So the new spooky month episode destroyed me (especially the ending) so have this fic I write to add more fuel to the angst fire https://www.tumblr.com/toasty-self-shipping/746858626397929472/the-breakup-arc-i-dont-know-what-to-name-this
Whenever I see a proshipper be like "DNI are stupid and unnecessary" I roll my eyes. Genuinely.
God forbid people sets a boundary for themselves. You're not entitled to someone's else's time especially when they make that boundary clear and known. You're not entitled to know their reasoning.
Someone's an asshole and crosses that boundary??? Guess what! It's not the person with "DNI" fault. You know who it is??? The person who crosses that exact boundary.
I get it, you can't control what everyone can do- but people are also allowed to curate their own expirence. Getting mad at someone for not wanting to associate with your community feels like a self-report tbh.
"Comship is short for "complicated ship" or "complex ship". "
"Urban Dictionary, the comship label is used by "those who have complicated feelings" about shipping discourse."
"A person who enjoys "complicated" ships specifically, generally of a taboo or toxic nature"
THAT IS NOT WHAT SELFSHIPPING IS.
"Self-shipping or selfshipping is to ship oneself with a canon character. Self-shippers may draw themselves with their "F/O" (fictional other) or commission others to do so. They may also write fanfiction with their F/O and a self-insert, others may draw fanart or create moodboards."
AND FOR "YUMEJOSHI", ITS THE SAME THING, THEY ARE NOT COMSHIP.
"Yumejoshi, meaning "Dreaming girl" in Japanese, is a term that describes female otakus that dream about themselves being in romantic situations with fictional characters. This is also called "Self-shipping" Types of media that a Yumejoshi may consume are: reader-inserts, otome games, shoujo manga, and CYOA narratives."
SELFSHIPPING IS NOT COMSHIP. IT WILL NEVER FUCKING BE COMSHIP. PRO/COMSHIPPERS DO NOT DESERVE TO BE IN THE SELFSHIPPING SPACE.
YOU ARE NOT A COM/PROSHIPPER IF YOU SELFSHIP. BLOCK THIS PERSON AND MOVE ON.