gayandconfusedmotherfucker
Confused About Everything
22, He/They, weeb/gamer, I’m not good with convo but if you wanna be friends dm me!I’m a lonely bastard with ✨social anxiety✨ Neurodivergent in the worst way possible 💕
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Is anyone else constantly oscillating between full self destruction and taking really good care of yourself (if that makes sense lol)? For example, one day I will be binge drinking to the point where I am puking and STILL keep going, another day I will be eating healthy, working out, etc. It’s like I am in a constant battle between my most self destructive self and healthy self.
#self destruction#self harrrm#tw self harm#self harming#self harm#self h@rm#self love#self care#self improvement#tw self destruction#battle between myself#idk#idk yall#anyone else?#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqplus#trans#please help#lgbtq+#lgbtqia
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LISTEN, just realize that an organ is LITERALLY SHREDDING AND TEARING ITSELF APART when “the time of the month” happens. Be gentle, kind, and she will love you forever.
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IF YOU NEED SOMETHING DONE I WILL HAPPILY HELP BUT YOU NEED TO TELL ME HOW EXACTLY YOU WANT IT DONE! NEVER TELL ME HOW I SHOULD ACT/DRESS/WHAT I SHOULD DO EVER. THERE IS 1000% A DIFFERENCE AND IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND TRY TO UNDERSTAND BY ASKING QUESTIONS.
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#I don’t understand why people dont like asking questions!#just ask#I wont judge you#I wish people would rather ask and learn than expect and be hurt#whats the point#please lmao#please just ask#dont expect people to read your mind#dont tell me what to do#i want to help#but if you try to make me I will refuse#just out of principle
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This is probably super niche but fuck it, this is gonna be a long one so buckle up lmao. Have y’all ever had someone in your life claim that they are something that you are, just so they can excuse themselves?
I am autistic, and have some other autistic family members. But I have someone in my life that claims to also be autistic while also getting angry (full on screaming and punishing) whenever I or someone else shows traits of being autistic. But then will turn around and cry/complain about how awful it is for them and how they need all these accommodations (when they throw an entire temper tantrum if they have to be accommodating towards me or the other autistic people in my life).
I am the type of autistic person that is EXTREMELY GOOD at pattern recognition. So much so I have diagnosed myself accurately with every psychological/physical ailment that I have been diagnosed with long before any professional looked at me. And because of this I feel like this person in particular is not autistic, they don’t really “fit” in the spectrum. But the problem is idk if I am just being an asshole about it or not.
Obviously I don’t want to gate keep or anything. Ive had my fair share of people not understanding/believing what I go through. However, it still feels wrong that this person is parading as an autistic person when they absolutely REFUSE to recognize any autistic traits in those around them. Actively punishing and berating everyone that shows any signs of neurodivergence, then turning around and complaining that they are just “too neurodivergent” to deal with anything.
Has this happened to anyone else? Am I just being an asshole about it?
#autistic community#autistic spectrum#autism#actually autistic#autistic things#autistic adult#autistic experiences#narcissistic abuse#pathological narcissism#am i the only one?#am i the asshole#am i wrong#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqplus#trans#lgbtq+#transgender#lgbtqia#advice#autistic adhd#idk#idk yall#idk man#but idk#please help
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Have y’all ever had a “memory” that you couldn’t tell if you made up or not, but scares you to your very core? One that, if it was a real memory, is terrifying that it actually happened to you? Cause I have a few but one keeps haunting me.
Cause I have this huge fear of old men. I’m not sure where exactly it came from. But I had a few creepy old men in my family. So I cant tell if it’s from them actually doing something to me, or the fear of them doing something to me created this memory. The thing is, I could ask the person that helped me after. However, I cant trust if they remember it at all or if they would even tell me the truth about it. So I will never actually know if it was real or not. It keeps me up at night sometimes, dreading that it was real.
#it would explain a lot#scared#i’m scared#im so scared#terrified#terrifying#fake memory#fakememory#fake memory?#memory#bad memory#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqplus#trans#lgbtq+#transgender#lgbtqia#please help#please lmao#idk#but idk#was it real
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It’s honestly crazy growing up with the patriarchy set fully against you while also inherently knowing that you’re just some little dude.
#trans#transmasc#trans humor#trans pride#transgender#ftm#ftnb#trans ftnb#trans ftm#lgbtq+#lgbt#lgbtqplus#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtqiia+#patriarchy#fuck the patriarchy
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And this is also for people who purely define gender by biological sex. No matter what it’s fluid and ever changing, OP put it in very good terms.
Yes, going on T or E does biologically change your sex. Why? Because from the moment you are born, your biology doesn't stay static- it is fluid. If it was static, people over 50+ would still be advised to have more and more children. Biology, is ever changing, from periods to what you eat, to how you act and what you do to your body.
A trans person with phalo is a person with a dick. Not a person who was born without one. It's so easy not to groom your children into hating or seeing people as specifically evil because they get what you don't want in life; a different path.
Yes, some people who say they are altersex believe that altersex is a biological sex. And intersex people may say that T or E didn't make them not intersex. That is all true. T or E doesn't make you less or more of another sex, it simply changes your biology. If you perceive it as becoming male or female or intersex or altersex, then it is changing your sex.
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Trying to figure out who you are in a cis-het world is so hard, these “pipelines” are bullshit. Be who you are, figure out who you are. No matter what anyone says you are valid❣️
psa for confused queers: it’s okay to change your labels or identities or decide that something’s not for you or that you were wrong about something. even if you were sure about it a few years ago. even if you might’ve genuinely been that at one point. even if you’ve identified as something for a long time. no one’s going to revoke your queer card.
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Help the “girls” toys always bored me and I wanted the “boys” toys EVERY TIME
#please lmao#lmao#lmaooo#trans#transmasc#transgender#trans pride#nb#non bianry#nonbinary#assigned trans at mcdonald’s#trans humor#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtq+
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Bitch ass rich people I swear
the funny thing is that i don't think younger people - and i mean those under the age of 40 - really have a grasp on how many of today's issues can be tied back to a disastrous reagan policy:
war on drugs: reagan's aggressive escalation of the war on drugs was a catastrophic policy, primarily targeting minority communities and fueling mass incarceration. the crusade against drugs was more about controlling the Black, Latino and Native communities than addressing the actual problems of drug abuse, leading to a legacy of broken families and systemic racism within the criminal justice system.
deregulation and economic policies: reaganomics was an absolute disaster for the working class. reagan's policies of aggressive tax cuts for the rich, deregulation, and slashing social programs were nothing less than class warfare, deepening income inequality and entrenching corporate greed. these types of policies were a clear message that reagan's america was only for the wealthy elite and a loud "fuck you" to working americans.
environmental policies: despite his reputation being whitewashed thanks to the recovery of the ozone layer, reagan's environmental record was an unmitigated disaster. his administration gutted critical environmental protections and institutions like the EPA, turning a blind eye to pollution and corporate exploitation of natural resources. this blatant disregard for the planet was a clear sign of prioritizing short-term corporate profits over the future of the environment.
AIDS crisis: reagan's gross neglect of the aids crisis was nothing short of criminal and this doesn't even begin to touch on his wife's involvement. his administration's indifference to the plight of the lgbtq+ community during this devastating epidemic revealed a deep-seated bigotry and a complete failure of moral leadership.
mental health: reagan's dismantling of mental health institutions under the guise of 'reform' led directly to a surge in homelessness and a lack of support for those with mental health issues. his policies were cruel and inhumane and showed a personality-defining callous disregard for the most vulnerable in society.
labor and unions: reagan's attack on labor unions, exemplified by his handling of the patco strike, was a blatant assault on workers' rights. his actions emboldened corporations to suppress union activities, leading to a significant erosion of workers' power and rights in the workplace. he was colloquially known as "Ronnie the Union Buster Reagan"
foreign policy and military interventions: reagan's foreign policy, particularly in latin america, was imperialist and ruthless. his administration's support for dictatorships and right-wing death squads under the guise of fighting "communism" showed a complete disregard for human rights and self-determination of other nations.
public health: yes, reagan's agricultural policies actually facilitated the rise of high fructose corn syrup, once again prioritizing corporate profits over public health. this shift in the food industry has had lasting negative impacts on health, contributing to the obesity epidemic and other health issues.
privatization: reagan's push for privatization was a systematic dismantling of public services, transferring wealth and power to private corporations and further eroding the public's access to essential services.
education policies: his approach to education was more of an attack on public education than anything else, gutting funding and promoting policies that undermined equal access to quality education. this was, again, part of a broader agenda to maintain a status quo where the privileged remain in power.
this is just what i could come up with in a relatively short time and i did not even live under this man's presidency. the level at which ronald reagan has broken the united states truly can't be overstated.
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Is any other trans (FtM or FtNB) person afraid they’re such a hardcore pick me girl? Like I am actually so afraid that I am such a bad pick me girl that I think I’m not a girl at all, but also not?? I have no idea how to describe it lol, (but seriously please tell me thats just weird slight internalized transphobia (I live in a very conservative area) and that’s not actually the case).
#ftm#ftnb#pick me girl#i am afraid#idk#idk yall#someone help#please help#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqplus#trans#transgender#transmasc#confused#confuzzled#i am confused
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Does anyone else run little psychological tests on themselves or am I just so disconnected from myself that this is the only way I can understand myself better?
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The fact that the fandom was so upset about the cancellation of OFMD to the point where they made the studio be under investigation for insider trading makes me so proud to be part of the fandom lmao
now I'm even more glad they wrote that ending, god if s2 had ended on a cliffhanger like s1 idk how I'd have coped, idk how- jesusfuck but yeah, I'm glad we ended on a happy note
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Bigotry is for the small minded, just remember that❣️
Hello all!
This is just a little note that I wanted to make to say that;
racism, fascism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, sexism, xenophobia, and other such discriminatory and/or hateful practices
will NOT be tolerated on my page. Thx <3
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There something healing about getting drunk and screaming the wrong lyrics.
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I am so sorry to my Floridian trans brothers, sisters, and nb siblings. I hope you can get out of there safely, I hope every lgbtq+ person can get out of these horrible states that are trying to silence and murder us “quietly”. Please PLEASE be safe and try your hardest to get to somewhere just a little better. I love you all❣️
#angry#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqplus#i'm angry#i'm so fucking angry#im sad and angry#human rights#lgbtq rights#lgbtq+#trans#transgender#trans rights#florida#floridians
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