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geneneianmark · 3 years
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Courtship, marriage, and family. We always wanted a better life, a better family and a better partner. Talking about family, have you ever experienced the life of others or shall I see their perspectives and ways of living, we can see in movies/news that relationships are meant to go either happy or disaster ending, there are some that has happy ever after, and there is some sorrowful ending. In every journey of our lives we encountered many people that we fall inlove and wanted to be the forever partner, which we can travel with, laugh with, and just like the vow “for better or worse”, “till death do as part”, these words are just not that simple if you look into it two souls binding together for the rest of their lives, we always wanted that kind of life. This explainer video will show you how courtship, marriage, and family affect society.
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geneneianmark · 3 years
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FOR ACADEMIC PURPOSE ONLY
Courtship, marriage, and family. We always wanted a better life, a better family and a better partner. Talking about family, have you ever experienced the life of others or shall I see their perspectives and ways of living, we can see in movies/news that relationships are meant to go either happy or disaster ending, there are some that has happy ever after, and there is some sorrowful ending. In every journey of our lives we encountered many people that we fall inlove and wanted to be the forever partner, which we can travel with, laugh with, and just like the vow “for better or worse”, “till death do as part”, these words are just not that simple if you look into it two souls binding together for the rest of their lives, we always wanted that kind of life. This explainer video will show you how courtship, marriage, and family affect society.
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geneneianmark · 3 years
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Deviancy in movie
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THE MOVIE OF THE JOKER
Deviancy is a quirk of a character in a movie which has both side which is the overconformity and underconformity. My best movie example for this is the “JOKER”, but first let me explain the concept of deviancy in a movie, in the movie joker the main character killed many people to get his revenge in that way it creates the main character to become deviant which means behavior involves violations of informal social norms and is referred to as informal deviance, in short he killed people violates the law, before that we need to clarify the main character the main character was a normal person with in a society which I had seen the overconformity but because of his Pseudobulbar affect (PBA) which he performs sudden uncontrollable and inappropriate laughing or crying, and that’s the reason why he’s not accepted in the society. The joker movie I have seen form of types of sanctions in deviance which is the formal and informal sanctions, joker was once a good person who presents formally to others but because of his illness he has seen many informalities which is the informal sanctions, joker only wanted to live a normal life and do things like other people and accepted in the society. In social pathology, Joker became a criminal because of his illness and we can I can tell that joker become the psychopath that the society wanted him to be, the people might not know what he has become after the fun that they made to him. In other words, Joker wanted revenge to the people that didn’t accepted him as what he is that is why he created the disaster in Gotham City, which make him the villain in the movie.
OVERCONFIRMITY OR THE POSITVE CONTEXT OF THE MOVIE JOKER
Joker was a person who followed or work hard as a comedian/street performer, it was sad to see that he got neglected by the society and made fun of him, the people that made fun of him was called the underconfirmity people bullying the weak making people fall in their path, pulling others to the ground not knowing what they’ve been through, anyways joker was the person of dignity and work hard for a good money. Joker believes that someday he will be accepted in the society if he do things that is accepted in society but it turns to be the opposite of what he believe which is the neglection of him in the society, two or three times that joker let the oppression pass but until he realizes its too much and he can’t handle it, let’s talk about that in the negative context lets just focus in the positive. Joker can be seen in the movie that he is really motivated in doing a job despite having the illness of Pseudobulbar affect (PBA) which he performs sudden uncontrollable and inappropriate laughing or crying and that makes him vulnerable to society.
UNDERCONFIRMITY OR THE NEGATIVE CONTEXT OF THE MOVIE JOKER
Joker was once a normal person but society change him and become the king of crime called “JOKER”. Forever alone in a crowd, failed comedian Joker also called Arthur Fleck seeks connection as he walks the streets of Gotham City. Joker wears two masks the one he paints for his day job as a clown, and the guise he projects in a futile attempt to feel like he's part of the world around him. Isolated, bullied and disregarded by society, Arthur begins a slow descent into madness as he transforms into the criminal mastermind known as the Joker.
BOTH CHARACTERISTICS OF JOKER
Joker just wanted a normal life but instead of that he has given a wild forsaken society, but the good thing at first, he didn’t mind all that, and that makes him a good person or character. On the bad side of joker he didn’t hesitate to take revenge on the society that rejected him of what he was, that was the time that joker became the king of criminal, as we can see society shapes us deviance is also made by people we might not seen it but we need to also look on the other side that can lead to a person become a bad influence to our society
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geneneianmark · 3 years
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Gender and Society
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The Beauty of Complementary of Genders as opposed to Equality of Genders
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If we base this on the bible there are only two gender in Christian belief “God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. - Genesis 1:27”, “A woman shall not wear a man's garment, nor shall a man put on a woman's cloak, for whoever does these things is an abomination to the Lord your God. - Deuteronomy 22:5” Complementary of gender this belief asserts that while women and men are of equal value, God has assigned them specific gender roles. Specifically, it promotes men’s headship or authority over women, while encouraging women’s submission. This issue created a controversial due to human rights which is the freedom of expressing themselves, in my opinion politics and religion should not merge each other because it will just make conflict.
Functionalism Theory
Suggests that gender inequalities exist as an efficient way to create a division of labor. Men are the instrument of the society, Mens' role in societies have always been that of protector and provider. Men handled such physical activities, on the other hand female functionalist understanding of the female's function in the family. Females are seemingly in a submissive role, based on the 1950s view of married women, who are supposed to listen to and support their husbands.
Symbolic interactionism theory
Symbolic interactionism aims to understand human behavior by analyzing the critical role of symbols in human interaction. For instance, your if we talk to our father, we show them how manly we are, but if we talk to our mother, we will become fragile and caring, we show our approach depending on who we interact, because the meanings attached to symbols are socially created and not natural, and fluid, not static, we act and react to symbols based on the current assigned meaning.
Conflict theory
In this theory men oppresses women, men are more dominant than women that makes them as subordinates, according to conflict theory, social problems are created when dominant groups exploit or oppress subordinate groups. Consider the Women’s Suffrage Movement or the debate over women’s “right to choose” their reproductive futures. It is difficult for women to rise above men, as dominant group members create the rules for success and opportunity in society (Farrington and Chertok 1993).
Feminist Theory
Feminist theory is a type of conflict theory that examines inequalities in gender-related issues. Feminism is a range of social movements, political movements, and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. Base on functionalism, why not man plays expressive role that doesn’t make them gay, same goes for women if they become the instrument of society that doesn’t make them man this theory is just about equality.
Hierarchy Theory
Gender hierarchy seeks to explain not only why men hold a superior position to women but how each group influences the other. In this way all types gender has the understanding to make a peaceful society.
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geneneianmark · 3 years
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UNDERSTANDING THE SELF
The lesson that the best I’ve learned was the “Understanding the Self: Physical Self” you know what it has the content that really insecure me is that about my appearance. In my thoughts I’m always aware of my body I lose confidence when it comes to my body, I’ve always compared myself to others and get emotionally affected it breaks me every time I know I complain a lot, but to others it’s to easy for them. In the statement that I have just said it was the past me who was a lot of insecurities and can’t accept the fact that I am like this but now as I grow older I don’t mind that at all I am aware of myself and I am confident of what I have, no matter what they say from me it doesn’t matter as long as I am happy and didn’t hurt other people that’s it I’m happy with that. It all started when I was in my childhood.
When I was a kid I get bully a lot because I am fat, like they were saying that I am a pig and relate me to other big animals despite of that I keep on fighting until they stop calling me that nickname, I got many friends who’re not get bullied because of me I used my size to threatened other kid who bullied me and my friends, there was this time that we got called at the principal’s office because of fighting I punched a student who is above our grade and he’s nose was bleeding and also for me I was black-eyed for week, our parents got called also, but the matter turns the table the bully kid was given a warning that if he do that again he will get ejection, days have passed we became friends and play a lot of games together he became my best friend until now were still friends, the funny thing is that when we are together we remembers our childhood shenanigans on how we cut classes just to play computer games.
When I was in my adolescence stage I wasn’t bullied because they are afraid of me or that they are just trying to avoid trouble since my school is a Christian school, let me share some of my experience there was this time that we got scolded by our teacher because me and my classmates was so stubborn and always gave the teacher a headache, but now I realized that it’s also a part of growing my teachers understood that better than me since it’s a part of their expertise, I talked to some teacher when I visited my past school and talk how we wrecked the school when we were just kids, they said that there was time that they get angry but the memories are the precious ones I have a lot of teacher friends because of my behavior, I was called to the principal a lot but those were the day that big problems doesn’t exist in our minds.
Back to the topic, many people judge me of how I look and some frankly told me bad things but I didn’t mind at all I got stiff heart now thanks to my childhood experience I overcome my self-awareness. But the fact is that I have still guilt of what I’ve done to my body I’m a kind of person that give myself a hard time but still I overcome those barriers that makes me confident in myself.
All the things in the past should stay in the past that’s why it’s called experience the challenge is up ahead we should try and accept those challenges no matter what it’s a win or lose, if our life is a game we should have strategies to win it and counter attacks that get in our way, every hole should be covered. The most important is the resolve for anything, don’t think that there’s no solution in each struggle have a strong mentality to achieve your goal, don’t let the insecurities become chains of your dreams, stop dreaming start doing, a wise man ones said “SHIT HAPPENS BUT LIFE GOES ON” I live in his quotes it keeps me going when I remember this legendary line. That’s all for this best lecture I’ve encountered so far.
 Source of the lecture: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6779PxqkCo&list=PLsYXzLZzJ4p87aNvzKIZuDHmw-JgXPPix&index=7
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geneneianmark · 3 years
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Understanding the self
As I have chosen this lecture, since it has a lot of impact on me, I made a list for myself and base on the question that I have made starting with strengths, weaknesses, and the pace in which I learned, also self-awareness will help me change that. Having the ability to understand yourself, your wants and needs in life is something that practically every human being desires.
I made up this question what are my strengths? What are my weaknesses? In this such questions it made me think that am I doing the right thing? Am I hurting people with my words? In order to know that i did the so-called list.
WHAT ARE MY STRENGHTS?
First of all my strength is that I have a great mentality, I can concentrate on something even if there’s distractions such as making this Blogs I can focus on doing this even I have some obligation to do, because it is one of the ladder that I can achieve my dream to become a law enforcer someday, in this kind of strength it is so helpful I can develop emotionally and not to get attached so much, I’ll share some of my experiences in the past months I breakdown a lot due to family problems and it made me realize that all problems has solution and that’s it I get over it and make a solution to help my family.
Second is that I have a good approach to people maybe I developed this in early stage as the lectured mentioned that, Family is the primary social network that we have and secondary is the peers and teachers, commonly the influence of friends has the most impact on us they teach us either good or bad depending on the situation, I get a lot of influence in my friends, but the most influence that I got is by playing video games the strategic ones, you might say that there’s nothing to learn about video games regarding in this lecture, but when I understood the “understanding the self” concept it made me thing in my childhood I was really a fan of playing video games and it made a great impact of who am I now I’ll discuss this one in my third strength.
Third of my strength I have a strategic perspective and analyze things on my own way, this strength is the strength that I got from playing videogames maybe some of you think that video games doesn’t help at all, I heard that a lot from my parents since we came from a poor family I understand why they did not understand my feelings because for them its just a waste of money but for me I develop the strengths that’s beyond in their perspective, I’ve learned a lot from this so called videogames, these are the scenarios, in my childhood I gave a lot of time playing Dota 2, 2012 was the year I’ve started playing the name of it was Dota 1, since I am so ignorant and didn’t know how the game works I’ve studied it and got focus on the game, and when I entered adolescence it is also the game that emotionally supports me and learned to control my temper because it is only the way that I will lose in the game, but the point here in the past years of playing it helps me a lot and raised as me as who I am now not physically raise but mentally.
That’s all for my strengths.
WHAT ARE MY WEAKNESSES?
The weakness that I had is that I get emotionally attached too much, all the time in movies, schools, people, and pets. I’ll share some of my experiences first one is that when I watch movies when there’s and I’ll compare it to my self as what the movie does, second is in school when I compete myself to others secretly and get the bad side it makes me sad for a moment. Third is the most painful, is that when you get attached to a person and the other one is not what you think he/she’s going to give back to you that hurts a lot especially your best friend. The last one is pets I remembered that I have a pet name “lance” it was a dog I grieve for weeks, lance died because of parasites since we don’t have money I can’t bring him to a vet I hold him for a moment before he died, it really hurts when someone died or gone especially the one that you emotionally get attached.
In summary of this that a lot might happened to us but we didn’t know how it changes us, but the changes has explanation of such us “understanding the self” we might struggle of finding of who am I? what am I? but the most important thing Is that we keep on living and strive for what is right.
Source of the discussion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LF3kM8mztKY&t=769s
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geneneianmark · 3 years
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Understanding the self
Understanding the Self
Many question that in our thoughts we ask but such as who am I? What am I? Do you believe every thought you think?
Self is your sense of who you are, deep down your identity. When you let someone else know you well, you reveal your true self to them. If the subject of your thoughts is you, you're thinking about yourself.
SELF CONCEPT
How to learn oneself, in Understanding the self, chapter 1 which the is below it was told that self-concept is how you determine yourself including your behavior, attitude, and opinions that within us all.
Cognitive attitude which we stand on our belief, for the exact purpose, I believe that each one of us has a crucial role in our society in order to survive, its either good or bad. In that thought we believe that each one of us has a role, the point there is the attitude which the concept of ourselves.
Behavior component such as a creative person along the lines of an artist they are creative on what they do the uniqueness of each one of them such as myself, also you can be an artist each of us has the opportunity we just need to grab it. This actively demonstrate that creativeness is a behavior of a person\individual.
Self-concept it means the standard of someone in terms of belief, thinking, emotions, and thoughts. We are the chauffeur of ourselves its either we turn left or we turn right it’s up to us. In this video it shows what is within and outside of a person it really motivates us to know ourselves and yes its confusing sometimes why we act like this and that, we made biases to ourselves its either good or bad In that part self as learned it’s more like reflection the details is in the idea in "self as learned" it begins in our house how our parents treated us, when we grow up it changes time to time and follow the stages of human being, first, is infancy this stage I’ll consider it as a cute stage; second is that toddlerhood this stage they identify ourselves how we function on our given gender; third in this stage it is the starting of our so called “self as learned” we develop relationship to others doing what others to adopt a new peers aside from our parents. Adolescence the stage where we create things that’s accepted to our society its either bad or good we can’t tell the difference if we wanted to enjoy life no matter what we do, since this part is the transition of our adulthood which means maturity, the stage of maturity this is the time that we know that there things we do that’s not right we regret it while when we are at our childhood and adolescence it’s so fun and we learned, but in this explanation, like I said in the second sentence of this reflection we are the operator of our lives it’s up to us on how we react it’s either do it or change it. In this self as organized and self as dynamic which is how you harmonize yourself in a way you are that consistent, but we can’t deny the changes and challenges that we face every day but somehow we need to organize ourselves in that change, they say that “sometimes it takes a painful experience to make us change our ways”
To sum up everything that has been stated so far understanding the self, knowledge or understanding of one's own capabilities, character, feelings, or motivations; We started in infancy to adulthood such as we are now. -Proverbs 20:30. Our lives is like a science the curiosity is within as we are the scientist that wanted to discover ourselves by doing experiments, what I mean is that we wanted to know more about ourselves what its capable in that implementation we learned and develop ourselves.
Source of the discussion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LF3kM8mztKY&t=769s
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