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amoonalls · 8 months
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Air/Earth, Saturn ruled/Exalted Venus/Mars: Action Oriented in Romance
II have seen so many things going around in regards of romance and how relationship should be because everyone seems to have opinions about romance even the most cheesy ones
I think a lot of people seems to not realize that a lot of relationship advices are very philosophical. You need to be this so you can get that. The emphasized is "to be". But for Air/Earth, Saturn ruled/exalted Venus/Mars people, they do not need such philosophy. They need actual actions. Instead of "you need to be..." it should be "you need to do ..."
For people with these placements who seem to confused as to why their romance going nowhere, try to do actual steps instead of just waiting. Try things out and fail. Especially if you have Saturn ruled/exalted Venus/Mars. The actual steps will take you much further than waiting since you can actually review your errors throughout the way
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amoonalls · 1 year
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Scorpio Sun/Dominant People: Low Vibes People?
I have witnessed a lot of Scorpio Sun/dominant people a lot of times and I came to realization while many of them are nice, a lot of them can be be very low vibes
A lot of them can be really defensive and one noticeable trait that I pay attention is how they communicate from energy (water sign). Meaning it's SO apparent when they are jealous, dislike, want to hurt you. And another noticeable trait is they hold dear people that are closest to them like their kids or their bestfriends and they gonna attack those who they seem as threat to people closest to them even if.. they have nothing to do with these Scorpios
And I come to realization a lot of these Scorpio placements people can be fixated in their wrong way due to their fixed mode and refuse to hear or try something else, which is more mutable thing
Very interesting when I see the high vibe and low vibe version of signs
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amoonalls · 1 year
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How To Face Feminine Men When You Want A Masculine Men
When talking about masculine and feminine men, we could not put them all under same blanket cuz there are a lot of variations of them. And it's a fact that one woman may meet type of men that other women would never encounter in their life. Each is very unique depends on how you present yourself, where you are, how you act, and else. But on general term, masculine men refer to men that iniatiate everything and is willing to provide his resources to you esp financially. Meanwhile feminine men refers to men who would like to have women do things for them and they do little to none
What to do if you want a masculine man but you meet feminine man? Here is how:
1. You Tapping Into Feminine Energy By Being More Laidback
Law of Polarity exist. When you meet a feminine man what you have to do is by being more feminine by being more laidback and immersed into your life and caring less about him let alone want to cater him which is very masculine energy. He is left with option whether he has to use all shred of masculinity he still have within him or he's gonna leave. The thing is that being feminine woman means you have to care about your opinion and feelings more than you care about his. Female bird doesn't care if male bird have to destroy the nest he has built if it ruin his chance to get a female bird. The female bird will only accept the end result: the nest that she see as good enough for her. That also should be your approach. You don't care or care much less if a man decide to leave you or not but what you care is if the man is good enough for you or not. And it takes tons of objectivity, less about pitying yourself, less and less of abandonment issues, and so much more of trust in your own decision and universe's abudance.
2. Enjoying Your Own Life and Think A Lot Less About The Man
The thing is that you could never do that if you feel that your life sucks. What to enjoy from your life if you find that unbearable? But you could never run away from your life it's something you have to face. And inviting someone in this case is a man to misery in your life will most of the times makes the man make your life even more miserable esp if he's not masculine man. Masculine man that doesn't care about you will see your life as way too messy and leave you. What you should do? Remember that life is about cause and effect. Something happen cuz there is a cause. The good thing is you can be in power by making a cause. You make a good cause by deciding to do happy things in your life. Start from zero if you have to. Start from simplest thing. What do you want to do? Ohhh I wanna do makeup. Then move your way up from tbere. As you grow expanding yourself the more paths will show. And there are times when you may meet obstacles and frustation. But again remember about cause and effect. Once again till forever you make good cause
Afterall for now that's the advices I can think of. Feminine energy men tho oftentimes are found in water sign men esp Cancer and Pisces. They are more moveable in their polarity
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amoonalls · 1 year
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What I Have Learned About Men
1. The Way For Men to Choose or Chase You is By Them Putting You in Pedestal
The man has to see you as higher than him. I'm not talking about competing with a man, I'm talking about being better than man in something he could never do in this lifetime. And that's by being more beautiful and more feminine. Straight men won't be able to do that. Being smart and high achieving in career do work but this professional world is created for men. More often than not men are higher achiever than women. Then being prettier and more feminine is the thing you can do as a woman
2. It's Much Easier For You To Move On When You:
a. Giving Less or None to Men
When you are always in receiving end and you never make sacrifice for men, the only feeling you feel when you seperate with those men is some kind of regret or a lil lost cuz you used to have people do things for you but you no longer have that. But you don't have any kind of resentment because you lose nothing of your energy and resources. Look at those divorcee women or barbara the builder ex gf. What do they say when they crying about their loss? They always say "I did everything for him.. I was there for him when he was in broke and miserable, I paid for his tuition, I cleaned his house and now he left me for other women". You would never hear women crying and saying "I do nothing for him and he left me" cuz women do measure their emotional losses for how much they have given to men. But when men have given so much to you especially money.. you can break up with him thousand times and he will always want to come back. Men don't want to lose things and people they have invest in. You see tons of women have friendship breakup but you rarely see men having their bro breakup
b. Have Your Own Standard
The standard is not on specific person but on things. The standard is not Max but what Max have and do. The standard is not who Max is but how much money Max make and how much he gives to you. Loving someone for what they are is for woman not for man. For a man, partly you love them based on how much they give to you. So say that the standard is that you want a man that is able to give you like $2000 per month. That any man be it Max, Xavier, Dan that are able to give that to you will fall into that category. You can be hopeless romantic when it's toward yourself but when it's about man you have to be single focus. Doesn't care if a man has roster etc etc once the man has been proven to fulfill your standard, you go for that. And you may encounter men who fulfill your material standard but don't want you. Strong and confident women don't get insecure and have meltdown over that fact because as men's life get better their standard get better. Which is why I say there is more than just material standards. It also have to be emotional, mental, and genuine attraction and feelings toward you
3. Do Not Get Insecure On Things You Refuse To Do
So what? You get insecure of beautiful women a man follow on instagram but you refuse to work on yourself? You hate man for following sexy woman when you always keeping yourself look plain? Darling, do you think these sexy women will still be sexy if their feeds are contained with tnem wearing baggy clothes and with bed hair? Observe those women, they do everything to their looks and take the best efforts to take pics for them to be able to post a bombshell pic that a man like. Rather than being jealous toward those women, why don't you get inspired by them? Start observing what these women wear and how they take pics and do that to yourself while you find your best style. You can't hate on women who do so much to keep up with their looks when you are halfassing yourself. And these women have hella confidence for them to post their alluring pics on instagram. You can't be shy and stiff when being taken pic of and hoping it will come out as magnificent pic. Start being confident and post that then you will see you will care much less of those women you will never meet cuz you already become them
And why I use astrology tag? Because only Saturnian women learn about this. Saturn is brutal reality, love and romance are not just dreamy and beautiful things the whole dating can be harsh and cold and never be for faint hearted. Who is not the most perfect candidate to be able to tackle these challenges if it's not Saturnian women? They are accustomed for that. Which is why you see a lot of hypergamous women have prominent Saturn influences. Only strong women are able to tackle with those things when many people choose to be swept off by otherwordly love
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amoonalls · 1 year
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Pisces/12th House Placements Women: Getting with Most Toxic Men When Their Life Is in Dullness
I have explained in here before how Venus in 8th house or Scorpio/8th house women tend to have destructive relationship when their personal life is already bad or something not going right. However similar things also somehow happen to Pisces/12th house women esp Pisces/12th house Sun/Moon
I have noticed with Pisces/12th house placements though, the pattern usually show more in dullness of life. It's more to Pisces/12th house placements women are stuck in boring mundane activities or their life experience stagnancy that these women somehow seek escapism through the men (Venus influences of Pisces and 12th house too as house of escapism). Unfortunately the men that they meet is the most toxic
What's the difference between this and Scorpio/8th house women? Unfortunately sometimes Pisces/12th house women tend to take the malefic effects much harder than Scorpio/8th house placements. And the effects are more long term even forever if Pisces/12th house placements women refuse to fix things up. Especially a lot of Pisces/12th house placements even stuck in victim mentality which makes things a lot harder to fix
Pisces/12th house placements though esp Pisces tend to have lighter perception of life than Scorpio/8th house placements. Unfortunately their biggest enemy is the need to save other people and it's more to them want to heal people eventhough it's actually them that needs healing. Oftentimes they think by healing other people they are also being healed. This is often being preached by religious figure. But actually, healing other people comes with situation when the other people want to be healed and they are safe enough for you to heal them. But what actually happen in this case is that Pisces/12th house placements women tend to have poor measurement of what they can handle (Jupiter influences) that make them bite more than what they can chew. And the people that they want to heal are actually so poisonous and they can't even handle the poison. It's kinda same with wanting to bath a wild cat, but the cat is so wild instead of you manage to bath them, the cat actually scratch you and you end up being injured and the cat too hasn't been bath. So it's lose-lose situation, nobody get the good thing from that except lessons to not take things bigger than what you can handle
Hopefully this can be a lesson that not everything need to be fixed sometimes it's best to leave it like that
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amoonalls · 2 years
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To All My Readers
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Hello!
I have been actively posting in this blog for around a year now. I have created a lot of posts that cover various topics that I find interesting or on trending. I also have answered questions that come from ask feature and comments which I greatly appreciate. I love how most of my audiences are really kind and sweet❤️
My posts are original and all of them come from my in depth learning in other areas along with my personal experiences and I connect that to astrology because astrology can give explanations over things that may not have apparent pattern. Afterall, astrology is for explaining pattern and how we can proceed after that. In order of doing so, I spend a lot of time researching and put all ideas into writing that may take up some time
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After all, I appreciate the presence of my readers, kind words, and supports. Thank you!
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amoonalls · 2 years
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Astrology: How Morbid The Manifestation of Placements Can Be?
We all know that many people pull out the charts whenever strange or just out of mundane situatuon happen especially toward famous people. The death, serial killers being caught, robbery, and else. But how morbid astrology can be and can astrology potray all of that? Someone can born with difference of hours or day and they will have similar charts except rising, house placements, and maybe moon sign. But why their life can be completely different?
Someone's Mars conjunct Pluto may mean that they have strong urge to achieve whatever they want no matter how harsh the situation is. Someone else's Mars conjunct Pluto however can cause that person to be susceptible to violent done by other people. How come same aspect can cause differences but the difference is as sinister as that?
Here I'll explain the things
1. It Needs Super Astrologer to be Able To Read The Whole Charts
Yes I mean it as whole chart. Not just natal chart. But transits, synastry between natal chart and transit, any calculation of charts. Guess what, tropical is not the only system. There are 2 majorly known by people which are sidereal and vedic. There are tons of astrology calculation system and each of them have different range to cover various areas. Vedic have divisional chart and tropical and sidereal have persona chart. To be able to combine all of that, you have to be extremely skilled astrologer. And not everyone is capable to monitor every moment of their life nor predict that to littlest like that
2. Guess What, Other Factors Do Play Out
Other factors are various, which are your own good deeds, karmas that are inherited from your family, karmas that you do by yourself, people's good or malicious intentions toward you, and so many else. For some people, they may not have malicious people target them but others have that. Though it can be explain from natal chart, but like all things in life, usually it's you who experience things first then later you seek explanations from your chart. Then you realize that how bizzare situation is in your life, somehow your chart reflect that. You just don't know how bizzare things can get. And you are left with feeling surprised but also new knowledges. At least you can warn other people who potentially may go through similar things or you take those things as lesson for yourself to be prepared for next time
3. There Is Always Higher Power Who Watch You
Whoever you believe. Gods, Goddesses, Angels, other beings. They who make sure you are always in safe situation of life and go through streams of life with minimum friction. What you can do to connect with them? Pray, pray, and pray. Make good deeds to other people by helping and be positive energy plus inspiring for other people. That way, you are being protected so even with malefic effects that are represented by your chart, you still be able to make the best out of it with minimum wounds and even if you do come out with wounds, it can be healed fast. In vedic, you can do remedies for that. The power of prayer and good deeds may bring your further in life
Hope that helps!
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amoonalls · 2 years
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Hey! I actually have a similar aspect to the question you previously answered and that got me curious lol. How would you think Saturn retrograde and north node in the 5th house in gemini would manifest?
Saturn and North Node in 5th House
Hello!
If previous post is about the profession and placements, I assume your question is more on general because Saturn and North Node may not mean much in regards to profession unless Saturn is the ruler of 2nd house, 6th house, or 10th house or Saturn/North Node aspecting to MC
Saturn in 5th house is famous for making the natives have to grow faster even when they are supposedly still enjoy childhood. Saturn in 5th house too is said to make the natives not enjoy their hobbies or anything for pleasure without trying to monetize it. Combined that with Gemini it means that the position of Saturn and retrograde too make you struggle to enjoy easy things in life and feel as if you need to make serious of things that are supposedly to be fun
North Node in 5th house however emphasize the need to enjoy your creativity and any creative pursuit that bring fulfillment to your soul. Combined that with Gemini, creative pursuits can be vary according to mercurian trait: writing, poems, wordplay, podcast even, anything else
How to mediate such seemingly contradictive energy in your case? People often say that your difficulties are your strongest power. In this case, you can handle that by taking seriously creative pursuits that indeed are worth to be serious at. For example, if you see writing as lucrative, then take it seriously while still not being overly serious about that. For example, make that as your side hustle. Creative writing has many forms: copywriting, content writing, making scripts for videos, and else. Use that as one of your source of income without being burdened by it
In terms of romance, you know that you need to choose people that are filtered through standards (Saturn) while still maintain playful energy (Gemini) that may help you to become best version of yourself (North Node)
In terms of children, you know that you can be role model for them on when to be serious and responsible and also when to be fun and lighthearted
Retrograde oftentimes just mean that you need to do things 3x harder than people who have it in direct but again, your difficulties can become your strongest points
I hope that helps!
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amoonalls · 2 years
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Hi amoonalls!! I discovered your blog right now and I am so impressed with your knowledge. I have a question for you, can you give me some advice/ explanation about Saturn being in the same placement and house as my NN?
I have Saturn and NN in gemini 9th and I am so stupid in those areas. I have problems with communication, teaching, learning and adhd. Some teachers told me a long time ago that I should be a teacher and right now I'm studying this in college. I don't know if this was the right decision, I feel like I will never be able to live like my NN because Saturn is in the same place. What do you think?
Saturn and North Node in Same House
Hello!
Thank you so much for the compliments😊
About Saturn and North Node in same house (in this case is 9th house) and you have difficutly in those areas is exactly how the planets operate when they haven't been dealt carefully and in depth
Both Saturn and North Node are about lessons you are pushed to master in this life and as any other lessons, none of that is easy. I don't say it's impossible to learn or it needs lifetime to do that, the lesson maybe quite simple but you just haven't find way to unlock the solutions
Saturn and North Node can be great helper when we have learned about that. For example is this. People who have Saturn in 7th house is said to have difficulties in relationship. Many says they would always experience failure and disappoinments in their relationship. Many too say that they will be married after their Saturn return which is aroumd 30 yo or more
Does that mean nobody with Saturn in 7th house marry before 30 yo? Absolutely no. There are billion of people in this world and probably thousands or even more people with Saturn in 7th house. I know people with 7th house Saturn in serious relationship before 25 yo and would get married before 30 yo as well
The reason it happens is cuz they have mastered the lesson and the lesson may be as simple as they have to have standards in relationship and take their relationship seriously by meeting many more quality people. While other people with easier placements may not have to try really hard to get into quality relationship
In your case about difficulty with communication, teaching, learning, and having adhd, perhaps the solutions are that you need extra efforts on that. For example, you need to consult on how to mitigate the adhd, you have to take additional courses on communication and teachings, and you have to try various method of learning until you find one that perfectly fit for you
As for if teaching is right career for you, you need to observe your 6th house and 10th house. But if your Saturn or North Node aspecting 10th house, there is high probability that teaching is right career for you, you just have to put extra efforts on that. And to not be afraid to try things out even it may not be working out at first
Hope that helps and good luck!
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amoonalls · 2 years
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Hello 🤗
Which career should be taken by someone having a Virgo stellium & MC in Aries?
Hope my question wasn't that complicated💕
Career Tips for Virgo Stellium and MC in Aries
Hello!
Any career that are based on intellectual pursuits (Virgo stellium) and require you to move a lot and take so much challenges (Aries MC) my dear
We can talk about so many professions since it depends on what you truly like and people may have similar astrology placements but what they want to choose is different since it's all depends on their free will
You also have to mention your 6th house and the planets in there so we can see what you can endure in daily basis
But I can list professions like this:
1. Engineers
2. Accounting, Auditor, Business people
3. Mathematicians
4. Lecturers
5. Business owner (especially on risk based profession that's displayed by Aries MC though I'm not sure your Virgo stellium can tolerate that in long run without some safer options)
6. Hustlers (have 2 or more professions at once). Can be one is 9-5 corporate job and other one is business
Hope that helps!
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amoonalls · 2 years
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hiiii pls j tell me how to make him fall in love 😭
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How to Make Someone Fall In Love With You (Astrology Perspectives)
You can't make someone fall in love with you darling
But I can teach you to have people who have high potential to fall in love with you. So you never have to beg from someone who is incompatible with you nor incapable to give what you want
Though I also can teach you to touch some people's spots so they may have additional attraction for you though I do think it's much better to be with people who are already compatible with you so that you don't have to do much of hardwork. Work smart, not harder
I'll start from the first:
How to Have People Who Have High Potential to Fall in Love With You
1. Look at the signs and planetary ruler of your Venus and Mars
For ex, you have Capricorn Venus and Libra Mars. Both are ruled by Saturn (Capricorn is domicile in Saturn and Libra is exaltation in Saturn). That means people who have heavy Saturn ruled (Capricorn or Aquarius) may have high potential to fall in love with you. Like attract like
2. Look at the house of your Venus and Mars
For example, you have Venus in 8th house and Mars in 4th house. You have both Venus and Mars in water house. That means you desire to have intimacy and deep emotional connections. That also means, heavy water people are compatible for you since they are capable to give what you want
3. Observe your own behaviors and overall beings
Are you eccentric? Are you unconventional? Aqua placements people may be glued to you. Are you bratz? Do you love to be glamorous? Venusian ruled (Libra/7th house or Taurus/2nd house) people may be attracted to you. Are you secretive or mysterious? Are you like onions who take times to be peeled and not everyone willing to do that cuz even if they do want that, it needs certain tricks without them end up shedding tears. Then Scorpio/8th house/Plutonic people would be in first row to take the challenges. Are you a caring and motherly individual? Then Cancer/4th house people would be drawn to you. Are you dreamy and idealistic person? Then Pisces/12th house people will find solace in you
All you need is to realize who you are at the core and seek for people who can appreciate you. But as we are talking about preferences here, I'm going to touch on possibility of the person you sent the chart to me's likeness
Gemini Sun, Leo Moon, Taurus Mercury/Venus, Aquarius Mars, Virgo Rising
1. He seeks for someone that's intellectually stimulating and have good sense of humour. He wants people to know every bits of informationa and are street smart (Gemini Sun and Virgo Rising)
2. He wants people who know how to treat him like he's in throne and make him feels good about himself (Leo Moon, Taurus Mercury/Venus)
3. He wants unconventional and bold people who are not afraid to speak and behave as what they believe. Don't afraid to take risk either (Aquarius Mars)
4. He loves ladies who put so much attention to themselves in terms of face, nails, clothes, hair, and else. He appreciate grooming and beauty (Leo Moon, Taurus Mercury/Venus)
5. He wants to chase women or he would let himself being chased but it's just for his ego stroke without it leading to something serious (all of his placements, especially Leo Moon)
Hopefully that helps!
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amoonalls · 2 years
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Hi. In Your opinion, what aspects are soulmate aspects in synastry and in composite chart, or maybe give the vibe” us against the world”? Thanks.💖
Morticia & Gomez Addams Vibe in Synastry/Composite (Us Vs World)
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Hello!
When talking about synastry/composite that gives "us against world" behaviors, it also has to be considered from natal chart. Because not everyone is capable of deeply obsessive with other people. That's just fact. And there are multiple reasons why they are incapable of that. The reasons are: it's not their inherent characters, they are not modeled to be like that, and they are incommital
Natal Chart Placements or Aspects
From natal chart perspectives, individuals that are capable to give "us against world" vibe once they merger their soul to other people are:
1. Water Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars/IC/DC or Planets in Traditionally Water House which means Scorpio/8th house, Pisces/12th house, Cancer/4th house Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars
2. Water placements stellium or stellium in traditionally water house
3. Combination with fire placements (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) especially in Moon or Mars
4. Pluto aspecting Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars/IC/DC or Pluto situated in IC/DC
5. Neptune aspecting Venus/Mars
6. Venus/Mars aspects though it's said that these aspects take consideration of someone's physical attractiveness in order to serve intense energy but on default, they are capable to be intense. Neptune and Pluto are more to intoxicated energy
Synastry/Composite Overlays or Aspects
1. 8th house synastry, this is undebatable
2. Has to be combined with 7th house either synastry or composite to give official commitments and monogamous energy
3. 4th house synastry or composite, this is married couple energy
4. Heavy Pluto aspects to Sun/Moon/Mars/Venus/IC/DC
5. 10th house synastry for show off couples. 8th house synastry is more to undercover energy a lot of times though somehow people already know things going on between couple and some may have audacity to interfere but mostly people just left with assuming. It's different with 12th house synastry when people can be so clueless about what's going on between couple or never even think two people can become couple. Typical hidden marriages
6. 1st house synastry also works for showing off couple. Jupiter aspecting AC in synastry or composite
7. 2nd house synastry/composite for the feeling of posessiveness and ownerships. More prevalent in other people's eyes than 8th house sometimes but usually 8th house synastry/composite also have 2nd house synastry/composite going on
Hope that helps!
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amoonalls · 2 years
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hi
please write a post on paranormal encounters, esoteric, supernatural, otherworldly experiences of 8th house.
Occults Aspects of 8th House
Hello!
8th house indeed deals with all paranormal, supernatural, esoteric, and everything since it's domain of 8th house along with 8th house. However, not every 8th house natives even stellium will experience that
People who experience those supernatural problems usually have more vulnerable placements in their life. For ex is Pisces/12th house placements or Cancer placements sometimes. Neptune in 8th house too may make the natives become more vulnerable to supernatural attacks. But there are indeed plenty of 8th house natives don't experience that at all on personal level
But what 8th house natives have in common is that they have brush of occult worlds even if they are not deep into that. Can be as simple as living around people who practice occult, experience that, talking about that, seeing ghosts, but nothing more malicious than that. What I mean as malicious is when the native experience supernatural attacks that can come in many forms: jinx, hex, entities attached, inherited entities from bloodlines, and so many things
Usually for extreme case like supernatural attacks happen is also indicated by transit that happen in native's chart. For example, transiting Pluto conjunct the natives' planets in 8th house or 12th house. In vedic, Ketu or Saturn dasha may be able to cause this effect though usually it depends on placemsnts of Ketu and Saturn. This can also be activated by the synastry of the native and the person who send jinx or hex. Usually they have 8th house, 12th house synastry and/or heavy Pluto/Neptunian energy. For malefic situations to happen in astrology standpoint, there has to be combination from various ways: native's own natal chart, transit or dashas period, and the synastry/composite between the natives and the culrpit who do that to the natives
But as we are talking about this, I do wish that none of my readers here practice black magic in order to hurt other people. Let the karmas do that naturally without you having to participate that. Based on what I hear from people who are expertise in this, it can harm your descendants and whole bloodline.
Hope that helps!
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amoonalls · 2 years
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🥀🐻‍❄️ ASTRO OBSERVATIONS XXIV🥀🐻‍❄️
Scorpio/8th house placements esp Scorpio Sun or 8th house Sun men will always think that you cheat. It's also somehow that they are always being faced with situations where the people they are attracted to seems to be around so many potential competitors or infidelity seems to be there meanwhile it's not always like that. Sometimes the energy can make the situation seems evoking paranoid for these natives
Bonus if the synastry between both parties are activated with 8th house/Plutonic synastry
2nd & 8th house synastry deals with posessiveness in terms of sense of ownership coming between one or both parties. Usually one of them will collect the belongings of the other party or just use it everywhere like accolades. One party can have tendency to take picture or film the other party
Leo placements need to have extra attention on themselves. Mocking Leo placements' body or physical appearances is gonna be one of Leo's hardest hit. Other placements like Sagittarius or mutable placements in general may laugh it off but if you pick on Leo placements' physical appearances, it will attack right to their self confidence
Company-employee synastry is so important because one employee can have quite major different experiences with other employees despite being in same company or even department. Company-employee synastry may also explain the benefits you may get from that company either material or non material one like skils, networks, and else
Scorpio/8th house placements people especially prominent ones, stellium that involved Sun, and also have Plutonian aspect tend to give innate feeling of security in romantic and friendship. Less likely the other party question about these natives' feelings or motives. However due to fixed sign nature, it almost impossible to change their mind unless they want to and most of the times with all fixed sign, you get what you see and you deal with things at face value
However same energy usually doesn't exist in air placements especially Aquarius and Gemini. Bonus if they also have Libra placements. Especially if they are air dominant. These air placements unfortunately always fail to give effortless feelings of security to the other party so the other party always think that these signs are uncommital, cheating, and flirting. Unfortunately the allegation is not truly wrong as many of these natives are immature so they defend their flirtiness as their nature and refuse to change that
Which is why learning about your natal chart is very important. From your Venus, Mars, 7th house, 5th house including the signs, ruler, planets, aspects, you become to know the type of people you want to be involved romantically or friendship which is why when you are incompatible, you just end things rather than trying to convince other party to become something they refuse to do. Recognizing your own pattern means you may be able to seek someone that is similar with you and since you are alike, the whole thing may become smooth
It's Venus-Pluto men that are extremely obsessive, possessive, and may do some stalking either cyber or offline
Venusian (Libra or Taurus) placements men tend to pay extra attention on women's looks. They are the one who pay attention to shape, color, or dirt in your nail, your hair texture, the body shape, smell, and else. However the same thing may not be the attention of Aqua placements men unless they have significant Venus influences like 2nd house placements. Scorpio placements men especially stellium also don't really notice about this since many of them put emphasize on emotional intensity
In other words, Scorpio stellium placements men especially if it involves Sun may tolerate women's physical messiness more than men with other placements as long as the women have unwavering loyalty and intensity within themselves and toward these Scorpio stellium men and somehow patient enough to be with them, which not every woman is capable to do that
The thirst to consume other people emotionally, mentally, and physically even exist in Scorpio Sun men with Scorpio stellium and with Pluto aspects or 8th house
Sagittarius placements women especially Sun or Mars tend to be into jokes a lot and generally funny in messy way. They tend to be crack jokes without even intending to. Gemini placements' jokes tend to be calculated, word plays, and witty but Sagittarius placements' jokes are brash, messy, and almost always clown likes
Sense of familiarty and comfort present in 4th house synastry. Long term relationship sometimes need the presence of 4th house and 6th house. It's one of generally indication of long term relationship. Saturn synastry sometimes only indicate long term in terms of lessons, not necessarily the relationship itself. Relationship, friendship, or any kind of relation need the comfort and security aspect so that it doesn't become toxic and unbearable. 4th house and 6th house in this case are the glue
4th house synastry may also make you to be with people that you are comfortable with emotionally and mentally. Somehow, sometimes you can see the natives you are involved with as equal or lower, which can be true or subjective. Unlike 8th house or 12th house synastry especially that can make you deal with people out of your league, 4th house synastry can make you deal with people you feel are in your level, eventhough may not necessarily so (they actually can be higher than you). Like any other water synastry, it's the feeling that predominate the perception of the natives even if in reality it doesn't reflect so
Which is why for hypergamous community, it's important to be in relationship or dating with someone who has 4th house synastry with you. You may be in different level of wealth and status with them, but you are less likely to feel insecure with them or feel like you don't deserve them. Also make sure 6th house or 8th house synastry present with just one or two planets of 8th house synastry. 8th house synastry make you be spoiled financially but it's from 4th house or 6th house synastry where the sense of providing come. Especially from planet person to house person. The vice versa still work similarly. 7th house synastry may also important if you want to continue that to marriage
Heavy water sign men usually are more subjective when it comes to romance. Others may see that they have wealth, looks, and anything else that can make them choose more beautiful and wealthier women but somehow they choose the woman they like despite the external qualities may be seen less than other women. Feelings and connection somehow are more important for these men and their own perception toward women. Which can be helpful if you do want to practice hypergamy
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amoonalls · 2 years
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Balancing 2nd-8th House Axis: Material & Occult World
In my previous posts, I have talked about balancing 6th-12th house. In this post, I'm going to talk about one of most interesting axis I have seen
2nd house and 8th house on the surface seems similar. Both deals with finance and in synastry, both indicates possessiveness and some type of ownership
But in other areas, they are totally different things. 2nd house deals with Venusian matters: beauty, self worth, our own finance and income meanwhile 8th deals with occult, supernaturals, death, and all kind of misteries
2nd-8th house is one of the axis that's the most difficult to balance. In fact, majority of people tend to either in one side or another. If people are so focused with their material life (2nd house), they are so busy with generating income that occult is laughable for them. If the others are so busy with occult world (8th house), they almost live in hermitic life that generating income and having material posessions as to cars, house, clothes, or even pay attention to the beauty and looks is not a thing for them
Unfortunately, 8th house is one of the most difficult house to deal other than 12th house. Dealing with occults, everyone can get drowned into that and forget about their material life. Meanwhile we as human need our material life so much because that's what our body need, we are not just spirits. You can see people who dedicate their whole life to occults to unhealthy level sometimes make their whole life into occult they don't even make sense anymore or something dangerous happen to them.
How to balance this axis? When you go hard in occult and esoteric world, you also have to balance that hard in 2nd house. You are allowed to entertain your interest in esoteric and occult to safe mode because occult is not for everyone and the danger of occult can be so malefic that it's hard to be undo because not everyone has capability to do that. Going hard on 2nd house means that you have to pay attention to your income, material posessions, and your beauty. Go grab multiple streams of income by having regular job, business, or other hustles. Build your material possessions by having your own vehicles, house or apartment, other assets. Learn so much about finance and do have good financial literacy. Pay big attention to your beauty. Go to salon, nail bars, eyelashes therapists, beauty clinics, and else
People who balance their 2nd-8th house axis usually have smooth sailing in their 8th house abode. Which is why as you see, a lot of times people especially ladies that are into occults and esoteric are really beautiful by themselves. They get their hair styled with highlights, their nails are on point, their makeup is great, they put extra attention in their fashion, they may as well one of good beauty consultant, and else. A lot of them may even undergo cosmetic procedures. That's because balancing your depthness in 8th house with 2nd house may help you so much to still get in touch with reality that you don't get lost in 8th house abode
Balancing seemingly two different worlds is very important in our lives
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Hi amoonalls,
In your post "Irrational Obsession Meant to Let Go", you mention that the subject of obsession is someone who has a very crappy emotional life.
I know of the emotional life of water placements but how do you identify the emotional life of air/fire/earth placements? How can we know how someone feels based on their birth chart? Crocodile tears, fake empathy, spiritual narcissism, love bombing are real, right -- how do we know what they are feeling?
Thank you!
Signs of Crappy Emotional Life in Elements
Hello!
Here I will explain how the signs act out based on crappy emotional life
AIR PLACEMENTS: Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius
1. AQUA
The signs of air placements have crappy emotional life especially Aquarius placements are signified with their dissatisfaction of life and detachment. Aquarius and Libra too if we consider Saturn as exalatation in Libra tend to impose strict standards to their own personal life especially school and career. When they are not in where they want to be and Aquarius as fixed sign tend to swallow that harder and may refuse to accept that in order to attract more we need to be content with what we have right now no matter what, their dissatisfaction and inability to act out the best of their characters tend to leak into romance as well. Aquarius that is not good position in life tend to be a really terrible partner. They can be very detached and rather unfulfilling for their partner plus refusal of commitment especially getting with clingy partner eventhough they also don't want to let go the people (consider Leo in 7th house derivatively that always in need of attention from people closest to them). They can be very pushy too by putting big expectations on other people and make other people to fulfill that regardless if these natives capable to do the same or not but mostly would never be able to
2. GEMINI
Gemini placements when they are in crappy emotional state tend to be very frustating for people around them especially Gemini Moon. They have tendency to blame the situations or other people and because they have air moon meaning that less likely they are capable of dissecting their emotions deeply feeling wise, they tend to put out their emotions out there in terms of constant talking with no solutions or demeaning other people which can be hurtful for other people especially if these natives are also immature. The bad natives have potential to be gaslighter and manipulator unfortunately and tend to be very careless of other people as well. Gemini placements unfortunately tend to be emotionally dumping a lot which leads other people being so burdened around them and many Gemini placements in this situation unfortunately refuse to take actions to change that which leads to them ranting and only ranting
3. LIBRA
Libra placements when they are in crappy emotional life as for the effects for other people (consider 7th house Aries derivatively) tend to fall into narcissism to support their already broken self-confidence. They tend to be in desire to attract many suitors eventho they are playing with them and immature ones will drag their peers so that these natives will be seen as attractive in eyes of suitors. There is also tendency to think that everyone have crush on them including someone who's romantically involved with these natives' friends. The level of delusion in romance can be so alarming like that when they are not feeling good with themselves
FIRE PLACEMENTS: Sagittarius, Leo, and Aries
1. SAGITTARIUS
Sagittarius is very famous with their unruly mouth especially Sagittarius Mercury. When Sagittarius has crappy emotional life, their mouth tend to be sharper than any knife, recklessly mock people even to the degree of physical attributes with the goal to hurt other people. Sagittarius can be one of the most immature sign when they don't have good emotional life and especially male Sagittarius refuse to realize and change their behaviors. They have tendency to humiliate someone in front of other people, in public even, making that someone as a joke. Sagittarius can be a very ruthless speaker and most of them even don't realize how terribly wrong it is to pick someone's physical lackness and make that as a joke
2. LEO
Leo with crappy emotional life tend to be in love with quipping. They tend to pick on other people by saying unfavorable things to make other people question about themselves. While Sagittarius do mockery openly, Leo in relation to to other people can be quite passive aggresive in terms of mockery. Usually, Leo's crappy emotional life rooted in their incapabilities to see the good in their life and they are also one of signs that feel that not having good career or achievements at school threaten their self-confidence thus they kinda like projecting to other people (Virgo in 2nd house derivatively make career being so important for them). Leo has big needs to make people admire them and usually too, admiration from other people is one of Leo's biggest love language and eventually it's what makes Leo be able to like other people. They can't deal with people who have no interest in them, they need to feel good about themselves
3. ARIES
They can be very physically rude unfortunately especially when they have crappy emotional life. They are one of the signs that can go as far as hitting people or having big arguments in public with other people. There are a lot of Aries placements people will punch other people or wrestle in public if they are insulted. The need to let out their anger can be very big. Be careful that very immature Aries placements especially Aries placements men can be physically abusive
EARTH PLACEMENTS: Taurus, Capricorn, and Virgo
1. TAURUS
Taurus is one of the signs where they can be discriminating in terms of looks. Meaning that they will treat people better if those people have better looks and may not very kind to people who in their opinion are not as attractive. Many of them are upfront with the fact that they need to have attractive friends and partner. They can be type of someone who appreciate more on looks, status, and how they speak rather than the actual people's skills unfortunately.
2. CAPRICORN
Capricorn when having crappy emotional life tend to be biggest debbie downer. There is no need to tell them about your aspiration if you want to get support from crappy Capricorn placements because what will likely to happen is that they will cut through your dreams to pieces. They are not the best person to trust you when you are still nothing so better come to more emotionally supportive water placements if you want to receive kind of unwavering emotional supports
3. VIRGO
They can be very critical and neurotic when they have crappy emotional life. Nothing you do is good in front of them when they have crappy emotional life. They tend to be controlling as well and same with Capricorn placements, not the best person to ask support from when you are still nothing and also a huge debbie downer. Virgo tend to be harsh on themselves and can have refusal to change that which affects to their harsh treatments to other people
Crocodile tears tend to be a behavior coming from water and/or fire placements, spiritual narcissism tend to come from air signs and water placements a lot of times, fake emphaty comes from air and earth placements since most of them unable to feel emphaty when they don't respect the other people, and love bombing usually comes from fire, air, and/or water placements
How we know about that though is by observing their chart and see what's their dominant energy based on their chart and how they act. Which most of the times can be rooted based on how our synastry with them. Someone can act dominantly like certain sign to one person and other signs to other people though on layout wise, they display same signs over and over. Unfortunately to know how they feel is based on our keen observations, the courage to believe what we see and feel from themselves, and our experiences with other people that may have similar placements to them because astrology placements are like boxes so people who belong in same boxes (in this case is sign or house) tend to act similar and whether they want to break from bad characters or not that are associated with their signs depend on their own willingness and it may take lifetime for people to change their bad characters or if they go through major existensial crisis or depression that may make them being pushed to change their behaviors drastically. In other words, sometimes drastic change in behaviors are caused by drastic circumstances as well
Hope that helps!
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Astrology: When Is It Being Useful or The Boost of Neurotism?
We all know that astrology is one of most favored divination, forecasting, self-reflecting tool of all time. Many people from almost all generations drawn to learn about astrology and astrology is the cause that people form tons of community
But when it comes to interpreting astrology including natal chart, synastry, especially transit, it can boost people's neurotism. Same with cartomancy especially tarot. How to differ if astrology is useful or source of neurotism?
Here I'll explain the differences:
ASTROLOGY: Useful
When you are being able to know yourself in deeper level that your parents, family, friends, or even therapist could never do. The astrologers or people who read it are talented for that and in this case, it's important for you to also try to learn about astrology to help yourself know more
When astrology becomes your pursuit of learning. Astrology is filled with traditions, philosophies, thoughts. You are not just learning about stars, you also learn about beliefs and the way of living some people before you have lived. You may grow into more resourceful person
When astrology becomes a way for you to help other people understand more about themselves. You may take charge for that which help you a lot in finance department and it's fine as long as you are ethical in doing that since you deal with people's emotions
When astrology makes you meet likeminded people. In this case, you are joined community that may support you including in other areas. You may as well meet people who are very different with the ones that you usually interact in your daily life
When you don't fully depend on astrology and use that as a tool to help you
ASTROLOGY: Neurotism
When you can't do activities because of retrograde planets and you refuse to do things before checking your chart. There is almost always malefic influence going on in chart but it will be beaten if there are many positive planets. And life is depended on your mindset. If you always believe things will be bad without convincing yourself otherwise, it actually may intensify the effects. It can rip off your natural skills to handle situations calmly
When you check on synastry so much before you form close relationship or dating someone. Synastry is useful if you want to know someone on deeper level. However, one placement has tons of different interpretations. No matter how skilled you are as astrologer, if you let your neurotism drive you in talking or dating someone, you will lose the chance to learn more about certain placements through that person's real actions. You also tend to act bad right on the spot when you read someone's potentially bad placements esp if you already have bad experiences with them. Part of relating with other human is to control the level of your expectation and disappoinment. It takes bravery in relation with other people without instantly crumble when things go sour. Checking on synastry is important as a warning, but act on it without seeing the real action is not doing good for you
When you start connecting everything to astrology without seeing it's appropriate to do so or not. Not many people can understand astrology and it's best to not do astrology in the way it will add bad stereotypes to that. Astrology should be helpful
When you are very afraid of bad omens that come from your transit chart or solar return chart. Rarely the chart will be so malefic and most things will have better outcome if we have better strength to handle and always do the best in any occassions. We have control over our own life and some solar return chart may seem good but if you don't learn how to have better strength and the belief that things will working out good for you, it may go bad. Remember, we get what we think we deserve
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