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dunmertitty · 22 hours
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I’m gonna lose my whole mind because my sister and I decided to make BG3 self insert Tavs that are like, actually us based on the classes we’d be etc. so we got off chat for an hour and came back and I was like “I named mine a name I’ve been thinking of going by IRL for a while” and my sister was like “omg me too!” so we sent each other screenshots of our Tavs/Us and their names were Story and Saga.
of COURSE
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dunmertitty · 1 day
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not only will we never he able to truly destigmatize mental illness & disorders etc. if y’all cannot accept that some symptoms are scary and ugly, we also will never achieve peace if y’all cannot accept that some symptoms of mental health & the way people cope with them will seem “cringe” to you. i see so many “allies” & “advocates” draw a line at psychotic & dissociative disorders. “they have to be faking it.” actually they’re not & also I don’t give a damn if someone’s alter is a sonic the hedgehog character. read a book and come back when you have something kind to contribute to the conversation
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Queen of Going To The Store
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I think I can solve the male loneliness epidemic by handing out quests
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i love this stupid fucking tweet it sounds like new wave lyrics
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TRANS RIGHS 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️
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Drop whatever you are doing and watch Oriented (2015) on Netflix. Possibly the most un-pinkwashed piece about queer Palestinian youth I have ever seen. 
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Trans ally Pikmin 🏳️‍⚧️🌱
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dunmertitty · 2 days
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Twin boys
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dunmertitty · 2 days
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if you told vin diesel fast and the furious you were gay he'd be like "Some people like driving stick…some people like driving automatic…what matters is you cross the finish line.." and then he'd rev up a dodge challenger and drive through a building and kill 16 people
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dunmertitty · 2 days
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you cant ever let yourself forget what it felt like to be 15. how adults treated you. being treated without a shred of respect because people think youre too young to have thoughts and feelings of your own. the lack of autonomy. you cant ever forget that because if you do you might become the kind of adult who treats kids like theyre not people
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dunmertitty · 2 days
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Still can’t get over how an anon complained to me they’re “tired” “no one gives a fuck anymore.” Do you not think we’re tired? Do you not think we are mourning and grieving and feeling so utterly devastated our families have to live under fear every day, holding their breath and waiting the next move by people who don’t give a single fuck for them? Iraq, Lebanon, and Jordan have all shut down commercial flights. Jordan is shooting down Iranian drones as we speak. I have family in Jordan too. This isn’t about you.
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[“Eight months into transitioning as far as I could get from male, I developed a strange interest in power tools and short hair. But I was too scared to say I was butch. I learned otherwise by dating a femme.
We’d met years before in student organizing, but only shared tea after I’d started transition. She was a big bi femme; a broad who fucks who and how she wants. Her mum and dad thought that it would be kind and freeing to raise her as they would a son. She disagreed and out-femmed this attempt. But even though her femininity was, from the start, a rebellion, in queer spaces, it started the process of her erasure; the men she dated finished it. Consigned to the “quiet ally” seat, she was left dating bi-curious women, whose curiosity she offered to satisfy, sans underwear. Her dates declined, remaining bi-curious rather than bi-informed. She remained frustrated.
Dating a tranny—a girlfriend with stubble and a necktie—made her smirk. She clarified my doubts and explained to me that I fuck “like a girl.” She was my anchor in women’s circles where I would not be welcome were she not beside me, calling bullshit. Dancing with her, fisting in washrooms, it felt right, intimate, honest. Together, we were bold. We were femme and butch.
Still, I was scared to call myself “butch.” Wouldn’t that be a contradiction? An Eddie Izzard joke? But she saw the butch and named it. I owe her.
I encounter femmes who shepherd friends and lovers through the FtM spectrum. When they see the butch and smell the trans on me, they discreetly offer a rolodex of gentlemen and genderqueers, friends and exes, to whom I can talk if I, y’know, need to talk. I explain that I am changing the other way. They are happy to hear this, to know that I can honestly be myself right now.
I see how many butches lean on femmes, whether we know them romantically or platonically. I feel like a bulldagger Lois Lane to their Superwomen. Escorting us through everything from washrooms to transition, I wonder and marvel at how femmes save us over and over and what they get in return. Visibility? Help moving boxes? Someone who is not femme who will say, “People see butch and expect male, but I am not. People see you and expect conventional, and you are anything but.”
I wonder what we can do so that they could openly lend their help at dyke gatherings, rather than catching our ears in private.”]
amy fox, from changed sex. grew boobs. started wearing a tie, from persistence: all ways butch and femme edited by Ivan Coyote and zena sharman
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