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csuitebitches · 5 hours
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Hello! I love you blog and read every advice you give. I have a question, I just got a second earlobe piercing after thinking about it for a long time, I did it yesterday and was very happy to finally have done it. When I showed it to my aunt, she told me that it was not elegant and women look better with only one earlobe piercing. I am currently doubting my decision, I chose this piercing because I saw some cute combinations with dainty earrings and diamonds, but now I'm not so sure if it was a good thing to do in the end. What do you think about double pierced earlobes? Can they llok elegant or not?
I have 3 piercings in one ear, 2 in the other, I used to have a nose piercing. As long as you’re happy with your decision that’s all that matters. A double piercing is nothing. I’m friends with billionaire and millionaire daughters who have visible tattoos, even more piercings than I do. You’re good.
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csuitebitches · 19 hours
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To the jewelry anon if you don’t like yellow gold, get white gold it’s the same value as regular gold. And get high karat gold like 18k. Never buy 10k gold it’s only 41% pure gold. 14k is mid range & the average on the US market at 50% pure gold. Also don’t buy into the belief that 18k gold is “too soft.” Yes, gold can be “soft” but it’s soft for a metal, it won’t crumple is your hands, you don’t have to worry about most gold pieces bending until you get to 21k of 22k gold.
It also seems like you need to do some research & learn more about jewelry if you thought because you didn’t like gold & silver wasn’t valuable you were out of options. And most valuable most valuable jewelry is made out of silver any it’s white gold that your seeing. All those “silver” engagement rings you see on your timeline are white gold.
@ anon
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csuitebitches · 21 hours
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To the Jewellery anon:
Jewellery made from Platinum are also a good choice, as it is durable and platinum is overall a good investment.
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csuitebitches · 23 hours
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Heyy! I love your blog <3
I had a little question to ask. How can we start accumulating good, valuable jewellery for ourselves other than diamonds and gold? Like actual jewellery pieces that look elegant but will sell good too?
I don’t really like gold and I don’t think it looks good on me either. Though it’s valuable and I have started collecting in form of coins and stuff. And tbh diamond loses it value after you buy it. I am mostly silver girly but it isn’t that valuable you know? I really want to start collecting valuable jewellery.
Thanks!
girl if it’s no diamonds, no gold, no silver then I’m gonna pass this on to jewellery experts (if any) who follow me
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csuitebitches · 23 hours
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Wow you really gagged me on your recent answer to my ask sjsshsjsjjs i cried a bit bc of your harshness but at least it worked thanks
Love u!
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csuitebitches · 2 days
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Hey, I was the anon asking about networking. That does make a lot of sense, and you're right, but I guess I wasn't clear wnough in my message in that I mean more like... how do you get a job with someone that way? Without actually asking "can you give me a job." Or is that what networking is supposed to let you do?
“I’m looking for opportunities in your industry. I am experienced / graduated in ____. Would you know of any openings within your company for the position of ____? If yes, who may I connect with?”
Networking is not necessarily for just jobs. You network with clients, to get more clients. You network with suppliers, to get the best deals. You network with PR agencies and branding agencies to understand your positioning and getting a celeb brand sponsor if required. You network with people in the media so that if you need an article out, it’s one phone call away.
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csuitebitches · 3 days
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hi CSB.
I've been lurking in the shadows of your blog for a while and have to honestly admit I got a bit overwhelmed.
Therefore, I'd like to ask, if you were to give some tips on how to start becoming a powerful, confident and feminine woman both in work an in life (aka - how to grow up to be that) what would you advice?
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My love. I know I give a lot of advice, that’s why I’ve created an entire system, step by step for you to use. Go to my pinned post.
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csuitebitches · 4 days
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In need of tough love from you. I am in a situation where I have no choice but to go through. I hate college life and I feel so misaligned with what I want to do in life. It's a very very lonely journey and so so draining, I feel like giving up. I think the place itself is a factor because I was doing good back when online classes were still in effect. Everyday is a struggle and I hate everything when I am in this place. I just want to go home and never come back.
Your college life and the situation it is right now is in your hands. I’ve said this before - heaven and hell do not exist outside of our bodies, they are our mentalities.
You said you enjoyed online classes more and that you’re lonely. That to me indicates you don’t have many friends. Unless you decide to change that and actively approach people and enter social situations, no one is going to be interested in approaching you.
running away is not the solution. Running away back home will simply make you regret what you have done.
Suck it up, figure a way out. The issue isn’t that you don’t know what to do. I’m pretty sure you do know what to do. You just don’t want to put in the effort OR you fear being ridiculed or shamed.
The choice is yours. You either make a plan and create the life you want for yourself, and be a fighter or not.
Everyone goes thru shit in life, you’re not the only one. You’re not some special candidate that’s being singled out to be lonely, YOU have brought that on to yourself.
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csuitebitches · 4 days
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How do you actually network? Now, I don't mean "go to events" or "reach out" but, rather, when someone says "I know x at y company, connect with them," how are you supppsed to construct a message? What are you ACTUALLY meant to ask that puts you in a position to say "I got my job through a connection I had?"
It’s not that complicated. If someone is connecting you with someone they know, you reach out to that potential contact by saying something along the lines of, “Hello, my name is so and so, your colleague XYZ recommended I talk to you. I wanted to ask about ABC, and would love to get on a call with you as per your availability.”
there’s no formula to things. There’s no for sure way that yes, by saying exactly that ^ things will work out. You need to learn to navigate social situations and that only happens by placing yourself in countless ones.
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csuitebitches · 7 days
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New Side Blog
I have lots of goals for this year. Reading and learning new things is always a priority for me, especially because I’m a naturally curious person. I made a side blog for all the things I read, watch and keep on top of. This could be things to stay informed, leisure reading, documentaries or films that made me think in a different manner.
I do want to ensure that my media consumption is essentially quality > quantity. At the same time, I want to track articles, books, authors, films I truly enjoyed because I have a terrible memory when it comes to names and recalling where I got that information from.
It’s called @kibblesforyourbrain, if anyone is interested.
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csuitebitches · 10 days
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Hi there,thank you for generously your wisdom and knowledge. I am struggling with being a minority in my major,feeling ostracized by my peers and classmates. Added with the factor that I have low self esteem due to always being bullied (passive or direct aggression),having peers slandering my reputation ,not having any friends despite entering my second year soon and being looked down upon,  this has taken a toll on my mental health, making it difficult for me to work.  If possible,I am seeking advice on how to rise above these challenges and succeed despite the obstacles. Additionally, I need help on how to handle group assignments where some members are lazy and not committed to giving their best.If possible could you please reply to me in private?
Thank you sincerely.
Hi, I promise you that every question you’ve asked me so far - I’ve answered all of it on my blog. You just need to go thru my pinned post and check my archives.
I’m asked this question repeatedly, with minor deviations. It’s challenging for me to reply with the same answer every time. That’s why I keep an index. I have a separate post (“Read this first”) linked on the index to help you start your journey with my tips. The structure, the resources, everything is already there. You just have to read my content and put yourself to work.
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csuitebitches · 12 days
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I'm a guy but I really like your blog! I've used your advice before with good results :)
❤️
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csuitebitches · 12 days
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Thoughts on wizardliz?
Idk I personally don’t resonate with the way she structures her content but then again, I haven’t really watched any of her videos to have an opinion on her
If she helps you feel confident, proactive and inspires you to make healthy decisions, good for you and good on her
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csuitebitches · 12 days
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Hi! Hope its not late for the tough love.
Got into this job as a temp, however my CV is great. After a month, everybody is impressed with me and they make the offer to keep me as full time. I accepted as its a good oportunity.
Thing is: I'm somewhat new to this field and I'm doing my best to understand the task (they are understanding on this point). At the same time I still want to keep the good impressions that I got. And I'm already looking for a raise by the end of the year.
Am I moving too quickly? How can I keep in my boss good grace while learning this job?
You seem to be doing things right. However - Rather than focusing on pleasing them, focus on understanding the work for yourself as well. I’ve hired plenty of people in the past for my company and what I look for at least is the potential to learn. I don’t expect any new hire to come in with a phd, but if there’s a curiosity to learn then that’s something. The biggest value you can give to your corporate is the ability to solve problems, regardless of your experience level.
However. When I say don’t get caught up in pleasing your seniors, I do mean it. People are nice and some are weird and there can be nasty politics sometimes just because someone might favour you.
Be polite, not friendly. Don’t bend over backwards in your first few months because then they’ll get used to it too. Do what you’re supposed to, ask questions if needed, understand what you’re doing and get your work done.
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csuitebitches · 13 days
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How to learn a language effectively like to the point you become fluent
I’m honestly no language queen. I am trilingual, but that’s because of the country I’m from. I do take classes for one of the languages for work purposes but that’s for advanced levels, I was always fluent conversationally.
The best way to truly learn a language imo is to fully immerse yourself in it. Read, listen, write and speak it. Maybe get on iTalki or something and find a non creepy language buddy to speak with
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csuitebitches · 14 days
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Im not from india or the US, but there’s this guru that i find very wise which is swami Mukundananda, i wish I could attend his events but unfortunately most gurus are limited to Indian and US tours… what can i do? Just consume their content like YouTube videos and books?
Focus more on implementation of their learnings irl. If you have to meet your guru, you will
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csuitebitches · 15 days
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how do you become good with talking to people? i feel so awkward every time i talk to someone i don’t know where to look, what to say, etc.
Strategically practice.
create a script before meeting someone (whether new or you already know them).
prep these beforehand. Practice, practice and practice in front of the mirror till they feel natural. This sounds clinically insane, but have imaginary conversations with someone else and direct the conversation.
• hi/ how are yous / what’s been new
• 3 good things that happened over the past month
• any new experience that you had (a new cafe, movie, etc)
• any upcoming experiences (travel, work promo, etc)
• what’s been new at work / school (how’s that going for you?)
• latest news / pop culture / trending things
Let the basic script essentially fit into your head. Once you have this down, go and start talking to people. Baristas, work colleagues, your classmates, whoever. Focus on eye contact and listening actively to them. Listening actively means understand what they are saying, wait till they’re done talking before reacting to it.
observe how other people interact with one another. Observe the good, bad and ugly. Who looks confident and who doesn’t? Why, what gave it away?
most times in a conversation, one party leads it. When I choose to lead conversations, I make sure to listen intently, share my own experiences or thoughts on the matter AND THEN ask follow up questions, keep it casual and light.
I pretty much turn on my inner Graham Norton mode and it always works.
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