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80% of "passing" is having enough money to purchase the clothes and services that will allow you to pass. Please stop holding being able to stealth up as the pinnacle of trans achievement. That place belongs to surviving. It belongs to finding joy. It belongs to love and community, not people who are rich enough to have professional makeup artists and tailors.

Hey can we queers please remember that the rural queer experience has unique challenges thanks

"ah they're talking quite a lot in spanish in this scene let me turn on subtitles to make it a bit easier on myself"

subtitles: [YELLS IN SPANISH]

when is comes to asexuality and aromanticism you have to be okay with contradiction. one ace person will say asexuality is about not experiencing attraction, another will say it’s about not caring to act on attraction, another will say it’s not experiencing arousal. one aromantic will consider themself queer, one won’t. two people with seemingly identical experiences will use two different labels. aro people will be in romantic relationships, ace people will have sex. you get it.

SO SEND MY RESIGNATION TO THE BRIDE AND THE GROOM

Passing privilege doesn't exist and claiming it does is fed talk meant to divide the trans community.

Transandrophobia is real and denying its existence because "xyz oppression is worse" is fed talk meant to divide the trans community.

Transmisogynoir is real and denying its existence because "intersectionality doesn't work like that" is fed talk meant to divide the trans community.

Exorsexism is real and denying its existence because "it's just misdirected transphobia" is fed talk meant to divide the trans community.

Denying and minimizing your trans siblings' experience is what they want you to do. Quit falling for it.

This is the English word I want to get tattooed on my wrist. It means “to keep breathing even though the water rises all around you.” English is such a mystical exotic language. They can fit so much meaning into so small a word.

sometimes i feel like people forget autism is a disability. and that’s not a bad thing! i’m all for disability acceptance, im proud of my disabilities. but i feel like we forget autism can hurt.

it hurts that i have to put more time and energy into socializing than others.

it hurts when i need to move so bad, usually cause im overwhelmed by either my surroundings or emotions, that i thrash and hurt myself.

it hurts that i cant be in places that are too loud or too bright, which on bad days can be as simple as a small, quiet noise or dim lights.

it hurts that i struggle to tell when im hungry, thirsty, tired, etc. so i can’t properly take care of myself. it doesn’t help my insomnia and i get very nauseas and get UTIs.

i 100% believe in autism acceptance. i don’t want a cure. but i also want us the acknowledge that it can hurt. it doesn’t mean my entire life will hurt, but some parts will. and i want a community where we can see both sides, see the hurt, and celebrate it anyway.

yall do realize just because something has been a target of misogynistic criticism, that doesn't make stanning it completely uncritically in response some kind of revolutionary feminist praxis. right.

do you have any gender related tips

get a big pair of boots

I will open the fucking TikTok app just to watch this video multiple times

top surgery scar tattoos underneath my tits that are very clearly still attached to my body

nothing i love more than pictures of drag queens with their boyfriends where they’re 6 feet tall in full glam six inch platform heels and a wig twice as big as their head and the boyfriend is a cool 5’8” and overjoyed to be there

sauropod dancer. digital charcoal and pastel on textured paper

I am a friend to all cats. Yes even the mean ones. They have their reasons.