good morning everyone, happy january 87th
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year later and i still want these ssoooo badddd
Nike Air Force 1 Low âValentineâs Dayâ (2023)
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no thoughts just marcia in anetraâs mug
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fags are allowed to say dyke and dykes are allowed to say fag in the same way that youre allowed to run up and slap your sibling on the back of the head
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check out literally just sitting outside if u can. the hobby of the summer
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canât stop staring at this picture
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little things iâve learned:
one: pay attention to the music youâre relating to. sometimes itâs a clear indicator that something is wrong. other times, itâs an indicator that something is very, very right. when the latter happens, pay extra close attention.
two: true control is subtle, not obsessive. you may not even know that you have it when you do. people who are in control do not question it. they just are.
three: never pass up the opportunity to stick the tips of your fingers out the window of a moving car. feel the wind carry you to the sound of your favorite songs. this is a reminder that youâre alive.
four: thoughts donât have to mean anything. you can just let them be there.
five: notice when youâre struggling and allow yourself some leeway when you do. however, learn the difference between giving yourself leeway and enabling your struggle.Â
six: you cannot build self-love from a foundation of self-hatred. first, work toward self-acceptance. love will follow.
seven: do not love others simply because they love you back. do not expend your love on people who wonât love you back.Â
eight: donât forget to stop and look around. take a moment a day to stop doing and just be. the mindfulness hype isnât overrated. thereâs a reason for it.
nine: setting limits and saying no will not end any relationship worth keeping.Â
ten: friendships built on moments of competitive misery are not healthy. if you find that youâre having the urge to constantly showcase your misery around someone, take that as a red flag. sadness is not a competition you want to win.
eleven: recovery is not about being happy. some days you will feel bored and flat. but these days are still better than those you built around destroying yourself. these days are still victories. recovery is about being alive.
twelve: when youâve built an identity around being sad, the concept of happiness may scare you. giving that sadness up will strip you of most everything and leave you feeling empty. embrace this emptiness and fill it up with exploration. youâll find that itâs worth it.
thirteen:Â you will not come out of your coldest days the same as you were going into them. this is not a bad thing. someday, youâll be warm enough to feel the sun on your face again.
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men should always be bloody and slutty
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lil life update (boring) but for work weâre doing this charity event where members of the bar team get paired with a queen, and i just got my pairing & now itâs suddenly become so real and Scary that in less than two weeks time i will be performing in drag on stage for the first time ever and 13 year old me would be so excited and confused and proud and 19 year old me feels all those things sheâs just more Scared
sorry for rambling just needed to get that out into the Void
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