one of the funniest trends to me is seeing people make posts like 'why don't people talk more about [comic relief character who exists to further the plot]? i guess it's because theyre not as shippable as [main character with 3 dimensional writing and character arc] so nobody cares :/'
the idea that restrooms, locker rooms, etc need to be single-sex spaces in order for women to be safe is patriarchy's way of signalling to men & boys that society doesn't expect them to behave themselves around women. it is directly antifeminist. it would be antifeminist even if trans people did not exist. a feminist society would demand that women should be safe in all spaces even when there are men there.