

Sometimes self-care is, actually, NOT getting onto the computer and little treats and watching youtube videos. Sometimes those things are self-care, but sometimes they're also avoidant behaviors.

Sometimes self care is waking up and just. Fucking getting in the car. And driving to the bank. And the store. And buying the cat litter. And changing the cat boxes you've been avoiding because your brains been stuck in a hole. And picking up the trash you've been piling up. And getting a load into the wash. And mowing the lawn before the village council sends you a formal complaint and potential-fines warning.

Like its hard and annoying to do because it sucks. It sucks so much. But if I don't start working on this pile of bullshit I've let build up because it stinks and i was stuck in deer-in-headlights mode, I risk letting it turn into fuckery. I do not have the patience for fuckery that I once - foolishly! - thought I had.

being neutral about other peoples kinks is necessary by the way. when consenting adults are doing things between consenting adults, and you prioritize your discomfort over their autonomy and right to exist safely in a space without having their private interests excavated and recontextualized to make them out to be predators, that says way more about your willingness to place yourself in the position of moral authority than it does about them and you deputizing yourself on the basis of nothing but vibes and your personal traumas makes you very dangerous politically.