Any LA/SD Swifties out there? My friend can’t go to the concert with me tomorrow so I have one spare. Really don’t want to go alone, but totally will if no one is interested.
I think realistically the reason why a lot of us took this breakup so “personally” and why it’s haunting us this way is because Taylor and Joe represented the happy ending we all want. The way taylor is and always has been with us, and the nature of her writing, make her so relatable that I think we all see a lot of ourselves in her and viceversa, and we all suffered with her and through her during our and her adolescence and early adulthood, because of her heartbreaks and because of our own heartbreaks that we could escape from thanks to her music. And when she met Joe and fell in love, we were all rooting for her and we all really wanted that for her, just like we wanted it for ourselves, and because of this process of mirroring, her and joe became a symbol of what we all want and strive for: a loving, supportive partner we can share this magical bond with, a relationship that was somehow written in the stars that we have to work so hard for but it’s always worth it. A golden love. So it’s hard to mourn the loss of that idea, the loss of that happy ending we all deep down dream of, and it’s hard to think about how Taylor must be feeling rn considering how deeply connected we all are to her.
Her final acoustic speech in Tokyo about how healing rep tour was is something and how her voice breaks when she says wildest dreams I think about regularly
❄️❄️❄️Eddie and I got to play in the snow for a few minutes today. It didn’t last very long, but long enough for him to explore it. We even built a snowman and give it a cute little hat from the garden. ☃️⛄️❄️ (at Wildomar, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CpRZZsYOWYt/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
🤍Happy Birthday Kaley🤍 Each year celebrating your birthday gets more difficult. I hate that I don’t get to speak your name as often. No matter how much time passes, I promise to never forget you and the adventures we took together. Thank you for the memories and giving me something to always stay connected to you @taylorswift’s music, I honestly cannot think @of anything more fitting. I just wish we could experience it together. I really did have the time of my life fight dragons with you. #longlivethewallswecrashedthrough #ihadthetimeofmylifefightingdragonswithyou #longlive #taylorswift #taylornation @taylornation #fuckcancer #grief #happyheavinlybirthday #38thbirthday #cancersucks #besties https://www.instagram.com/p/Co_iaSVO7Y6/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=