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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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“Just because she’s independent and single doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian, you’re being stereotypical” shut the fuck up shut the fuck up SHUT THE FUCK UP.
As if every single female character doesn’t already have to be attracted to men and center men in their attraction. And now the second we headcanon a female character who doesn’t have a romantic relationship with men as a lesbian suddenly we’re the bad guys?
Lesbians get no representation ever but oh I get it, female characters are allowed to be strong and independent and not need a guy to be fulfilled and all of that crap you spew in the name of feminism, so long as they’re still attracted to guys that is.
God forbid a female character is actually independent from and fully de-centers men by not being attracted to them at all. God forbid lesbians have an ACTUAL CHARACTER to see themselves in to remind us that we are not “incomplete” for not liking men. But y’all don’t care about that, I already know. It’s not forcing independent girls to be lesbians and it’s not “stereotyping” you guys just see lesbian as a dirty word, and you see us as perverted, gross, forceful, man-haters, or less than women because your identity is wrapped up in liking men and you center them at every turn, straight women will always complain about female characters being lesbians with “why can’t she just be independent” meanwhile y’all exclude us from conversations with your endless jabber about boyfriends and crushes, lol fucking jokes.
The truth is lesbians are the embodiment of what womanhood looks like without the centering of men and that threatens y’all somehow, so the second a female character is seen as a lesbian you come out with the pitchforks screaming “nuh-uh, she’s STRAIGHT!” It’s not the “independence” that is the problem, you’re just mad and offended by female characters not being available to men or depending on them to find love and be happy, that’s the real problem that you pretend is the opposite.
And don’t pretend that you treat canonical lesbians any better either, because when we do get them you erase their sexuality by calling them straight or bi and writing fics about them being shipped with male characters they have no chemistry with(because they’re lesbians), or making them aroace(because if they can’t be into men then you’ll make sure they’re not into women either), you don’t give a shit fuck about independent women and even less of one about lesbians, you just see a woman not being attracted to men as not fulfilling their proper role as women because you still define womanhood as revolving around men even when they are “independent” and thus you need to “punish” them somehow.
So, disrespectfully, fuck off, and don’t come after us lesbians with our headcanons about characters as lesbians with “but but but can’t she be strong and independent without being a lesbian?! Can’t she still be straight!!! I can respect her not getting with a man but I still need her to like guys please!!!” Because you WILL get embarrassed and you WILL get your feelings hurt.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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I guess you can call this a Charity Shoutout
CW: MENTIONS OF SUICIDE, RACISM, AND UNDERAGE HARRASSMENT
As a lot of you who have been active in the Encanto fandom for as long as I have known, last month marked the one-year anniversary of the suicide of someone very special in this fandom, carlaerosie. She sadly took her own life way too young after being bullied and harassed far too many times by the racist assholes in this fandom, and since it's been one year since her death. I want to give back by finding a Colombian-based charity that helps those with mental health issues and suicidal thoughts. I ended up finding the Sergio Urrego Foundation, which is based in Bogota, Colombia, and it's mission is to provide psychiatric care for those in need of it. I'm planning on taking out $20 per paycheck I get this month to give back and I highly encourage anyone else involved to do whatever you can for this organization.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞 –
𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥, 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐬 –
affectionate, approving, beaming, bright, brilliant, broad, charming, cheerful, compassionate, dazzling, encouraging, enthusiastic, friendly, gentle, genuine, infectious, innocent, irresistible, placid, playful, pleased, radiant, reassuring, sweet, soft, sunny, tender, warm, welcoming, windsome.
𝐃𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐞 –
cold, condescending, cruel, dazed, devilish, dry, enigmatic, evil, feeble, fixed, forced, furtive, grave, grim, haughty, helpless, ingratiating, insolent, ironic, malicious, meek, melancholy, mocking, mournful, mysterious, oily, reluctant, rueful, sarcastic, sardonic, scornful, shy, slight, smug, sober, strained, strange, stony, thin, timid, tremulous, triumphant, ugly, vague, weak, weird, wicked, wistful, wry.
𝗗𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝘀𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 –
amused, crooked, knowing, mischievous, quiet, quick, rusty, sudden, vacant.
𝗗𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗽𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗮 𝘀𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗲 –
chapped, cracked, moist, plump, thin, tight.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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We see Camilo comforting Pepa ONCE because she's panicked and he wants to help his mom. Then people act like Pepa is using her son as a emotional clutch and therapist for years.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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We see Camilo comforting Pepa ONCE because she's panicked and he wants to help his mom. Then people act like Pepa is using her son as a emotional clutch and therapist for years.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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tfw I forget you all have real faces and 50 Bruno faces aren't actually reblogging me
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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here is an Isabela face reblogging you ^^
tfw I forget you all have real faces and 50 Bruno faces aren't actually reblogging me
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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STOP RIGHT NOW. 😭
Isabela Madrigal's smile appreciation post✨
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HER. JUST HER✨
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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One thing I won't forgive the Encanto fandom for is making Mirabel a background character when it's her movie.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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wait-what..
Regardless of what sexuality HC(gay,bi,pan) that you have with Camilo, we can agree that it's weird how part of the fandon makes Camilo a "fierce" flirt """sexy"""womanizer, being he afro-latino right?
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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I was looking at mental health symbols because I was being a curious psych nerd and I found out that one of the symbols for OCD is an hourglass...
I know it's just a coincidence but it's still weird that it happened.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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Wouldn't surprise me 😭
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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what happens in the cracks, stays in the cracks.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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I am sooo close to changing my username but I've already had it for a year now 😭
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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This 😭
HC: Sometimes Bruno has meltdowns that will have disturbing visions and/or swirling sand that can irritate anything and anyone in the vicinity
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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AHHHHH I LOVE IT SO MUCH!!! 😭😭😭 THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS
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based on @hourglass-dreams 's HC that Bruno would write in the sand when he couldn't vocalise.
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hourglass-dreams · 1 year
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I KNOWWW!!!! 😭😭
Causing chaos in Walmart ✨️
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