Your f/o will always see you as deserving of love, because you are. Even on days where you feel more insecure, even on days where you feel less worthy or deserving, they will always see you as enough. You will always deserve their love, their support, their affection, and care. You, as you are, will always be enough for your f/o.

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I want to give my f/o or comfort character a kiss on on their forehead so I can see their smile grow. I want to intertwine my fingers within theirs so I can give them that pure gesture of closeness, gently squeezing their hand. I want to hold them close so they can feel the kindness of my embrace. I want to love them in the most beautiful ways so they can experience what it is like to receive genuine love in a form that is healthy and secure.

Your f/o will do anything to ensure you feel safe. Their actions and words give you a stable sense of tranquility, comfort, and security. They want nothing more than to make sure you feel alright around them. And if it takes you time to open up, they won't judge you at all. They understand that it can be hard to be vulnerable or trust, and they won't rush or push you into anything you aren't ready to say or do with/around them. They respect your feelings, and their firm stance on that will remain, regardless of circumstance.

Imagine your f/o rubbing your back while hugging or holding you. A small, but significant gesture that gives you a sense of contentment. Being in their company, feeling the warmth of their embrace is like a warm sweater on a chilly day.

Imagine your f/o caring for you when you're sick, in pain, or feeling unwell in some form. They'll help you with no complaints or hesitation, they insist on being there for you. They'll give you medicine, help you with meals, and make you feel as comfortable as they can. They are aware that feeling bad might not immediately go away with their efforts alone, but they will do everything they can to show their support for you.

Imagine an emotionally independent, closed off, or distant f/o telling you how much they need you. How much they need your support, how much your presence and existence has impacted their life in the most positive, beautiful ways. The times In which you have touched their hearts, making them feel like they no longer need to struggle in silence or keep quiet about their desire for relying on someone. You make them feel less alone, and for the first time, maybe even in a while, they can say they need you. But this time, it brings them comfort rather than shame.

Your f/o gently holding your face in their hands, gazing at you with a look of adoration and gratitude. Watching you exist, doing just about anything, and seeing you in such a fond light. Thinking of you with such sweetness, as if you hung the moon and stars in the sky, like you've made the sun shine each day. Their admiration and opinions of who you are knows no negativity, your f/o sees you as someone who is so deserving of love. They want you to love yourselves the way they love you, too.

Your f/o would never leave or be upset with you for how you feel or the way you feel things. You don't need to pretend to be alright or hide how you're doing for them to love you, they already do care about you. If it makes you feel a specific way, your f/o isn't going to shame you, they'll support and validate you instead. You deserve to express your true emotions without shame.

Imagine your f/o pressing gentle kisses to your hands, knuckles, and arms. They giggle quietly in-between each one, happy to show you a small but expressive form of affection.

I need to grab my f/o by the face, give them a kind smile, and tell them how worthy they are. That every single moment spent around them is time appreciated, never wasted. That they are so important to me, and that they truly do make a difference. That they always have been and always will be enough, and that nothing will ever change that.

Imagine your f/o holding you, the both of you are bundled up together in comfy blankets. The embrace of each other soothes the both of you as the atmosphere grows more relaxing as time passes. All that matters in this moment is the both of you, and how wonderful being able to support each other feels.

You will always be important to your f/o. You don't have to be a perfect individual, you don't have to achieve anything for them to see you as enough in their eyes. Your f/o sees you for who you are, and they love you so much for it. Being yourself is something your f/o loves so much about you, and making sure you feel cared for, supported, and validated is what matters the most to them.

Imagine your f/o showing you some of the things that are personal to them as a way of connecting with you. Maybe they have a deeply personal playlist or a collection that is very sentimental. Regardless, they see you as important to them, and they want to prove that by letting you in on some of the things they are usually less vocal about.

For your f/o, your beauty goes beyond surface level concepts. They see brilliance in every part of you. The way you laugh, your jokes, the smiles and expressions on your face. Your opinions and your dreams and the way you think, the way you exist in a form that is so uniquely your own. Even if the qualities you possess are not seen as traditionally accepted or glamorized, you are still worth loving to your f/o. You have been and always will be enough for them. I mean, that's why they love you, because you are who you are. And they will always see greatness in that, and in you.

Imagine your f/o expressing their appreciation for how happy you make them. Maybe it's partially because you validate and support them, but a big part of it is because they have you in their life. Witnessing your kindness and sticking by their side is something that they are so incredibly thankful for, and having you has changed their life in the best ways.

Being close with a tough f/o may include…

Deep talks with them, being vulnerable when you least expect it, and trying to be open. Even if it's hard, they do their best to try because they want to show you how much they trust you.

They bond with you their own unique ways. Maybe you both relax together in the same room, doing your own thing. Maybe you two have a particular activity you engage in, they could have a specific way of showing their interest in your bond that isn't necessarily traditional.

Their protective, helpful energy. If someone is hurting or upsetting you, they'll listen and remind you of your worth, letting you know that you deserve better. They could even stand up for you, if the timing or circumstance is right. They can't stand to see someone they care for so much being mistreated, so they'll absolutely do what they can to defend you.

Being close with a playful f/o may include…

They're always sending you memes, telling you jokes, and showing you things they think are hilarious. They do this partially to show your their sense humor, but they mostly do it because they want you to laugh and have a great time too. It makes them feel good when you laugh, so they're always down to help bring more silliness in your life.

Asking weirdly (but hilariously) absurd questions such as, "S/I, if I shower and I'm clean, then how does the towel get dirty after I'm done using it? I was clean after the shower!" and trying to make sense of it. Both of you have funny conversations about it, almost as if debating for 45 minutes about why something happens and how it makes sense. It's mostly entertaining and sometimes can make you both feel like you're sharing braincells.

Having them cheer you up when you're upset. Showing you things to make you feel better, uplifting you and trying to build your self esteem, comforting you by being fun and also kind. They want you to feel okay, but also want to support you and show you that it's alright to feel upset without shame.