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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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My brain, having a meltdown like a toddler: I just can’t do it! I don’t want to !! I can’t!!
Me, parenting my tired toddler brain: Take a deep breath, it’s going to be ok. We don’t have to do everything today that’s overwhelming you. Let’s pick the most important thing to work on, ok? What’s the smallest step we can do to work towards that?
My toddler brain, wiping away tears: Um, I think we should…open up the important spreadsheet and look at the first row.
Me, parenting my tired toddler brain: Great! Let’s do that, and then we can have a popsicle, ok?
My toddler brain: *nods through drying tears, upset, but cooperative*
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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Are you still looking for a gf?
Yup :)
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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sometimes, self love and self care is eating another cookie because you really crave it and you’re hungry. and sometimes, self love and self care is saving that cookie for a later time, because you’re satisfied and full, and you don’t want to get sick.
intuitive eating always has a mixture of both of these; in both of the examples, you’re listening to your body and its clues and making an informed choice on what feels right. you’re inevitably gonna mess up and overeat or under-eat, and that’s okay. all that matters is that you’re kind to yourself, and you pick yourself back up.
pro blogs don’t fucking touch this.
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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hey (head of your hogwarts house) there is no right way to say this but is it possible to change a dormitory?
why, mr/ms deadname what is wrong with yours?
well it resides on the girls/boys side and i cant enter it anymore
...huh
I love this 😂😂
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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I JUST THOUGHT OF A NEW HARRY POTTER HEADCANNON AND I'M FREAKING OUT ABOUT IT
So we all know how boys can't go up the stairs to the girls dorms? What if there was a ftm student and when they transition (or start identifying differently) they can't go up the stairs anymore? Because the magic recognizes them as the gender they identify as?
Same goes for mtf, when they change what they identify as they can now go up the stairs.
If I as a trans person went to Hogwarts this would make me estactic and give me so much gender euphoria and ahhh I'm freaking out about this!!!
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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sure, I don’t get a “healthy” amount of sleep like SOME PEOPLE do but can they do THIS *stands up, blacks out for a second*
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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HAVE Y'ALL WATCHED THIS?
THE DUALITY. THE OUTFITS. THE AESTHETIC.
THIS👏VIDEO👏IS👏EVERYTHING👏
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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Would anyone be willing to help me figure out if this girl likes girls? I've liked her for a while now and I'm thinking she might like me back a bit, but the whole situation is really complicated so I need an outside opinion on this 😂 If anyone is available to help please comment or dm me
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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if you have ever suffered from…  
• depression 
• anxiety 
• eating disorder 
• self-harm
• ocd 
• bipolar 
• feelings of guilt and hopelessness 
• suicidal thoughts 
can you please reblog to show support for people who also suffer. you are not alone.
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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i hate when girls feel dumb for trying to see the best in people and then end up hurt or disappointed like no!! it’s those people that were dumb for misleading you. they took advantage of your kindness and generosity, and they’ll rot for it 
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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corny wlw solidarity art  🏳️‍🌈
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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I saw 1:11 on 1/11 omg !!!!
Reblog for angel number good luck!!
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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Things that are not normal:
worrying weather your parent will be willing to give you necessary money for food/school/transport/medicine/necessities
having to tiptoe around your parents emotion not to upset them
knowing one wrong word could cost you losing something important to you, or being exposed to threats and hatred
parent acting like a child and locking themselves up, throwing a tantrum, demanding you take care of their emotions, crying and throwing guilt at you when they’re upset
parent getting upset at you having your own thoughts and emotions, parent accusing you of hurting them if you continue to feel the way you feel
parent changing their moods abruptly and inconsistently, never knowing how to approach them because they might be sweet but they might just snap and hurt you
always expecting to be hurt, no matter what you do
fretting the moment your parent comes home, reacting to any approaching noise with panic and feeling the urge to hide or quickly stop whatever you’re doing and be alert to their mood
having to comfort your parent and make it all okay for them even though they don’t do this for you
parent accusing you of being difficult and snapping at you when you’re struggling and dare to talk to them about it
parent acting like you’re expecting the impossible if you ask for help and understanding
not feeling safe coming to your parents with any problem or fear you have because they’re likely to dismiss you, humiliate you, say they already have enough problems without you, or tell you that you’re stupid and it’s your own fault
parents being so self-involved with their own emotions they expect you to only feel and do what is convenient for them, and never stop and consider what you are going thru
reading this list and already thinking of all the excuses for your parents doing this because you feel so guilty when you try to accuse them of anything and feel so much compassion for them and their situation it really feels unfair and cruel to hold them responsible for this, even though they’re absolutely, inevitably, going to continue hurting you like this, but you don’t feel important enough for them to stop acting this way and be parents to you
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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An Entertaining Introduction to Drag
There seems to be a lot of misunderstanding about the relationship between trans and drag. 
Some say that drag artists are not trans, they are “only” performers. 
Others argues strongly that drag is a clear expression of gender variance, and since transgender is an umbrella term for all kinds of  gender variance, all drag artists must be trans.
To me this disagreement is proof of our language being to poor and restrictive to capture the totality of gender.
Yes, many drag artists identify as their assigned gender, and that is fine.
Yes, many drag artists want to express another side of their gender identity and think of themselves as some shade of nonbinary.
And yes, many drag artists are identifying or will identify as their target gender and might even transition. That is also OK.
So drag is not an identity in the same way as cis or trans. It is a way of expressing and exploring gender through performance.
This video is from blairimani on Instagram, who writes:
While drag can sometimes reflect gender identity for some, drag itself is a performance of gender expression, not gender identity. Drag can often be weaponized against trans people, intending to invalidating their identities. Trans men are not “women in drag,” trans women are not “men in drag.“ Trans men are men, trans women are women, and nonbinary people are nonbinary.
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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blonde-sapphic · 2 years
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how did I end up so tired and so gay
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