Just because you fall in love with someone doesn’t necessarily mean they’re a good partner for you to be with over the long term. Love is an emotional process. Compatibility is a logical process. And the two don’t bleed into one another very well.
It’s possible to fall in love with somebody who doesn’t treat us well, who makes us feel worse about ourselves, who doesn’t hold the same respect for us as we do for them, or who has such a dysfunctional life themselves that they threaten to bring us down with them.
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The problem with idealizing love is that it causes us to develop unrealistic expectations about what love actually is and what it can do for us. These unrealistic expectations then sabotage the very relationships we hold dear in the first place.
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Thanks for acting like you cared
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“It’s okay to feel sad about something that you thought you healed from.”
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Stare a riflettere e scervellarsi conta poco, perché poi non si fa ciò che si pensa, ma ogni passo, in fondo, è senza riflessione, così come vuole il cuore.
Hermann Hesse, Knulp.
____Rala Choi
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Quello che io mi chiedo è: ma la Rai lo sa di Amadello? C’è qualcuno negli uffici social della Rai che ha detto “guardate che lo share di Sanremo è 50% froci, dovete dargli qualcosa” e Fiorello “lasciate fare a me ;)”? O è così a caso?
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Fave
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“Even when my stupidity will bring me to be more the wound that the cure. You should know that you will always be my medicine.”
— Dontbeshybabyqueer
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Not April 9th being a day of silence for the LGBTQ+ community!
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“If you’re not dating to get married, you’re dating to breakup.”
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“I take much pleasure in being alone but there is also a strange warm grace in not being alone.”
— Charles Bukowski
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